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类别:其他 作者:JOHN STUART MILL字数:89878更新时间:19/01/05 16:26:25
Manufacturershavestoodinthepilloryforpresumingtocarryontheirbusiness bynewandimprovedmethods。InmodernEurope,andmostinthosepartsof itwhichhaveparticipatedmostlargelyinallothermodernimprovements, diametricallyoppositedoctrinesnowprevail。Lawandgovernmentdonotundertake toprescribebywhomanysocialorindustrialoperationshallorshallnot beconducted,orwhatmodesofconductingthemshallbelawful。Thesethings arelefttotheunfetteredchoiceofindividuals。Eventhelawswhichrequired thatworkmenshouldserveanapprenticeship,haveinthiscountrybeenrepealed: therebeingampleassurancethatinallcasesinwhichanapprenticeship isnecessary,itsnecessitywillsufficetoenforceit。Theoldtheorywas, thattheleastpossibleshouldbelefttothechoiceoftheindividualagent; thatallhehadtodoshould,asfaraspracticable,belaiddownforhim bysuperiorwisdom。Lefttohimselfhewassuretogowrong。Themodernconviction, thefruitofathousandyearsofexperience,is,thatthingsinwhichthe individualisthepersondirectlyinterested,nevergorightbutasthey arelefttohisowndiscretion;andthatanyregulationofthembyauthority, excepttoprotecttherightsofothers,issuretobemischievous。Thisconclusion slowlyarrivedat,andnotadopteduntilalmosteverypossibleapplication ofthecontrarytheoryhadbeenmadewithdisastrousresult,now(inthe industrialdepartment)prevailsuniversallyinthemostadvancedcountries, almostuniversallyinallthathavepretensionstoanysortofadvancement。 Itisnotthatallprocessesaresupposedtobeequallygood,orallpersons tobeequallyqualifiedforeverything;butthatfreedomofindividualchoice isnowknowntobetheonlythingwhichprocurestheadoptionofthebest processes,andthrowseachoperationintothehandsofthosewhoarebest qualifiedforit。Nobodythinksitnecessarytomakealawthatonlyastrong—armed manshallbeablacksmith。Freedomandcompetitionsufficetomakeblacksmiths strong—armedmen,becausetheweakarmedcanearnmorebyengaginginoccupations forwhichtheyaremorefit。Inconsonancewiththisdoctrine,itisfelt tobeanoversteppingoftheproperboundsofauthoritytofixbeforehand, onsomegeneralpresumption,thatcertainpersonsarenotfittodocertain things。Itisnowthoroughlyknownandadmittedthatifsomesuchpresumptions exist,nosuchpresumptionisinfallible。Evenifitbewellgroundedin amajorityofcases,whichitisverylikelynottobe,therewillbeaminority ofexceptionalcasesinwhichitdoesnothold:andinthoseitisbothan injusticetotheindividuals,andadetrimenttosociety,toplacebarriers inthewayoftheirusingtheirfacultiesfortheirownbenefitandforthat ofothers。Inthecases,ontheotherhand,inwhichtheunfitnessisreal, theordinarymotivesofhumanconductwillonthewholesufficetopreventtheincompetentpersonfrommaking,orfrompersistingin,theattempt。Ifthisgeneralprincipleofsocialandeconomicalscienceisnottrue; ifindividuals,withsuchhelpastheycanderivefromtheopinionofthose whoknowthem,arenotbetterjudgesthanthelawandthegovernment,of theirowncapacitiesandvocation;theworldcannottoosoonabandonthis principle,andreturntotheoldsystemofregulationsanddisabilities。 Butiftheprincipleistrue,weoughttoactasifwebelievedit,andnot toordainthattobebornagirlinsteadofaboy,anymorethantobeborn blackinsteadofwhite,oracommonerinsteadofanobleman,shalldecide theperson’spositionthroughalllife——shallinterdictpeoplefromall themoreelevatedsocialpositions,andfromall,exceptafew,respectable occupations。Evenwerewetoadmittheutmostthatiseverpretendedato thesuperiorfitnessofmenforallthefunctionsnowreservetothem,the sameargumentapplieswhichforbidsalegalqualificationforMembersof Parliament。Ifonlyonceinadozenyearstheconditionsofeligibilityexclude afitperson,thereisarealloss,whiletheexclusionofthousandsofunfit personsisnogain;foriftheconstitutionoftheelectoralbodydisposes themtochooseunfitpersons,therearealwaysplentyofsuchpersonsto choosefrom。Inallthingsofanydifficultyandimportance,thosewhocan dothemwellarefewerthantheneed,evenwiththemostunrestrictedlatitude ofchoice:andanylimitationofthefieldofselectiondeprivessociety ofsomechancesofbeingservedbythecompetent,withouteversavingitfromtheincompetent。Atpresent,inthemoreimprovedcountries,thedisabilitiesofwomen aretheonlycase,saveone,inwhichlawsandinstitutionstakepersons attheirbirth,andordainthattheyshallneverinalltheirlivesbeallowed tocompeteforcertainthings。Theoneexceptionisthatofroyalty。Persons stillareborntothethrone;noone,notofthereigningfamily,canever occupyit,andnooneevenofthatfamilycan,byanymeansbutthecourse ofhereditarysuccession,attainit。Allotherdignitiesandsocialadvantages areopentothewholemalesex:manyindeedareonlyattainablebywealth, butwealthmaybestrivenforbyanyone,andisactuallyobtainedbymany menoftheveryhumblestorigin。Thedifficulties,tothemajority,areindeed insuperablewithouttheaidoffortunateaccidents;butnomalehumanbeing isunderanylegalban:neitherlawnoropinionsuperaddartificialobstacles tothenaturalones。Royalty,asIhavesaid,isexcepted:butinthiscase everyonefeelsittobeanexception——ananomalyinthemodernworld,in markedoppositiontoitscustomsandprinciples,andtobejustifiedonly byextraordinaryspecialexpediences,which,thoughindividualsandnations differinestimatingtheirweight,unquestionablydoinfactexist。Butin thisexceptionalcase,inwhichahighsocialfunctionis,forimportant reasons,bestowedonbirthinsteadofbeingputuptocompetition,allfree nationscontrivetoadhereinsubstancetotheprinciplefromwhichthey nominallyderogate;fortheycircumscribethishighfunctionbyconditions avowedlyintendedtopreventthepersontowhomitostensiblybelongsfrom reallyperformingit;whilethepersonbywhomitisperformed,theresponsible minister,doesobtainthepostbyacompetitionfromwhichnofull—grown citizenofthemalesexislegallyexcluded。Thedisabilities,therefore, towhichwomenaresubjectfromthemerefactoftheirbirth,arethesolitary examplesofthekindinmodernlegislation。Innoinstanceexceptthis,which comprehendshalfthehumanrace,arethehighersocialfunctionsclosedagainst anyonebyafatalityofbirthwhichnoexertions,andnochangeofcircumstances, canovercome;forevenreligiousdisabilities(besidesthatinEnglandand inEuropetheyhavepracticallyalmostceasedtoexist)donotcloseanycareertothedisqualifiedpersonincaseofconversion。Thesocialsubordinationofwomenthusstandsoutanisolatedfactin modernsocialinstitutions;asolitarybreachofwhathasbecometheirfundamental law;asinglerelicofanoldworldofthoughtandpracticeexplodedineverything else,butretainedintheonethingofmostuniversalinterest;asifagigantic dolmen,oravasttempleofJupiterOlympius,occupiedthesiteofSt。Paul’s andreceiveddailyworship,whilethesurroundingChristianchurcheswere onlyresortedtoonfastsandfestivals。Thisentirediscrepancybetween onesocialfactandallthosewhichaccompanyit,andtheradicalopposition betweenitsnatureandtheprogressivemovementwhichistheboastofthe modernworld,andwhichhassuccessivelysweptawayeverythingelseofan analogouscharacter,surelyaffords,toaconscientiousobserverofhuman tendencies,seriousmatterforreflection。Itraisesaprimafaciepresumption ontheunfavourableside,faroutweighinganywhichcustomandusagecould insuchcircumstancescreateonthefavourable;andshouldatleastsuffice tomakethis,likethechoicebetweenrepublicanismandroyalty,abalancedquestion。Theleastthatcanbedemandedis,thatthequestionshouldnotbeconsidered asprejudgedbyexistingfactandexistingopinion,butopentodiscussion onitsmerits,asaquestionofjusticeandexpediency:thedecisiononthis, asonanyoftheothersocialarrangementsofmankind,dependingonwhat anenlightenedestimateoftendenciesandconsequencesmayshowtobemost advantageoustohumanityingeneral,withoutdistinctionofsex。Andthe discussionmustbearealdiscussion,descendingtofoundations,andnot restingsatisfiedwithvagueandgeneralassertions。Itwillnotdo,for instancetoassertingeneralterms,thattheexperienceofmankindhaspronounced infavouroftheexistingsystem。Experiencecannotpossiblyhavedecided betweentwocourses,solongastherehasonlybeenexperienceofone。If itbesaidthatthedoctrineoftheequalityofthesexesrestsonlyontheory, itmustberememberedthatthecontrarydoctrinealsohasonlytheoryto restupon。Allthatisprovedinitsfavourbydirectexperience,isthat mankindhavebeenabletoexistunderit,andtoattainthedegreeofimprovement andprosperitywhichwenowsee;butwhetherthatprosperityhasbeenattained sooner,orisnowgreater,thanitwouldhavebeenundertheothersystem, experiencedoesnotsay。Ontheotherhand,experiencedoessay,thatevery stepinimprovementhasbeensoinvariablyaccompaniedbyastepmadein raisingthesocialpositionofwomen,thathistoriansandphilosophershave beenledtoadopttheirelevationordebasementasonthewholethesurest testandmostcorrectmeasureofthecivilisationofapeopleoranage。 Throughalltheprogressiveperiodofhumanhistory,theconditionofwomen hasbeenapproachingnearertoequalitywithmen。Thisdoesnotofitself provethattheassimilationmustgoontocompleteequality;butitassuredlyaffordssomepresumptionthatsuchisthecase。Neitherdoesitavailanythingtosaythatthenatureofthetwosexes adaptsthemtotheirpresentfunctionsandposition,andrenderstheseappropriate tothem。Standingonthegroundofcommonsenseandtheconstitutionofthe humanmind,Idenythatanyoneknows,orcanknow,thenatureofthetwo sexes,aslongastheyhaveonlybeenseenintheirpresentrelationtoone another。Ifmenhadeverbeenfoundinsocietywithoutwomen,orwomenwithout men,oriftherehadbeenasocietyofmenandwomeninwhichthewomenwere notunderthecontrolofthemen,somethingmighthavebeenpositivelyknown aboutthementalandmoraldifferenceswhichmaybeinherentinthenature ofeach。Whatisnowcalledthenatureofwomenisaneminentlyartificial thing——theresultofforcedrepressioninsomedirections,unnaturalstimulation inothers。Itmaybeassertedwithoutscruple,thatnootherclassofdependents havehadtheircharactersoentirelydistortedfromitsnaturalproportions bytheirrelationwiththeirmasters;for,ifconqueredandslaveraceshave been,insomerespects,moreforciblyrepressed,whateverinthemhasnot beencrusheddownbyanironheelhasgenerallybeenletalone,andifleft withanylibertyofdevelopment,ithasdevelopeditselfaccordingtoits ownlaws;butinthecaseofwomen,ahot—houseandstovecultivationhas alwaysbeencarriedonofsomeofthecapabilitiesoftheirnature,forthe benefitandpleasureoftheirmastersThen,becausecertainproductsofthe generalvitalforcesproutluxuriantlyandreachagreatdevelopmentinthis heatedatmosphereandunderthisactivenurtureandwatering,whileother shootsfromthesameroot,whichareleftoutsideinthewintryair,with icepurposelyheapedallroundthem,haveastuntedgrowth,andsomeare burntoffwithfireanddisappear;men,withthatinabilitytorecognise theirownworkwhichdistinguishestheunanalyticmind,indolentlybelieve thatthetreegrowsofitselfinthewaytheyhavemadeitgrow,andthat itwoulddieifonehalfofitwerenotkeptinavapourbathandtheotherhalfinthesnow。Ofalldifficultieswhichimpedetheprogressofthought,andtheformation ofwell—groundedopinionsonlifeandsocialarrangements,thegreatestis nowtheunspeakableignoranceandinattentionofmankindinrespecttothe influenceswhichformhumancharacter。Whateveranyportionofthehuman speciesnoware,orseemtobe,such,itissupposed,theyhaveanatural tendencytobe:evenwhenthemostelementaryknowledgeofthecircumstances inwhichtheyhavebeenplaced,clearlypointsoutthecausesthatmadethem whattheyare。Becauseacottierdeeplyinarrearstohislandlordisnot industrious,therearepeoplewhothinkthattheIrisharenaturallyidle。 Becauseconstitutionscanbeoverthrownwhentheauthoritiesappointedto executethemturntheirarmsagainstthem,therearepeoplewhothinkthe Frenchincapableoffreegovernment。BecausetheGreekscheatedtheTurks, andtheTurksonlyplunderedtheGreeks,therearepersonswhothinkthat theTurksarenaturallymoresincere:andbecausewomen,asisoftensaid, carenothingaboutpoliticsexcepttheirpersonalities,itissupposedthat thegeneralgoodisnaturallylessinterestingtowomenthantomen。History, whichisnowsomuchbetterunderstoodthanformerly,teachesanotherlesson: ifonlybyshowingtheextraordinarysusceptibilityofhumannaturetoexternal influences,andtheextremevariablenessofthoseofitsmanifestationswhich aresupposedtobemostuniversalanduniform。Butinhistory,asintravelling, menusuallyseeonlywhattheyalreadyhadintheirownminds;andfewlearnmuchfromhistory,whodonotbringmuchwiththemtoitsstudy。Hence,inregardtothatmostdifficultquestion,whatarethenatural differencesbetweenthetwosexes——asubjectonwhichitisimpossible inthepresentstateofsocietytoobtaincompleteandcorrectknowledge ——whilealmosteverybodydogmatisesuponit,almostallneglectandmake lightoftheonlymeansbywhichanypartialinsightcanbeobtainedinto it。Thisis,ananalyticstudyofthemostimportantdepartmentofpsychology, thelawsoftheinfluenceofcircumstancesoncharacter。For,howevergreat andapparentlyineradicablethemoralandintellectualdifferencesbetween menandwomenmightbe,theevidenceoftherebeingnaturaldifferencescould onlybenegative。Thoseonlycouldbeinferredtobenaturalwhichcould notpossiblybeartificial——theresiduum,afterdeductingeverycharacteristic ofeithersexwhichcanadmitofbeingexplainedfromeducationorexternal circumstances。Theprofoundestknowledgeofthelawsoftheformationof characterisindispensabletoentitleanyonetoaffirmeventhatthereis anydifference,muchmorewhatthedifferenceis,betweenthetwosexesconsidered asmoralandrationalbeings;andsincenoone,asyet,hasthatknowledge (forthereishardlyanysubjectwhich,inproportiontoitsimportance, hasbeensolittlestudied),nooneisthusfarentitledtoanypositive opiniononthesubject。Conjecturesareallthatcanatpresentbemade; conjecturesmoreorlessprobable,accordingasmoreorlessauthorisedby suchknowledgeasweyethaveofthelawsofpsychology,asappliedtotheformationofcharacter。Eventhepreliminaryknowledge,whatthedifferencesbetweenthesexes noware,apartfromallquestionastohowtheyaremadewhattheyare,is stillinthecrudestandmost’incompletestate。Medicalpractitionersand physiologistshaveascertained,tosomeextent,thedifferencesinbodily constitution;andthisisanimportantelementtothepsychologist:buthardly anymedicalpractitionerisapsychologist。Respectingthementalcharacteristics ofwomen;theirobservationsareofnomoreworththanthoseofcommonmen。 Itisasubjectonwhichnothingfinalcanbeknown,solongasthosewho alonecanreallyknowit,womenthemselves,havegivenbutlittletestimony, andthatlittle,mostlysuborned。Itiseasytoknowstupidwomen。Stupidity ismuchthesamealltheworldover。Astupidperson’snotionsandfeelings mayconfidentlybeinferredfromthosewhichprevailinthecirclebywhich thepersonissurrounded。Notsowiththosewhoseopinionsandfeelingsare anemanationfromtheirownnatureandfaculties。Itisonlyamanhereand therewhohasanytolerableknowledgeofthecharacterevenofthewomen ofhisownfamily。Idonotmean,oftheircapabilities;thesenobodyknows, noteventhemselves,becausemostofthemhaveneverbeencalledout。Imean theiractuallyexistingthoughtsandfeelings。Manyamanthinksheperfectly understandswomen,becausehehashadamatoryrelationswithseveral,perhaps withmanyofthem。Ifheisagoodobserver,andhisexperienceextendsto qualityaswellasquantity,hemayhavelearntsomethingofonenarrowdepartment oftheirnature——animportantdepartment,nodoubt。Butofalltherest ofit,fewpersonsaregenerallymoreignorant,becausetherearefewfrom whomitissocarefullyhidden。Themostfavourablecasewhichamancan generallyhaveforstudyingthecharacterofawoman,isthatofhisown wife:fortheopportunitiesaregreater,andthecasesofcompletesympathy notsounspeakablyrare。Andinfact,thisisthesourcefromwhichanyknowledge worthhavingonthesubjecthas,Ibelieve,generallycome。Butmostmen havenothadtheopportunityofstudyinginthiswaymorethanasinglecase: accordinglyonecan,toanalmostlaughabledegree,inferwhataman’swife islike,fromhisopinionsaboutwomeningeneral。Tomakeeventhisone caseyieldanyresult,thewomanmustbeworthknowing,andthemannotonly acompetentjudge,butofacharactersosympatheticinitself,andsowell adaptedtohers,thathecaneitherreadhermindbysympatheticintuition, orhasnothinginhimselfwhichmakeshershyofdisclosingit,Hardlyanything, Ibelieve,canbemorerarethanthisconjunction。Itoftenhappensthat thereisthemostcompleteunityoffeelingandcommunityofinterestsas toallexternalthings,yettheonehasaslittleadmissionintotheinternal lifeoftheotherasiftheywerecommonacquaintance。Evenwithtrueaffection, authorityontheonesideandsubordinationontheotherpreventperfect confidence。Thoughnothingmaybeintentionallywithheld,muchisnotshown。 Intheanalogousrelationofparentandchild,thecorrespondingphenomenon musthavebeenintheobservationofeveryone。Asbetweenfatherandson, howmanyarethecasesinwhichthefather,inspiteofrealaffectionon bothsides,obviouslytoalltheworlddoesnotknow,norsuspect,parts oftheson’scharacterfamiliartohiscompanionsandequals。Thetruthis, thatthepositionoflookinguptoanotherisextremelyunpropitioustocomplete sincerityandopennesswithhim。Thefearoflosinggroundinhisopinion orinhisfeelingsissostrong,thateveninanuprightcharacter,there isanunconscioustendencytoshowonlythebestside,orthesidewhich, thoughnotthebest,isthatwhichhemostlikestosee:anditmaybeconfidently saidthatthoroughknowledgeofoneanotherhardlyeverexists,butbetween personswho,besidesbeingintimates,areequals。Howmuchmoretrue,then, mustallthisbe,whentheoneisnotonlyundertheauthorityoftheother, buthasitinculcatedonherasadutytoreckoneverythingelsesubordinate tohiscomfortandpleasure,andtolethimneitherseenorfeelanything comingfromher,exceptwhatisagreeabletohim。Allthesedifficulties standinthewayofaman’sobtaininganythoroughknowledgeevenofthe onewomanwhomalone,ingeneral,hehassufficientopportunityofstudying。 Whenwefurtherconsiderthattounderstandonewomanisnotnecessarily tounderstandanyotherwoman;thatevenifhecouldstudymanywomenof onerank,orofonecountry,hewouldnottherebyunderstandwomenofother ranksorcountries;andevenifhedid,theyarestillonlythewomenof asingleperiodofhistory;wemaysafelyassertthattheknowledgewhich mencanacquireofwomen,evenastheyhavebeenandare,withoutreference towhattheymightbe,iswretchedlyimperfectandsuperficial,andalwayswillbeso,untilwomenthemselveshavetoldallthattheyhavetotell。Andthistimehasnotcome;norwillitcomeotherwisethangradually。 Itisbutofyesterdaythatwomenhaveeitherbeenqualifiedbyliterary accomplishmentsorpermittedbysociety,totellanythingtothegeneral public。Asyetveryfewofthemdaretellanything,whichmen,onwhomtheir literarysuccessdepends,areunwillingtohear。Letusrememberinwhat manner,uptoaveryrecenttime,theexpression,evenbyamaleauthor, ofuncustomaryopinions,orwhataredeemedeccentricfeelings,usuallywas, andinsomedegreestillis,received;andwemayformsomefaintconception underwhatimpedimentsawoman,whoisbroughtuptothinkcustomandopinion hersovereignrule,attemptstoexpressinbooksanythingdrawnfromthe depthsofherownnature。Thegreatestwomanwhohasleftwritingsbehind hersufficienttogiveheraneminentrankintheliteratureofhercountry, thoughtitnecessarytoprefixasamottotoherboldestwork,\"Unhomme peutbraverl’opinion;unefemmedoits’ysoumettre。\"(1*)Thegreater partofwhatwomenwriteaboutwomenismeresycophancytomen。Inthecase ofunmarriedwomen,muchofitseemsonlyintendedtoincreasetheirchance ofahusband。Many,bothmarriedandunmarried,overstepthemark,andinculcate aservilitybeyondwhatisdesiredorrelishedbyanyman,exceptthevery vulgarest。Butthisisnotsooftenthecaseas,evenataquitelateperiod, itstillwas。LiterarywomenIarebecomingmorefree—spoken,andmorewilling toexpresstheirrealsentiments。Unfortunately,inthiscountryespecially, theyarethemselvessuchartificialproducts,thattheirsentimentsarecompounded ofasmallelementofindividualobservationandconsciousness,andavery largeoneofacquiredassociations。Thiswillbelessandlessthecase, butitwillremaintruetoagreatextent,aslongassocialinstitutions donotadmitthesamefreedevelopmentoforiginalityinwomenwhichispossible tomen。Whenthattimecomes,andnotbefore,weshallsee,andnotmerely hear,asmuchasitisnecessarytoknowofthenatureofwomen,andtheadaptationofotherthingstoit。Ihavedweltsomuchonthedifficultieswhichatpresentobstructany realknowledgebymenofthetruenatureofwomen,becauseinthisasin somanyotherthings\"opiniocopiaeintermaximascausasinopiaeest\"; andthereislittlechanceofreasonablethinkingonthematterwhilepeople flatterthemselvesthattheyperfectlyunderstandasubjectofwhichmost menknowabsolutelynothing,andofwhichitisatpresentimpossiblethat anyman,orallmentakentogether,shouldhaveknowledgewhichcanqualify themtolaydownthelawtowomenastowhatis,orisnot,theirvocation。 Happily,nosuchknowledgeisnecessaryforanypracticalpurposeconnected withthepositionofwomenisrelationtosocietyandlife。For,according toalltheprinciplesinvolvedinmodernsociety,thequestionrestswith womenthemselves——tobedecidedbytheirownexperience,andbytheuse oftheirownfaculties。Therearenomeansoffindingwhateitheroneperson ormanycando,butbytrying——andnomeansbywhichanyoneelsecandiscoverforthemwhatitisfortheirhappinesstodoorleaveundone。Onethingwemaybecertainof——thatwhatiscontrarytowomen’snature todo,theyneverwillbemadetodobysimplygivingtheirnaturefreeplay。 Theanxietyofmankindtointerfereinbehalfofnature,forfearlestnature shouldnotsucceedineffectingitspurpose,isanaltogetherunnecessary solicitude。Whatwomenbynaturecannotdo,itisquitesuperfluoustoforbid themfromdoing。Whattheycando,butnotsowellasthemenwhoaretheir competitors,competitionsufficestoexcludethemfrom;sincenobodyasks forprotectivedutiesandbountiesinfavourofwomen;itisonlyaskedthat thepresentbountiesandprotectivedutiesinfavourofmenshouldberecalled。 Ifwomenhaveagreaternaturalinclinationforsomethingsthanforothers, thereisnoneedoflawsorsocialinculcationtomakethemajorityofthem dotheformerinpreferencetothelatter。Whateverwomen’sservicesare mostwantedfor,thefreeplayofcompetitionwillholdoutthestrongest inducementstothemtoundertake。And,asthewordsimply,theyaremost wantedforthethingsforwhichtheyaremostfit;bytheapportionmentof whichtothem,thecollectivefacultiesofthetwosexescanbeappliedonthewholewiththegreatestsumofvaluableresult。Thegeneralopinionofmenissupposedtobe,thatthenaturalvocation ofawomanisthatofawifeandmother。Isay,issupposedtobe,because, judgingfromacts——fromthewholeofthepresentconstitutionofsociety ——onemightinferthattheiropinionwasthedirectcontrary。Theymight besupposedtothinkthattheallegednaturalvocationofwomenwasofall thingsthemostrepugnanttotheirnature;insomuchthatiftheyarefree todoanythingelse——ifanyothermeansoflivingoroccupationoftheir timeandfaculties,isopen,whichhasanychanceofappearingdesirable tothem——therewillnotbeenoughofthemwhowillbewillingtoaccept theconditionsaidtobenaturaltothem。Ifthisistherealopinionof meningeneral,itwouldbewellthatitshouldbespokenout。Ishouldlike tohearsomebodyopenlyenunciatingthedoctrine(itisalreadyimpliedin muchthatiswrittenonthesubject)——Itisnecessarytosocietythatwomen shouldmarryandproducechildren。Theywillnotdosounlesstheyarecompelled。 Thereforeitisnecessarytocompelthem。\"Themeritsofthecasewould thenbeclearlydefined。Itwouldbeexactlythatoftheslave—holdersof SouthCarolinaandLouisiana。\"Itisnecessarythatcottonandsugar shouldbegrown。Whitemencannotproducethem。Negroeswillnot,forany wageswhichwechoosetogive。Ergotheymustbecompelled。\"Anillustration stillclosertothepointisthatofimpressment。Sailorsmustabsolutely behadtodefendthecountry。Itoftenhappensthattheywillnotvoluntarily enlist。Thereforetheremustbethepowerofforcingthem。Howoftenhas thislogicbeenused!and,butforoneflawinit,withoutdoubtitwould havebeensuccessfuluptothisday。Butitisopentotheretort——First paythesailorsthehonestvalueoftheirlabour。Whenyouhavemadeitas wellworththeirwhiletoserveyou,astoworkforotheremployers,you willhavenomoredifficultythanothershaveinobtainingtheirservices。 Tothisthereisnologicalanswerexcept\"Iwillnot\":andas peoplearenownotonlyashamed,butarenotdesirous,torobthelabourer ofhishire,impressmentisnolongeradvocated。Thosewhoattempttoforce womenintomarriagebyclosingallotherdoorsagainstthem,laythemselves opentoasimilarretort。Iftheymeanwhattheysay,theiropinionmust evidentlybe,thatmendonotrenderthemarriedconditionsodesirableto women,astoinducethemtoacceptitforitsownrecommendations。Itis notasignofone’sthinkingtheboononeoffersveryattractive,whenone allowsonlyHobson’schoice,\"thatornone。\"Andhere,Ibelieve, isthecluetothefeelingsofthosemen,whohavearealantipathytothe equalfreedomofwomen。Ibelievetheyareafraid,notlestwomenshould beunwillingtomarry,forIdonotthinkthatanyoneinrealityhasthat apprehension;butlesttheyshouldinsistthatmarriageshouldbeonequal conditions;lestallwomenofspiritandcapacityshouldpreferdoingalmost anythingelse,notintheirowneyesdegrading,ratherthanmarry,whenmarrying isgivingthemselvesamaster,andamastertooofalltheirearthlypossessions。 Andtruly,ifthisconsequencewerenecessarilyincidenttomarriage,Ithink thattheapprehensionwouldbeverywellfounded。Iagreeinthinkingit probablethatfewwomen,capableofanythingelse,would,unlessunderan irresistibleentrainment,renderingthemforthetimeinsensibletoanything butitself,choosesuchalot,whenanyothermeanswereopentothemof fillingaconventionallyhonourableplaceinlife:andifmenaredetermined thatthelawofmarriageshallbealawofdespotism,theyarequiteright, inpointofmerepolicy,inleavingtowomenonlyHobson’schoice。But,in thatcase,allthathasbeendoneinthemodernworldtorelaxthechain onthemindsofwomen,hasbeenamistake。Theynevershouldhavebeenallowed toreceivealiteraryeducation。Womenwhoread,muchmorewomenwhowrite, are,intheexistingconstitutionofthings,acontradictionandadisturbing element:anditwaswrongtobringwomenupwithanyacquirementsbutthose ofanodalisque,orofadomesticservant。 NOTES: 1。Title—pageofMmedeStael’sDelphine。 CHAPTER2Itwillbewelltocommencethedetaileddiscussionofthesubjectby theparticularbranchofittowhichthecourseofourobservationshasled us:theconditionswhichthelawsofthisandallothercountriesannexto themarriagecontract。Marriagebeingthedestinationappointedbysociety forwomen,theprospecttheyarebroughtupto,andtheobjectwhichitis intendedshouldbesoughtbyallofthem,exceptthosewhoaretoolittle attractivetobechosenbyanymanashiscompanion;onemighthavesupposed thateverythingwouldhavebeendonetomakethisconditionaseligibleto themaspossible,thattheymighthavenocausetoregretbeingdeniedthe optionofanyother。Society,however,bothinthis,and,atfirst,inall othercases,haspreferredtoattainitsobjectbyfoulratherthanfair means:butthisistheonlycaseinwhichithassubstantiallypersisted inthemeventothepresentday。Originallywomenweretakenbyforce,or regularlysoldbytheirfathertothehusband。UntilalateperiodinEuropean history,thefatherhadthepowertodisposeofhisdaughterinmarriage athisownwillandpleasure,withoutanyregardtohers。TheChurch,indeed, wassofarfaithfultoabettermoralityastorequireaformal\"yes\" fromthewomanatthemarriageceremony;buttherewasnothingtoshowthat theconsentwasotherthancompulsory;anditwaspracticallyimpossible forthegirltorefusecomplianceifthefatherpersevered,exceptperhaps whenshemightobtaintheprotectionofreligionbyadeterminedresolution totakemonasticvows。Aftermarriage,themanhadanciently(butthiswas anteriortoChristianity)thepoweroflifeanddeathoverhiswife。She couldinvokenolawagainsthim;hewashersoletribunalandlaw。Fora longtimehecouldrepudiateher,butshehadnocorrespondingpowerinregard tohim。BytheoldlawsofEngland,thehusbandwascalledthelordofthe wife;hewasliterallyregardedashersovereign,inasmuchthatthemurder ofamanbyhiswifewascalledtreason(pettyasdistinguishedfromhigh treason),andwasmorecruellyavengedthanwasusuallythecasewithhigh treason,forthepenaltywasburningtodeath。Becausethesevariousenormities havefallenintodisuse(formostofthemwereneverformallyabolished, ornotuntiltheyhadlongceasedtobepractised)mensupposethatallis nowasitshouldbeinregardtothemarriagecontract;andwearecontinually toldthatcivilisationandChristianityhaverestoredtothewomanherjust rights。Meanwhilethewifeistheactualbondservantofherhusband:no lessso,asfaraslegalobligationgoes,thanslavescommonlysocalled。 Shevowsalivelongobediencetohimatthealtar,andisheldtoitall throughherlifebylaw。Casuistsmaysaythattheobligationofobedience stopsshortofparticipationincrime,butitcertainlyextendstoeverything else。Shecandonoactwhateverbutbyhispermission,atleasttacit。She canacquirenopropertybutforhim;theinstantitbecomeshers,evenif byinheritance,itbecomesipsofactohis。Inthisrespectthewife’sposition underthecommonlawofEnglandisworsethanthat—ofslavesinthelaws ofmanycountries:bytheRomanlaw,forexample,aslavemighthavehis peculium,whichtoacertainextentthelawguaranteedtohimforhisexclusive use。Thehigherclassesinthiscountryhavegivenananalogousadvantage totheirwomen,throughspecialcontractssettingasidethelaw,byconditions ofpin—money,etc。:sinceparentalfeelingbeingstrongerwithfathersthan theclassfeelingoftheirownsex,afathergenerallyprefershisowndaughter toason—in—lawwhoisastrangertohim。Bymeansofsettlements,therich usuallycontrivetowithdrawthewholeorpartoftheinheritedproperty ofthewifefromtheabsolutecontrolofthehusband:buttheydonotsucceed inkeepingitunderherowncontrol;theutmosttheycandoonlyprevents thehusbandfromsquanderingit,atthesametimedebarringtherightful ownerfromitsuse。Thepropertyitselfisoutofthereachofboth;and astotheincomederivedfromit,theformofsettlementmostfavourable tothewife(thatcalled\"toherseparateuse\")onlyprecludes thehusbandfromreceivingitinsteadofher:itmustpassthroughherhands, butifhetakesitfromherbypersonalviolenceassoonasshereceives it,hecanneitherbepunished,norcompelledtorestitution。Thisisthe amountoftheprotectionwhich,underthelawsofthiscountry,themost powerfulnoblemancangivetohisowndaughterasrespectsherhusband。In theimmensemajorityofcasesthereisnosettlement:andtheabsorption ofallrights,allproperty,aswellasallfreedomofaction,iscomplete。 Thetwoarecalled\"onepersoninlaw,\"forthepurposeofinferring thatwhateverishersishis,buttheparallelinferenceisneverdrawnthat whateverishisishers;themaximisnotappliedagainsttheman,except tomakehimresponsibletothirdpartiesforheracts,asamasterisfor theactsofhisslavesorofhiscattle。Iamfarfrompretendingthatwives areingeneralnobettertreatedthanslaves;butnoslaveisaslaveto thesamelengths,andinsofullasenseoftheword,asawifeis。Hardly anyslave,exceptoneimmediatelyattachedtothemaster’sperson,isaslave atallhoursandallminutes;ingeneralhehas,likeasoldier,hisfixed task,andwhenitisdone,orwhenheisoffduty,hedisposes,withincertain limits,ofhisowntime,andhasafamilylifeintowhichthemasterrarely intrudes。\"UncleTom\"underhisfirstmasterhadhisownlifein his\"cabin,\"almostasmuchasanymanwhoseworktakeshimaway fromhome,isabletohaveinhisownfamily。Butitcannotbesowiththe wife。Aboveall,afemaleslavehas(inChristiancountries)anadmitted right,andisconsideredunderamoralobligation,torefusetohermaster thelastfamiliarity。Notsothewife:howeverbrutalatyrantshemayunfortunately bechainedto——thoughshemayknowthathehatesher,thoughitmaybe hisdailypleasuretotortureher,andthoughshemayfeelitimpossible nottoloathehim——hecanclaimfromherandenforcethelowestdegradation ofahumanbeing,thatofbeingmadetheinstrumentofananimalfunction contrarytoherinclinations。Whilesheisheldinthisworstdescription ofslaveryastoherownperson,whatisherpositioninregardtothechildren inwhomsheandhermasterhaveajointinterest?Theyarebylawhischildren。 Healonehasanylegalrightsoverthem。Notoneactcanshedotowardsor inrelationtothem,exceptbydelegationfromhim。Evenafterheisdead sheisnottheirlegalguardian,unlesshebywillhasmadeherso。Hecould evensendthemawayfromher,anddepriveherofthemeansofseeingorcorresponding withthem,untilthispowerwasinsomedegreerestrictedbySerjeantTalfourd’s Act。Thisisherlegalstate。Andfromthisstateshehasnomeansofwithdrawing herself。Ifsheleavesherhusband,shecantakenothingwithher,neither herchildrennoranythingwhichisrightfullyherown。Ifhechooses,he cancompelhertoreturn,bylaw,orbyphysicalforce;orhemaycontent himselfwithseizingforhisownuseanythingwhichshemayearn,orwhich maybegiventoherbyherrelations。Itisonlylegalseparationbyadecree ofacourtofjustice,whichentitleshertoliveapart,withoutbeingforced backintothecustodyofanexasperatedjailer——orwhichempowersherto applyanyearningstoherownuse,withoutfearthatamanwhomperhapsshe hasnotseenfortwentyyearswillpounceuponhersomedayandcarryall off。Thislegalseparation,untillately,thecourtsofjusticewouldonly giveatanexpensewhichmadeitinaccessibletoanyoneoutofthehigher ranks。Evennowitisonlygivenincasesofdesertion,oroftheextreme ofcruelty;andyetcomplaintsaremadeeverydaythatitisgrantedtoo easily。Surely,ifawomanisdeniedanylotinlifebutthatofbeingthe personalbody—servantofadespot,andisdependentforeverythinguponthe chanceoffindingonewhomaybedisposedtomakeafavouriteofherinstead ofmerelyadrudge,itisaverycruelaggravationofherfatethatsheshould beallowedtotrythischanceonlyonce。Thenaturalsequelandcorollary fromthisstateofthingswouldbe,thatsinceherallinlifedependsupon obtainingagoodmaster,sheshouldbeallowedtochangeagainandagain untilshefindsone。Iamnotsayingthatsheoughttobeallowedthisprivilege。 Thatisatotallydifferentconsideration。Thequestionofdivorce,inthe senseinvolvinglibertyofremarriage,isoneintowhichitisforeignto mypurposetoenter。AllInowsayis,thattothosetowhomnothingbut servitudeisallowed,thefreechoiceofservitudeistheonly,thougha mostinsufficient,alleviation。Itsrefusalcompletestheassimilationof thewifetotheslave——andtheslaveundernotthemildestformofslavery: forinsomeslavecodestheslavecould,undercertaincircumstancesofill usage,legallycompelthemastertosellhim。Butnoamountofillusage,withoutadulterysuperadded,willinEnglandfreeawifefromhertormentor。Ihavenodesiretoexaggerate,nordoesthecasestandinanyneedof exaggeration。Ihavedescribedthewife’slegalposition,notheractual treatment。Thelawsofmostcountriesarefarworsethanthepeoplewhoexecute them,andmanyofthemareonlyabletoremainlawsbybeingseldomornever carriedintoeffect。Ifmarriedlifewereallthatitmightbeexpectedto be,lookingtothelawsalone,societywouldbeahelluponearth。Happily therearebothfeelingsandinterestswhichinmanymenexclude,andinmost, greatlytemper,theimpulsesandpropensitieswhichleadtotyranny:and ofthosefeelings,thetiewhichconnectsamanwithhiswifeaffords,in anormalstateofthings,incomparablythestrongestexample。Theonlytie whichatallapproachestoit,thatbetweenhimandhischildren,tends, inallsaveexceptionalcases,tostrengthen,insteadofconflictingwith, thefirst。Becausethisistrue;becausemeningeneraldonotinflict,nor womensuffer,allthemiserywhichcouldbeinflictedandsufferedifthe fullpoweroftyrannywithwhichthemanislegallyinvestedwereactedon; thedefendersoftheexistingformoftheinstitutionthinkthatallits iniquityisjustified,andthatanycomplaintismerelyquarrellingwith theevilwhichisthepricepaidforeverygreatgood。Butthemitigations inpractice,whicharecompatiblewithmaintaininginfulllegalforcethis oranyotherkindoftyranny,insteadofbeinganyapologyfordespotism, onlyservetoprovewhatpowerhumannaturepossessesofreactingagainst thevilestinstitutions,andwithwhatvitalitytheseedsofgoodaswell asthoseofevilinhumancharacterdiffuseandpropagatethemselves。Not awordcanbesaidfordespotisminthefamilywhichcannotbesaidforpolitical despotism。Everyabsolutekingdoesnotsitathiswindowtoenjoythegroans ofhistorturedsubjects,norstripsthemoftheirlastragandturnsthem outtoshiverintheroadThedespotismofLouisXVIwasnotthedespotism ofPhilippeleBel,orofNadirShah,orofCaligula;butitwasbadenough tojustifytheFrenchRevolution,andtopalliateevenitshorrors。Ifan appealbemadetotheintenseattachmentswhichexistbetweenwivesandtheir husbands,exactlyasmuchmaybesaidofdomesticslavery。Itwasquitean ordinaryfactinGreeceandRomeforslavestosubmittodeathbytorture ratherthanbetraytheirmasters。IntheproscriptionsoftheRomancivil warsitwasremarkedthatwivesandslaveswereheroicallyfaithful,sons verycommonlytreacherous。YetweknowhowcruellymanyRomanstreatedtheir slaves。Butintruththeseintenseindividualfeelingsnowhererisetosuch aluxuriantheightasunderthemostatrociousinstitutions。ItISpartof theironyoflife,thatthestrongestfeelingsofdevotedgratitudeofwhich humannatureseemstobesusceptible,arecalledforthinhumanbeingstowards thosewho,havingthepowerentirelytocrushtheirearthlyexistence,voluntarily refrainfromusingthatpower。Howgreataplaceinmostmenthissentiment fills,eveninreligiousdevotion,itwouldbecrueltoinquire。Wedaily seehowmuchtheirgratitudetoHeavenappearstobestimulatedbythecontemplationoffellow—creaturestowhomGodhasnotbeensomercifulashehastothemselves。Whethertheinstitutiontobedefendedisslavery,politicalabsolutism, ortheabsolutismoftheheadofafamily,wearealwaysexpectedtojudge ofitfromitsbestinstances;andwearepresentedwithpicturesofloving exerciseofauthorityononeside,lovingsubmissiontoitontheother—— superiorwisdomorderingallthingsforthegreatestgoodofthedependents, andsurroundedbytheirsmilesandbenedictions。Allthiswouldbeverymuch tothepurposeifanyonepretendedthattherearenosuchthingsasgood men。Whodoubtsthattheremaybegreatgoodness,andgreathappiness,and greataffection,undertheabsolutegovernmentofagoodman?Meanwhile, lawsandinstitutionsrequiretobeadapted,nottogoodmen,buttobad。 Marriageisnotaninstitutiondesignedforaselectfew。Menarenotrequired, asapreliminarytothemarriageceremony,toprovebytestimonialsthat theyarefittobetrustedwiththeexerciseofabsolutepower。Thetieof affectionandobligationtoawifeandchildrenisverystrongwiththose whosegeneralsocialfeelingsarestrong,andwithmanywhoarelittlesensible toanyothersocialties;buttherearealldegreesofsensibilityandinsensibility toit,asthereareallgradesofgoodnessandwickednessinmen,downto thosewhomnotieswillbind,andonwhomsocietyhasnoactionbutthrough itsultimaratio,thepenaltiesofthelaw。Ineverygradeofthisdescending scalearementowhomarecommittedallthelegalpowersofahusband。The vilestmalefactorhassomewretchedwomantiedtohim,againstwhomhecan commitanyatrocityexceptkillingher,and,iftolerablycautious,cando thatwithoutmuchdangerofthelegalpenalty。Andhowmanythousandsare thereamongthelowestclassesineverycountry,who,withoutbeingina legalsensemalefactorsinanyotherrespect,becauseineveryotherquarter theiraggressionsmeetwithresistance,indulgetheutmosthabitualexcesses ofbodilyviolencetowardstheunhappywife,whoalone,atleastofgrown persons,canneitherrepelnorescapefromtheirbrutality;andtowardswhom theexcessofdependenceinspirestheirmeanandsavagenatures,notwith agenerousforbearance,andapointofhonourtobehavewelltoonewhose lotinlifeistrustedentirelytotheirkindness,butonthecontrarywith anotionthatthelawhasdeliveredhertothemastheirthing,tobeused attheirpleasure,andthattheyarenotexpectedtopractisetheconsideration towardsherwhichisrequiredfromthemtowardseverybodyelse。Thelaw, whichtilllatelylefteventheseatrociousextremesofdomesticoppression practicallyunpunished,haswithinthesefewyearsmadesomefeebleattempts torepressthem。Butitsattemptshavedonelittle,andcannotbeexpected todomuch,becauseitiscontrarytoreasonandexperiencetosupposethat therecanbeanyrealchecktobrutality,consistentwithleavingthevictim stillinthepoweroftheexecutioner。Untilaconvictionforpersonalviolence, oratalleventsarepetitionofitafterafirstconviction,entitlesthe womanipsofactotoadivorce,oratleasttoajudicialseparation,the attempttorepressthese\"aggravatedassaults\"bylegalpenaltieswillbreakdownforwantofaprosecutor,orforwantofawitness。###第3章Whenweconsiderhowvastisthenumberofmen,inanygreatcountry, whoarelittlehigherthanbrutes,andthatthisneverpreventsthemfrom beingable,throughthelawofmarriage,toobtainavictim,thebreadth anddepthofhumanmiserycausedinthisshapealonebytheabuseofthe institutionswellstosomethingappalling。Yettheseareonlytheextreme cases。Theyarethelowestabysses,butthereisasadsuccessionofdepth afterdepthbeforereachingthem。Indomesticasinpoliticaltyranny,the caseofabsolutemonsterschieflyillustratestheinstitutionbyshowing thatthereisscarcelyanyhorrorwhichmaynotoccurunderitifthedespot pleases,andthussettinginastronglightwhatmustbetheterriblefrequency ofthingsonlyalittlelessatrocious。Absolutefiendsareasrareasangels, perhapsrarer:ferocioussavages,withoccasionaltouchesofhumanity,are howeververyfrequent:andinthewideintervalwhichseparatesthesefrom anyworthyrepresentativesofthehumanspecies,howmanyaretheformsand gradationsofanimalismandselfishness,oftenunderanoutwardvarnishof civilisationandevencultivation,livingatpeacewiththelaw,maintaining acreditableappearancetoallwhoarenotundertheirpower,yetsufficient oftentomakethelivesofallwhoareso,atormentandaburthentothem! Itwouldbetiresometorepeatthecommonplacesabouttheunfitnessofmen ingeneralforpower,which,afterthepoliticaldiscussionsofcenturies, everyoneknowsbyheart,wereitnotthathardlyanyonethinksofapplying thesemaximstothecaseinwhichaboveallotherstheyareapplicable,that ofpower,notplacedinthehandsofamanhereandthere,butofferedto everyadultmale,downtothebasestandmostferocious。Itisnotbecause amanisnotknowntohavebrokenanyoftheTenCommandments,orbecause hemaintainsarespectablecharacterinhisdealingswiththosewhomhecannot compeltohaveintercoursewithhim,orbecausehedoesnotflyoutinto violentburstsofill—temperagainstthosewhoarenotobligedtobearwith him,thatitispossibletosurmiseofwhatsorthisconductwillbeinthe unrestraintofhome。Eventhecommonestmenreservetheviolent,thesulky, theundisguisedlyselfishsideoftheircharacterforthosewhohavenopower towithstandit。Therelationofsuperiorstodependentsisthenurseryof thesevicesofcharacter,which,whereverelsetheyexist,areanoverflowing fromthatsource。Amanwhoismoroseorviolenttohisequals,issureto beonewhohaslivedamonginferiors,whomhecouldfrightenorworryinto submission。Ifthefamilyinitsbestformsis,asitisoftensaidtobe, aschoolofsympathy,tenderness,andlovingforgetfulnessofself,itis stilloftener,asrespectsitschief,aschoolofwilfulness,overbearingness, unboundedselfishindulgence,andadouble—dyedandidealisedselfishness, ofwhichsacrificeitselfisonlyaparticularform:thecareforthewife andchildrenbeingonlycareforthemaspartsoftheman’sowninterests andbelongings,andtheirindividualhappinessbeingimmolatedineveryshape tohissmallestpreferences。Whatbetteristobelookedforundertheexisting formoftheinstitution?Weknowthatthebadpropensitiesofhumannature areonlykeptwithinboundswhentheyareallowednoscopefortheirindulgence。 Weknowthatfromimpulseandhabit,whennotfromdeliberatepurpose,almost everyonetowhomothersyield,goesonencroachinguponthem,untilapoint isreachedatwhichtheyarecompelledtoresist。Suchbeingthecommontendency ofhumannature;thealmostunlimitedpowerwhichpresentsocialinstitutions givetothemanoveratleastonehumanbeing——theonewithwhomheresides, andwhomhehasalwayspresent——thispowerseeksoutandevokesthelatent germsofselfishnessintheremotestcornersofhisnature——fansitsfaintest sparksandsmoulderingembers——offerstohimalicencefortheindulgence ofthosepointsofhisoriginalcharacterwhichinallotherrelationshe wouldhavefounditnecessarytorepressandconceal,andtherepression ofwhichwouldintimehavebecomeasecondnature。Iknowthatthereis anothersidetothequestion。Igrantthatthewife,ifshecannoteffectually resist,canatleastretaliate;she,too,canmaketheman’slifeextremely uncomfortable,andbythatpowerisabletocarrymanypointswhichsheought, andmanywhichsheoughtnot,toprevailin。Butthisinstrumentofself—protection ——whichmaybecalledthepowerofthescold,ortheshrewishsanction—— hasthefataldefect,thatitavailsmostagainsttheleasttyrannicalsuperiors, andinfavouroftheleastdeservingdependents。Itistheweaponofirritable andself—willedwomen;ofthosewhowouldmaketheworstuseofpowerif theythemselveshadit,andwhogenerallyturnthispowertoabaduse。The amiablecannotusesuchaninstrument,thehighmindeddisdainit。Andon theotherhand,thehusbandsagainstwhomitisusedmosteffectivelyare thegentlerandmoreinoffensive;thosewhocannotbeinduced,evenbyprovocation, toresorttoanyveryharshexerciseofauthority。Thewife’spowerofbeing disagreeablegenerallyonlyestablishesacounter—tyranny,andmakesvictimsintheirturnchieflyofthosehusbandswhoareleastinclinedtobetyrants。Whatisit,then,whichreallytempersthecorruptingeffectsofthepower, andmakesitcompatiblewithsuchamountofgoodasweactuallysee?Mere feminineblandishments,thoughofgreateffectinindividualinstances,have verylittleeffectinmodifyingthegeneraltendenciesofthesituation; fortheirpoweronlylastswhilethewomanisyoungandattractive,often onlywhilehercharmisnew,andnotdimmedbyfamiliarity;andonmanymen theyhavenotmuchinfluenceatanytime。Therealmitigatingcausesare, thepersonalaffectionwhichisthegrowthoftimeinsofarastheman’s natureissusceptibleofitandthewoman’scharactersufficientlycongenial withhistoexciteit;theircommoninterestsasregardsthechildren,and theirgeneralcommunityofinterestasconcernsthirdpersons(towhichhowever thereareverygreatlimitations);therealimportanceofthewifetohis dailycomfortsandenjoyments,andthevalueheconsequentlyattachesto heronhispersonalaccount,which,inamancapableoffeelingforothers, laysthefoundationofcaringforheronherown;andlastly,theinfluence naturallyacquiredoveralmostallhumanbeingsbythoseneartotheirpersons (ifnotactuallydisagreeabletothem):who,bothbytheirdirectentreaties, andbytheinsensiblecontagionoftheirfeelingsanddispositions,areoften able,unlesscounteractedbysomeequallystrongpersonalinfluence,toobtain adegreeofcommandovertheconductofthesuperior,altogetherexcessive andunreasonable。Throughthesevariousmeans,thewifefrequentlyexercises eventoomuchpowerovertheman;sheisabletoaffecthisconductinthings inwhichshemaynotbequalifiedtoinfluenceitforgood——inwhichher influencemaybenotonlyunenlightened,butemployedonthemorallywrong side;andinwhichhewouldactbetteriflefttohisownprompting。But neitherintheaffairsoffamiliesnorinthoseofstatesispoweracompensation forthelossoffreedom。Herpoweroftengivesherwhatshehasnoright to,butdoesnotenablehertoassertherownrights。ASultan’sfavourite slavehasslavesunderher,overwhomshetyrannises;butthedesirablething wouldbethatsheshouldneitherhaveslavesnorbeaslave。Byentirely sinkingherownexistenceinherhusband;byhavingnowill(orpersuading himthatshehasnowill)buthis,inanythingwhichregardstheirjoint relation,andbymakingitthebusinessofherlifetoworkuponhissentiments, awifemaygratifyherselfbyinfluencing,andveryprobablyperverting, hisconduct,inthoseofhisexternalrelationswhichshehasneverqualified herselftojudgeof,orinwhichsheisherselfwhollyinfluencedbysome personalorotherpartialityorprejudice。Accordingly,asthingsnoware, thosewhoactmostkindlytotheirwives,arequiteasoftenmadeworse, asbetter,bythewife’sinfluence,inrespecttoallinterestsextending beyondthefamily。Sheistaughtthatshehasnobusinesswiththingsout ofthatsphere;andaccordinglysheseldomhasanyhonestandconscientious opiniononthem;andthereforehardlyevermeddleswiththemforanylegitimate purpose,butgenerallyforaninterestedone。Sheneitherknowsnorcares whichistherightsideinpolitics,butsheknowswhatwillbringinmoney orinvitations,giveherhusbandatitle,hersonaplace,orherdaughteragoodmarriage。Buthow,itwillbeasked,cananysocietyexistwithoutgovernment?In afamily,asinastate,someonepersonmustbetheultimateruler。Who shalldecidewhenmarriedpeopledifferinopinion?Bothcannothavetheirway,yetadecisiononewayortheothermustbecometo。Itisnottruethatinallvoluntaryassociationbetweentwopeople,one ofthemmustbeabsolutemaster:stilllessthatthelawmustdeterminewhich ofthemitshallbe。Themostfrequentcaseofvoluntaryassociation,next tomarriage,ispartnershipinbusiness:anditisnotfoundorthoughtnecessary toenactthatineverypartnership,onepartnershallhaveentirecontrol overtheconcern,andtheothersshallbeboundtoobeyhisorders。Noone wouldenterintopartnershipontermswhichwouldsubjecthimtotheresponsibilities ofaprincipal,withonlythepowersandprivilegesofaclerkoragent。 Ifthelawdealtwithothercontractsasitdoeswithmarriage,itwould ordainthatonepartnershouldadministerthecommonbusinessasifitwas hisprivateconcern;thattheothersshouldhaveonlydelegatedpowers;and thatthisoneshouldbedesignatedbysomegeneralpresumptionoflaw,for exampleasbeingtheeldest。Thelawneverdoesthis:nordoesexperience showittobenecessarythatanytheoreticalinequalityofpowershouldexist betweenthepartners,orthatthepartnershipshouldhaveanyotherconditions thanwhattheymaythemselvesappointbytheirarticlesofagreement。Yet itmightseemthattheexclusivepowermightbeconcededwithlessdanger totherightsandinterestsoftheinferior,inthecaseofpartnershipthan inthatofmarriage,sinceheisfreetocancelthepowerbywithdrawing fromtheconnexion。Thewifehasnosuchpower,andevenifshehad,itis almostalwaysdesirablethatsheshouldtryallmeasuresbeforeresortingtoit。Itisquitetruethatthingswhichhavetobedecidedeveryday,andcannot adjustthemselvesgradually,orwaitforacompromise,oughttodependon onewill;onepersonmusthavetheirsolecontrol。Butitdoesnotfollow thatthisshouldalwaysbethesameperson。Thenaturalarrangementisa divisionofpowersbetweenthetwo;eachbeingabsoluteintheexecutive branchoftheirowndepartment,andanychangeofsystemandprinciplerequiring theconsentofboth。Thedivisionneithercannorshouldbepre—established bythelaw,sinceitmustdependonindividualcapacitiesandsuitabilities。 Ifthetwopersonschose,theymightpre—appointitbythemarriagecontract, aspecuniaryarrangementsarenowoftenpre—appointed。Therewouldseldom beanydifficultyindecidingsuchthingsbymutualconsent,unlessthemarriage wasoneofthoseunhappyonesinwhichallotherthings,aswellasthis, becomesubjectsofbickeringanddispute。Thedivisionofrightswouldnaturally followthedivisionofdutiesandfunctions;andthatisalreadymadeby consent,oratalleventsnotbylaw,butbygeneralcustom,modifiedandmodifiableatthepleasureofthepersonsconcerned。Therealpracticaldecisionofaffairs,towhichevermaybegiventhe legalauthority,willgreatlydepend,asitevennowdoes,uponcomparative qualifications。Themerefactthatheisusuallytheeldest,willinmost casesgivethepreponderancetotheman;atleastuntiltheybothattain atimeoflifeatwhichthedifferenceintheiryearsisofnoimportance。 Therewillnaturallyalsobeamorepotentialvoiceontheside,whichever itis,thatbringsthemeansofsupport。Inequalityfromthissourcedoes notdependonthelawofmarriage,butonthegeneralconditionsofhuman society,asnowconstituted。Theinfluenceofmentalsuperiority,either generalorspecial,andofsuperiordecisionofcharacter,willnecessarily tellformuch。Italwaysdoessoatpresent。Andthisfactshowshowlittle foundationthereisfortheapprehensionthatthepowersandresponsibilities ofpartnersinlife(asofpartnersinbusiness),cannotbesatisfactorily apportionedbyagreementbetweenthemselves。Theyalwaysaresoapportioned, exceptincasesinwhichthemarriageinstitutionisafailure。Thingsnever cometoanissueofdownrightpowerononeside,andobedienceontheother, exceptwheretheconnexionaltogetherhasbeenamistake,anditwouldbe ablessingtobothpartiestoberelievedfromit。Somemaysaythatthe verythingbywhichanamicablesettlementofdifferencesbecomespossible, isthepoweroflegalcompulsionknowntobeinreserve;aspeoplesubmit toanarbitrationbecausethereisacourtoflawinthebackground,which theyknowthattheycanbeforcedtoobey。Buttomakethecasesparallel, wemustsupposethattheruleofthecourtoflawwas,nottotrythecause, buttogivejudgmentalwaysforthesameside,supposethedefendant。If so,theamenabilitytoitwouldbeamotivewiththeplaintifftoagreeto almostanyarbitration,butitwouldbejustthereversewiththedefendant。 Thedespoticpowerwhichthelawgivestothehusbandmaybeareasonto makethewifeassenttoanycompromisebywhichpowerispracticallyshared betweenthetwo,butitcannotbethereasonwhythehusbanddoes。Thatthere isalwaysamongdecentlyconductedpeopleapracticalcompromise,though oneofthematleastisundernophysicalormoralnecessityofmakingit, showsthatthenaturalmotiveswhichleadtoavoluntaryadjustmentofthe unitedlifeoftwopersonsinamanneracceptabletoboth,doonthewhole, exceptingunfavourablecases,prevail。Thematteriscertainlynotimproved bylayingdownasanordinanceoflaw,thatthesuperstructureoffreegovernment shallberaiseduponalegalbasisofdespotismononesideandsubjection ontheother,andthateveryconcessionwhichthedespotmakesmay,athis merepleasure,andwithoutanywarning,berecalled。Besidesthatnofreedom isworthmuchwhenheldonsoprecariousatenure,itsconditionsarenot likelytobethemostequitablewhenthelawthrowssoprodigiousaweight intoonescale;whentheadjustmentrestsbetweentwopersonsoneofwhom isdeclaredtobeentitledtoeverything,theothernotonlyentitledto nothingexceptduringthegoodpleasureofthefirst,butunderthestrongestmoralandreligiousobligationnottorebelunderanyexcessofoppression。Apertinaciousadversary,pushedtoextremities,maysay,thathusbands indeedarewillingtobereasonable,andtomakefairconcessionstotheir partnerswithoutbeingcompelledtoit,butthatwivesarenot:thatifallowed anyrightsoftheirown,theywillacknowledgenorightsatallinanyone else,andneverwillyieldinanything,unlesstheycanbecompelled,by theman’smereauthority,toyieldineverything。Thiswouldhavebeensaid bymanypersonssomegenerationsago,whensatiresonwomenwereinvogue, andmenthoughtitacleverthingtoinsultwomenforbeingwhatmenmade them。Butitwillbesaidbynoonenowwhoisworthreplyingto。Itisnot thedoctrineofthepresentdaythatwomenarelesssusceptibleofgoodfeeling, andconsiderationforthosewithwhomtheyareunitedbythestrongestties, thanmenare。Onthecontrary,weareperpetuallytoldthatwomenarebetter thanmen,bythosewhoaretotallyopposedtotreatingthemasiftheywere asgood;sothatthesayinghaspassedintoapieceoftiresomecant,intended toputacomplimentaryfaceuponaninjury,andresemblingthosecelebrations ofroyalclemencywhich,accordingtoGulliver,thekingofLilliputalways prefixedtohismostsanguinarydecrees。Ifwomenarebetterthanmenin anything,itsurelyisinindividualself—sacrificeforthoseoftheirown family。ButIlaylittlestressonthis,solongastheyareuniversally taughtthattheyarebornandcreatedforself—sacrifice。Ibelievethat equalityofrightswouldabatetheexaggeratedself—abnegationwhichisthe presentartificialidealoffemininecharacter,andthatagoodwomanwould notbemoreself—sacrificingthanthebestman:butontheotherhand,men wouldbemuchmoreunselfishandself—sacrificingthanatpresent,because theywouldnolongerbetaughttoworshiptheirownwillassuchagrand thingthatitisactuallythelawforanotherrationalbeing。Thereisnothing whichmensoeasilylearnasthisself—worship:allprivilegedpersons,and allprivilegedclasses,havehadit。Themorewedescendinthescaleof humanity,theintenseritis;andmostofallinthosewhoarenot,andcan neverexpecttobe,raisedaboveanyoneexceptanunfortunatewifeandchildren。 Thehonourableexceptionsareproportionallyfewerthaninthecaseofalmost anyotherhumaninfirmity。Philosophyandreligion,insteadofkeepingit incheck,aregenerallysubornedtodefendit;andnothingcontrolsitbut thatpracticalfeelingoftheequalityofhumanbeings,whichisthetheory ofChristianity,butwhichChristianitywillneverpracticallyteach,while itsanctionsinstitutionsgroundedonanarbitrarypreferenceofonehumanbeingoveranother。Thereare,nodoubt,women,astherearemen,whomequalityofconsideration willnotsatisfy;withwhomthereisnopeacewhileanywillorwishisregarded buttheirown。Suchpersonsareapropersubjectforthelawofdivorce。 Theyareonlyfittolivealone,andnohumanbeingsoughttobecompelled toassociatetheirliveswiththem。Butthelegalsubordinationtendsto makesuchcharactersamongwomenmore,ratherthanless,frequent。Ifthe manexertshiswholepower,thewomanisofcoursecrushed:butifsheis treatedwithindulgence,andpermittedtoassumepower,thereisnorule tosetlimitstoherencroachments。Thelaw,notdeterminingherrights, buttheoreticallyallowinghernoneatall,practicallydeclaresthatthemeasureofwhatshehasarightto,iswhatshecancontrivetoget。Theequalityofmarriedpersonsbeforethelaw,isnotonlythesolemode inwhichthatparticularrelationcanbemadeconsistentwithjusticeto bothsides,andconducivetothehappinessofboth,butitistheonlymeans ofrenderingthedailylifeofmankind,inanyhighsense,aschoolofmoral cultivation。Thoughthetruthmaynotbefeltorgenerallyacknowledgedfor generationstocome,theonlyschoolofgenuinemoralsentimentissociety betweenequals。Themoraleducationofmankindhashithertoemanatedchiefly fromthelawofforce,andisadaptedalmostsolelytotherelationswhich forcecreates。Inthelessadvancedstatesofsociety,peoplehardlyrecognise anyrelationwiththeirequals。Tobeanequalistobeanenemy。Society, fromitshighestplacetoitslowest,isonelongchain,orratherladder, whereeveryindividualiseitheraboveorbelowhisnearestneighbour,and whereverhedoesnotcommandhemustobey。Existingmoralities,accordingly, aremainlyfittedtoarelationofcommandandobedience。Yetcommandand obediencearebutunfortunatenecessitiesofhumanlife:societyinequality isitsnormalstate。Alreadyinmodernlife,andmoreandmoreasitprogressively improves,commandandobediencebecomeexceptionalfactsinlife,equalassociation itsgeneralrule。Themoralityofthefirstagesrestedontheobligation tosubmittopower;thatoftheagesnextfollowing,ontherightofthe weaktotheforbearanceandprotectionofthestrong。Howmuchlongeris oneformofsocietyandlifetocontentitselfwiththemoralitymadefor another?Wehavehadthemoralityofsubmission,andthemoralityofchivalry andgenerosity;thetimeisnowcomeforthemoralityofjustice。Whenever, informerages,anyapproachhasbeenmadetosocietyinequality,Justice hasasserteditsclaimsasthefoundationofvirtue。Itwasthusinthefree republicsofantiquity。Buteveninthebestofthese,theequalswerelimited tothefreemalecitizens;slaves,women,andtheunenfranchisedresidents wereunderthelawofforce。ThejointinfluenceofRomancivilisationand ofChristianityobliteratedthesedistinctions,andintheory(ifonlypartially inpractice)declaredtheclaimsofthehumanbeing,assuch,tobeparamount tothoseofsex,class,orsocialposition。Thebarrierswhichhadbegun tobelevelledwereraisedagainbythenorthernconquests;andthewhole ofmodernhistoryconsistsoftheslowprocessbywhichtheyhavesincebeen wearingaway。Weareenteringintoanorderofthingsinwhichjusticewill againbetheprimaryvirtue;groundedasbeforeonequal,butnowalsoon sympatheticassociation;havingitsrootnolongerintheinstinctofequals forselfprotection,butinacultivatedsympathybetweenthem;andnoone beingnowleftout,butanequalmeasurebeingextendedtoall。Itisno noveltythatmankinddonotdistinctlyforeseetheirownchanges,andthat theirsentimentsareadaptedtopast,nottocomingages。Toseethefuturity ofthespecieshasalwaysbeentheprivilegeoftheintellectualelite,or ofthosewhohavelearntfromthem;tohavethefeelingsofthatfuturity hasbeenthedistinction,andusuallythemartyrdom,ofastillrarerelite。 Institutions,books,education,society,allgoontraininghumanbeings fortheold,longafterthenewhascome;muchmorewhenitisonlycoming。 Butthetruevirtueofhumanbeingsisfitnesstolivetogetherasequals; claimingnothingforthemselvesbutwhattheyasfreelyconcedetoeveryone else;regardingcommandofanykindasanexceptionalnecessity,andinall casesatemporaryone;andpreferring,wheneverpossible,thesocietyof thosewithwhomleadingandfollowingcanbealternateandreciprocal。To thesevirtues,nothinginlifeasatpresentconstitutedgivescultivation byexercise。Thefamilyisaschoolofdespotism,inwhichthevirtuesof despotism,butalsoitsvices,arelargelynourished。Citizenship,infree countries,ispartlyaschoolofsocietyinequality;butcitizenshipfills onlyasmallplaceinmodernlife,anddoesnotcomenearthedailyhabits orinmostsentiments。Thefamily,justlyconstituted,wouldbetherealschool ofthevirtuesoffreedom。Itissuretobeasufficientoneofeverything else。Itwillalwaysbeaschoolofobedienceforthechildren,ofcommand fortheparents。Whatisneededis,thatitshouldbeaschoolofsympathy inequality,oflivingtogetherinlove,withoutpowerononesideorobedience ontheother。Thisitoughttobebetweentheparents。Itwouldthenbean exerciseofthosevirtueswhicheachrequirestofitthemforallotherassociation, andamodeltothechildrenofthefeelingsandconductwhichtheirtemporary trainingbymeansofobedienceisdesignedtorenderhabitual,andtherefore natural,tothem。Themoraltrainingofmankindwillneverbeadaptedto theconditionsofthelifeforwhichallotherhumanprogressisapreparation, untiltheypractiseinthefamilythesamemoralrulewhichisadaptedto thenormalconstitutionofhumansociety。Anysentimentoffreedomwhich canexistinamanwhosenearestanddearestintimacies,arewiththoseof whomheisabsolutemaster,isnotthegenuineorChristianloveoffreedom, but,whattheloveoffreedomgenerallywasintheancientsandinthemiddle ages——anintensefeelingofthedignityandimportanceofhisownpersonality; makinghimdisdainayokeforhimself,ofwhichhehasnoabhorrencewhatever intheabstract,butwhichheisabundantlyreadytoimposeonothersforhisowninterestorglorification。Ireadilyadmit(anditistheveryfoundationofmyhopes)thatnumbers ofmarriedpeopleevenunderthepresentlaw(inthehigherclassesofEngland probablyagreatmajority),liveinthespiritofajustlawofequality。 Lawsneverwouldbeimproved,iftherewerenotnumerouspersonswhosemoral sentimentsarebetterthantheexistinglaws。Suchpersonsoughttosupport theprincipleshereadvocated;ofwhichtheonlyobjectistomakeallother marriedcouplessimilartowhatthesearenow。Butpersonsevenofconsiderable moralworth,unlesstheyarealsothinkers,areveryreadytobelievethat lawsorpractices,theevilsofwhichtheyhavenotpersonallyexperienced, donotproduceanyevils,but(ifseemingtobegenerallyapprovedof)probably dogood,andthatitiswrongtoobjecttothem。Itwould,however,bea greatmistakeinsuchmarriedpeopletosuppose,becausethelegalconditions ofthetiewhichunitesthemdonotoccurtotheirthoughtsonceinatwelve month,andbecausetheyliveandfeelinallrespectsasiftheywerelegally equals,thatthesameisthecasewithallothermarriedcouples,wherever thehusbandisnotanotoriousruffian。Tosupposethis,wouldbetoshow equalignoranceofhumannatureandoffact。Thelessfitamanisforthe possessionofpower——thelesslikelytobeallowedtoexerciseitover anypersonwiththatperson’svoluntaryconsent——themoredoeshehughimself intheconsciousnessofthepowerthelawgiveshim,exactitslegalrights totheutmostpointwhichcustom(thecustomofmenlikehimself)willtolerate, andtakepleasureinusingthepower,merelytoenliventheagreeablesense ofpossessingit。Whatismore;inthemostnaturallybrutalandmorally uneducatedpartofthelowerclasses,thelegalslaveryofthewoman,and somethinginthemerelyphysicalsubjectiontotheirwillasaninstrument, causesthemtofeelasortofdisrespectandcontempttowardstheirownwife whichtheydonotfeeltowardsanyotherwoman,oranyotherhumanbeing, withwhomtheycomeincontact;andwhichmakesherseemtothemanappropriate subjectforanykindofindignity。Letanacuteobserverofthesignsof feeling,whohastherequisiteopportunities,judgeforhimselfwhetherthis isnotthecase:andifhefindsthatitis,lethimnotwonderatanyamount ofdisgustandindignationthatcanbefeltagainstinstitutionswhichleadnaturallytothisdepravedstateofthehumanmind。Weshallbetold,perhaps,thatreligionimposesthedutyofobedience; aseveryestablishedfactwhichistoobadtoadmitofanyotherdefence, isalwayspresentedtousasaninjunctionofreligion。TheChurch,itis verytrue,enjoinsitinherformularies,butitwouldbedifficulttoderive anysuchinjunctionfromChristianity。WearetoldthatSt。Paulsaid,\"Wives, obeyyourhusbands\":buthealsosaid,\"Slaves,obeyyourmasters。\" ItwasnotSt。Paul’sbusiness,norwasitconsistentwithhisobject,the propagationofChristianity,toinciteanyonetorebellionagainstexisting laws。TheApostle’sacceptanceofallsocialinstitutionsashefoundthem, isnomoretobeconstruedasadisapprovalofattemptstoimprovethemat thepropertime,thanhisdeclaration,\"Thepowersthatbeareordained ofGod,\"giveshissanctiontomilitarydespotism,andtothatalone, astheChristianformofpoliticalgovernment,orcommandspassiveobedience toit。TopretendthatChristianitywasintendedtostereotypeexistingforms ofgovernmentandsociety,andprotectthemagainstchange,istoreduce ittothelevelofIslamismorofBrahminism。ItispreciselybecauseChristianity hasnotdonethis,thatithasbeenthereligionoftheprogressiveportion ofmankind,andIslamism,Brahminism,etc。havebeenthoseofthestationary portions;orrather(forthereisnosuchthingasareallystationarysociety) ofthedecliningportions。Therehavebeenabundanceofpeople,inallages ofChristianity,whotriedtomakeitsomethingofthesamekind;toconvert usintoasortofChristianMussulmans,withtheBibleforaKoran,prohibiting allimprovement:andgreathasbeentheirpower,andmanyhavehadtosacrifice theirlivesinresistingthem。Buttheyhavebeenresisted,andtheresistancehasmadeuswhatweare,andwillyetmakeuswhatwearetobe。Afterwhathasbeensaidrespectingtheobligationofobedience,itis almostsuperfluoustosayanythingconcerningthemorespecialpointincluded inthegeneralone——awoman’srighttoherownproperty;forIneednot hopethatthistreatisecanmakeanyimpressionuponthosewhoneedanything toconvincethemthatawoman’sinheritanceorgainsoughttobeasmuch herownaftermarriageasbefore。Theruleissimple:whateverwouldbethe husband’sorwife’siftheywerenotmarried,shouldbeundertheirexclusive controlduringmarriage;whichneednotinterferewiththepowertotieup propertybysettlement,inordertopreserveitforchildren。Somepeople aresentimentallyshockedattheideaofaseparateinterestinmoneymatters asinconsistentwiththeidealfusionoftwolivesintoone。Formyownpart, Iamoneofthestrongestsupportersofcommunityofgoods,whenresulting fromanentireunityoffeelingintheowners,whichmakesallthingscommon betweenthem。ButIhavenorelishforacommunityofgoodsrestingonthe doctrine,thatwhatismineisyours,butwhatisyoursisnotmine;and Ishouldprefertodeclineenteringintosuchacompactwithanyone,thoughIweremyselfthepersontoprofitbyit。Thisparticularinjusticeandoppressiontowomen,whichis,tocommon apprehensions,moreobviousthanalltherest,admitsofremedywithoutinterfering withanyothermischiefs:andtherecanbelittledoubtthatitwillbeone oftheearliestremedied。Already,inmanyofthenewandseveralofthe oldStatesoftheAmericanConfederation,provisionshavebeeninsertedeven inthewrittenConstitutions,securingtowomenequalityofrightsinthis respect:andtherebyimprovingmateriallytheposition,inthemarriagerelation, ofthosewomenatleastwhohaveproperty,byleavingthemoneinstrument ofpowerwhichtheyhavenotsignedaway;andpreventingalsothescandalous abuseofthemarriageinstitution,whichisperpetratedwhenamanentraps agirlintomarryinghimwithoutasettlement,forthesolepurposeofgetting possessionofhermoney。Whenthesupportofthefamilydepends,notonproperty, butonearnings,thecommonarrangement,bywhichthemanearnstheincome andthewifesuperintendsthedomesticexpenditure,seemstomeingeneral themostsuitabledivisionoflabourbetweenthetwopersons。If,inaddition tothephysicalsufferingofbearingchildren,andthewholeresponsibility oftheircareandeducationinearlyyears,thewifeundertakesthecareful andeconomicalapplicationofthehusband’searningstothegeneralcomfort ofthefamily;shetakesnotonlyherfairshare,butusuallythelarger share,ofthebodilyandmentalexertionrequiredbytheirjointexistence。 Ifsheundertakesanyadditionalportion,itseldomrelievesherfromthis, butonlypreventsherfromperformingitproperly。Thecarewhichsheis herselfdisabledfromtakingofthechildrenandthehousehold,nobodyelse takes;thoseofthechildrenwhodonotdie,growupastheybestcan,and themanagementofthehouseholdislikelytobesobad,aseveninpoint ofeconomytobeagreatdrawbackfromthevalueofthewife’searnings。 Inanotherwisejuststateofthings,itisnot,therefore,Ithink,adesirable custom,thatthewifeshouldcontributebyherlabourtotheincomeofthe family。Inanunjuststateofthings,herdoingsomaybeusefultoher, bymakingherofmorevalueintheeyesofthemanwhoislegallyhermaster; but,ontheotherhand,itenableshimstillfarthertoabusehispower, byforcinghertowork,andleavingthesupportofthefamilytoherexertions, whilehespendsmostofhistimeindrinkingandidleness。Thepowerofearning isessentialtothedignityofawoman,ifshehasnotindependentproperty。 Butifmarriagewereanequalcontract,notimplyingtheobligationofobedience; iftheconnexionwerenolongerenforcedtotheoppressionofthosetowhom itispurelyamischief,butaseparation,onjustterms(Idonotnowspeak ofadivorce),couldbeobtainedbyanywomanwhowasmorallyentitledto it;andifshewouldthenfindallhonourableemploymentsasfreelyopen toherastomen;itwouldnotbenecessaryforherprotection,thatduring marriagesheshouldmakethisparticularuseofherfaculties。Likeaman whenhechoosesaprofession,so,whenawomanmarries,itmayingeneral beunderstoodthatshemakeschoiceofthemanagementofahousehold,and thebringingupofafamily,asthefirstcalluponherexertions,during asmanyyearsofherlifeasmayberequiredforthepurpose;andthatshe renounces,notallotherobjectsandoccupations,butallwhicharenotconsistent withtherequirementsofthis。Theactualexercise,inahabitualorsystematic manner,ofoutdooroccupations,orsuchascannotbecarriedonathome, wouldbythisprinciplebepracticallyinterdictedtothegreaternumber ofmarriedwomen。Buttheutmostlatitudeoughttoexistfortheadaptation ofgeneralrulestoindividualsuitabilities;andthereoughttobenothing topreventfacultiesexceptionallyadaptedtoanyotherpursuit,fromobeying theirvocationnotwithstandingmarriage:dueprovisionbeingmadeforsupplying otherwiseanyfalling—shortwhichmightbecomeinevitable,inherfullperformance oftheordinaryfunctionsofmistressofafamily。Thesethings,ifonce opinionwererightlydirectedonthesubject,mightwithperfectsafetybe lefttoberegulatedbyopinion,withoutanyinterferenceoflaw。 CHAPTER3Ontheotherpointwhichisinvolvedinthejustequalityofwomen,their admissibilitytoallthefunctionsandoccupationshithertoretainedasthe monopolyofthestrongersex,Ishouldanticipatenodifficultyinconvincing anyonewhohasgonewithmeonthesubjectoftheequalityofwomeninthe family。Ibelievethattheirdisabilitieselsewhereareonlyclungtoin ordertomaintaintheirsubordinationindomesticlife;becausethegenerality ofthemalesexcannotyettoleratetheideaoflivingwithanequal。Were itnotforthat,Ithinkthatalmosteveryone,intheexistingstateofopinion inpoliticsandpoliticaleconomy,wouldadmittheinjusticeofexcluding halfthehumanracefromthegreaternumberoflucrativeoccupations,and fromalmostallhighsocialfunctions;ordainingfromtheirbirtheither thattheyarenot,andcannotbyanypossibilitybecome,fitforemployments whicharelegallyopentothestupidestandbasestoftheothersex,orelse thathoweverfittheymaybe,thoseemploymentsshallbeinterdictedtothem, inordertobepreservedfortheexclusivebenefitofmales。Inthelast twocenturies,when(whichwasseldomthecase)anyreasonbeyondthemere existenceofthefactwasthoughttoberequiredtojustifythedisabilities ofwomen,peopleseldomassignedasareasontheirinferiormentalcapacity; which,intimeswhentherewasarealtrialofpersonalfaculties(fromwhich allwomenwerenotexcluded)inthestrugglesofpubliclife,noonereally believedin。Thereasongiveninthosedayswasnotwomen’sunfitness,but theinterestofsociety,bywhichwasmeanttheinterestofmen:justas theraisond’etat,meaningtheconvenienceofthegovernment,andthesupport ofexistingauthority,wasdeemedasufficientexplanationandexcusefor themostflagitiouscrimes。Inthepresentday,powerholdsasmootherlanguage, andwhomsoeveritoppresses,alwayspretendstodosofortheirowngood: accordingly,whenanythingisforbiddentowomen,itisthoughtnecessary tosay,anddesirabletobelieve,thattheyareincapableofdoingit,and thattheydepartfromtheirrealpathofsuccessandhappinesswhenthey aspiretoit。Buttomakethisreasonplausible(Idonotsayvalid),those bywhomitisurgedmustbepreparedtocarryittoamuchgreaterlength thananyoneventurestodointhefaceofpresentexperience。Itisnotsufficient tomaintainthatwomenontheaveragearelessgiftedthenmenontheaverage, withcertainofthehighermentalfaculties,orthatasmallernumberof womenthanofmenarefitforoccupationsandfunctionsofthehighestintellectual character。Itisnecessarytomaintainthatnowomenatallarefitforthem, andthatthemosteminentwomenarcinferiorinmentalfacultiestothemost mediocreofthemenonwhomthosefunctionsatpresentdevolve。Forifthe performanceofthefunctionisdecidedeitherbycompetition,orbyanymode ofchoicewhichsecuresregardtothepublicinterest,thereneedsbeno apprehensionthatanyimportantemploymentswillfallintothehandsofwomen inferiortoaveragemen,ortotheaverageoftheirmalecompetitors。The onlyresultwouldbethattherewouldbefewerwomenthanmeninsuchemployments; aresultcertaintohappeninanycase,ifonlyfromthepreferencealways likelytobefeltbythemajorityofwomenfortheonevocationinwhich thereisnobodytocompetewiththem。Now,themostdetermineddepreciator ofwomenwillnotventuretodeny,thatwhenweaddtheexperienceofrecent timestothatofagespast,women,andnotafewmerely,butmanywomen, haveprovedthemselvescapableofeverything,perhapswithoutasingleexception, whichisdonebymen,andofdoingitsuccessfullyandcreditably。Theutmost thatcanbesaidis,thattherearcmanythingswhichnoneofthemhavesucceeded indoingaswellastheyhavebeendonebysomemen——manyinwhichthey havenotreachedtheveryhighestrank。Butthereareextremelyfew,dependent onlyonmentalfaculties,inwhichtheyhavenotattainedtheranknextto thehighest。Isnotthisenough,andmuchmorethanenough,tomakeita tyrannytothem,andadetrimenttosociety,thattheyshouldnotbeallowed tocompetewithmenfortheexerciseofthesefunctions?Isitnotamere truismtosay,thatsuchfunctionsareoftenfilledbymenfarlessfitfor themthannumbersofwomen,andwhowouldbebeatenbywomeninanyfair fieldofcompetition?Whatdifferencedoesitmakethattheremaybemen somewhere,fullyemployedaboutotherthings,whomaybestillbetterqualified forthethingsinquestionthanthesewomen?Doesnotthistakeplacein allcompetitions?Istheresogreatasuperfluityofmenfitforhighduties, thatsocietycanaffordtorejecttheserviceofanycompetentperson?Are wesocertainofalwaysfindingamanmadetoourhandsforanydutyorfunction ofsocialimportancewhichfallsvacant,thatwelosenothingbyputting abanupononehalfofmankind,andrefusingbeforehandtomaketheirfaculties available,howeverdistinguishedtheymaybe?Andevenifwecoulddowithout them,woulditbeconsistentwithjusticetorefusetothemtheirfairshare ofhonouranddistinction,ortodenytothemtheequalmoralrightofall humanbeingstochoosetheiroccupation(shortofinjurytoothers)according totheirownpreferences,attheirownrisk?Noristheinjusticeconfined tothem:itissharedbythosewhoareinapositiontobenefitbytheir services。Toordainthatanykindofpersonsshallnotbephysicians,or shallnotbeadvocates,orshallnotbeMembersofParliament,istoinjure notthemonly,butallwhoemployphysiciansoradvocates,orelectMembers ofParliament,andwhoaredeprivedofthestimulatingeffectofgreater competitionontheexertionsofthecompetitors,aswellasrestrictedtoanarrowerrangeofindividualchoice。ItwillperhapsbesufficientifIconfinemyself,inthedetailsofmy argument,tofunctionsofapublicnature:since,ifIamsuccessfulasto those,itprobablywillbereadilygrantedthatwomenshouldbeadmissible toallotheroccupationstowhichitisatallmaterialwhethertheyare admittedornot。Andhereletmebeginbymarkingoutonefunction,broadly distinguishedfromallothers,theirrighttowhichisentirelyindependent ofanyquestionwhichcanberaisedconcerningtheirfaculties。Imeanthe suffrage,bothparliamentaryandmunicipal。Therighttoshareinthechoice ofthosewhoaretoexerciseapublictrust,isaltogetheradistinctthing fromthatofcompetingforthetrustitself。IfnoonecouldvoteforaMember ofParliamentwhowasnotfittobeacandidate,thegovernmentwouldbe anarrowoligarchyindeed。Tohaveavoiceinchoosingthosebywhomone istobegoverned,isameansofself—protectionduetoeveryone,though heweretoremainforeverexcludedfromthefunctionofgoverning:andthat womenareconsideredfittohavesuchachoice,maybepresumedfromthe fact,thatthelawalreadygivesittowomeninthemostimportantofall casestothemselves:forthechoiceofthemanwhoistogovernawomanto theendoflife,isalwayssupposedtobevoluntarilymadebyherself。In thecaseofelectiontopublictrusts,itisthebusinessofconstitutional lawtosurroundtherightofsuffragewithallneedfulsecuritiesandlimitations; butwhateversecuritiesaresufficientinthecaseofthemalesex,noothers needberequiredinthecaseofwomen。Underwhateverconditions,andwithin whateverlimits,menareadmittedtothesuffrage,thereisnotashadow ofjustificationfornotadmittingwomenunderthesame。Themajorityof thewomenofanyclassarenotlikelytodifferinpoliticalopinionfrom themajorityofthemenofthesameclass,unlessthequestionbeonein whichtheinterestsofwomen,assuch,areinsomewayinvolved;andifthey areso,womenrequirethesuffrage,astheirguaranteeofjustandequal consideration。Thisoughttobeobviouseventothosewhocoincideinno otherofthedoctrinesforwhichIcontend。Evenifeverywomanwereawife, andifeverywifeoughttobeaslave,allthemorewouldtheseslavesstand inneedoflegalprotection:andweknowwhatlegalprotectiontheslaveshave,wherethelawsaremadebytheirmasters。Withregardtothefitnessofwomen,notonlytoparticipateinelections, butthemselvestoholdofficesorpractiseprofessionsinvolvingimportant publicresponsibilities;Ihavealreadyobservedthatthisconsideration isnotessentialtothepracticalquestionindispute:sinceanywoman,who succeedsinanopenprofession,provesbythatveryfactthatsheisqualified forit。Andinthecaseofpublicoffices,ifthepoliticalsystemofthe countryissuchastoexcludeunfitmen,itwillequallyexcludeunfitwomen: whileifitisnot,thereisnoadditionalevilinthefactthattheunfit personswhomitadmitsmaybeeitherwomenormen。Aslongthereforeasit isacknowledgedthatevenafewwomenmaybefitfortheseduties,thelaws whichshutthedooronthoseexceptionscannotbejustifiedbyanyopinion whichcanbeheldrespectingthecapacitiesofwomeningeneral。But,though thislastconsiderationisnotessential,itisfarfrombeingirrelevant。 Anunprejudicedviewofitgivesadditionalstrengthtotheargumentsagainst thedisabilitiesofwomen,andreinforcesthembyhighconsiderationsofpracticalutility。Letusfirstmakeentireabstractionofallpsychologicalconsiderations tendingtoshow,thatanyofthementaldifferencessupposedtoexistbetween womenandmenarebutthenaturaleffectofthedifferencesintheireducation andcircumstances,andindicatenoradicaldifference,farlessradicalinferiority, ofnature。Letusconsiderwomenonlyastheyalreadyare,orastheyare knowntohavebeen;andthecapacitieswhichtheyhavealreadypractically shown。Whattheyhavedone,thatatleast,ifnothingelse,itisproved thattheycando。Whenweconsiderhowsedulouslytheyarealltrainedaway from,insteadofbeingtrainedtowards,anyoftheoccupationsorobjects reservedformen,itisevidentthatIamtakingaveryhumblegroundfor them,whenIresttheircaseonwhattheyhaveactuallyachieved。For,in thiscase,negativeevidenceisworthlittle,——whileanypositiveevidence isconclusive。Itcannotbeinferredtobeimpossiblethatawomanshould beaHomer,oranAristotle,oraMichaelAngelo,oraBeethoven,because nowomanhasyetactuallyproducedworkscomparabletotheirsinanyofthose linesofexcellence。Thisnegativefactatmostleavesthequestionuncertain, andopentopsychologicaldiscussion。Butitisquitecertainthatawoman canbeaQueenElizabeth,oraDeborah,oraJoanofArc,sincethisisnot inference,butfact。Nowitisacuriousconsideration,thattheonlythings whichtheexistinglawexcludeswomenfromdoing,arethethingswhichthey haveprovedthattheyareabletodo。Thereisnolawtopreventawoman fromhavingwrittenalltheplaysofShakespeare,orcomposedalltheoperas ofMozart。ButQueenElizabethorQueenVictoria,hadtheynotinherited thethrone,couldnothavebeenentrustedwiththesmallestofthepoliticalduties,ofwhichtheformershowedherselfequaltothegreatest。###第4章Ifanythingconclusivecouldbeinferredfromexperience,withoutpsychological analysis,itwouldbethatthethingswhichwomenarenotallowedtodoare theveryonesforwhichtheyarepeculiarlyqualified;sincetheirvocation forgovernmenthasmadeitsway,andbecomeconspicuous,throughthevery fewopportunitieswhichhavebeengiven;whileinthelinesofdistinction whichapparentlywerefreelyopentothem,theyhavebynomeanssoeminently distinguishedthemselves。Weknowhowsmallanumberofreigningqueenshistory presents,incomparisonwiththatofkings。Ofthissmallernumberafar largerproportionhaveshowntalentsforrule;thoughmanyofthemhaveoccupied thethroneindifficultperiods。Itisremarkable,too,thattheyhave,in agreatnumberofinstances,beendistinguishedbymeritsthemostopposite totheimaginaryandconventionalcharacterofwomen:theyhavebeenasmuch remarkedforthefirmnessandvigouroftheirrule,asforitsintelligence。 When,toqueensandempresses,weaddregents,andviceroysofprovinces, thelistofwomenwhohavebeeneminentrulersofmankindswellstoagreat length。(1*)Thisfactissoundeniable,thatsomeone,longago,triedto retorttheargument,andturnedtheadmittedtruthintoanadditionalinsult, bysayingthatqueensarebetterthankings,becauseunderkingswomengovern,butunderqueens,men。Itmayseemawasteofreasoningtoargueagainstabadjoke;butsuch thingsdoaffectpeople’sminds;andIhaveheardmenquotethissaying, withanairasiftheythoughtthattherewassomethinginit。Atanyrate, itwillserveasanything,elseforastarting—pointindiscussion。Isay, then,thatitisnottruethatunderkings,womengovern。Suchcasesare entirelyexceptional:andweakkingshavequiteasoftengovernedillthrough theinfluenceofmalefavourites,asoffemale。Whenakingisgovernedby awomanmerelythroughhisamatorypropensities,goodgovernmentisnotprobable, thougheventhenthereareexceptions。ButFrenchhistorycountstwokings whohavevoluntarilygiventhedirectionofaffairsduringmanyyears,the onetohismother,theothertohissister:oneofthem,CharlesVIII,was amereboy,butindoingsohefollowedtheintentionsofhisfatherLouis XI,theablestmonarchofhisage。Theother,SaintLouis,wasthebest, andoneofthemostvigorousrulers,sincethetimeofCharlemagne。Both theseprincessesruledinamannerhardlyequalledbyanyprinceamongtheir contemporaries。TheEmperorCharlestheFifth,themostpoliticprinceof histime,whohadasgreatanumberofablemeninhisserviceasaruler everhad,andwasoneoftheleastlikelyofallsovereignstosacrifice hisinteresttopersonalfeelings,madetwoprincessesofhisfamilysuccessively GovernorsoftheNetherlands,andkeptoneorotheroftheminthatpost duringhiswholelife(theywereafterwardssucceededbyathird)。Bothruled verysuccessfully,andoneofthem,MargaretofAustria,asoneoftheablest politiciansoftheage。Somuchforonesideofthequestion。Nowastothe other。Whenitissaidthatunderqueensmengovern,isthesamemeaning tobeunderstoodaswhenkingsaresaidtobegovernedbywomen?Isitmeant thatqueenschooseastheirinstrumentsofgovernment,theassociatesof theirpersonalpleasures?Thecaseisrareevenwiththosewhoareasunscrupulous onthelatterpointasCatherineII:anditisnotinthesecasesthatthe goodgovernment,allegedtoarisefrommaleinfluence,istobefound。If itbetrue,then,thattheadministrationisinthehandsofbettermenunder aqueenthanunderanaverageking,itmustbethatqueenshaveasuperior capacityforchoosingthem;andwomenmustbebetterqualifiedthanmenboth forthepositionofsovereign,andforthatofchiefminister;fortheprincipal businessofaPrimeMinisterisnottogoverninperson,buttofindthe fittestpersonstoconducteverydepartmentofpublicaffairs。Themorerapid insightintocharacter,whichisoneoftheadmittedpointsofsuperiority inwomenovermen,mustcertainlymakethem,withanythinglikeparityof qualificationsinotherrespects,moreaptthanmeninthatchoiceofinstruments, whichisnearlythemostimportantbusinessofeveryonewhohastodowith governingmankind。EventheunprincipledCatherinedeMedicicouldfeelthe valueofaChancellordel’Hopital。Butitisalsotruethatmostgreatqueens havebeengreatbytheirowntalentsforgovernment,andhavebeenwellserved preciselyforthatreason。Theyretainedthesupremedirectionofaffairs intheirownhands:andiftheylistenedtogoodadvisers,theygavebythat factthestrongestproofthattheirjudgmentfittedthemfordealingwiththegreatquestionsofgovernment。Isitreasonabletothinkthatthosewhoarefitforthegreaterfunctions ofpolitics,areincapableofqualifyingthemselvesfortheless?Isthere anyreasoninthenatureofthings,thatthewivesandsistersofprinces should,whenevercalledon,befoundascompetentastheprincesthemselves totheirbusiness,butthatthewivesandsistersofstatesmen,andadministrators, anddirectorsofcompanies,andmanagersofpublicinstitutions,shouldbe unabletodowhatisdonebytheirbrothersandhusbands?Therealreason isplainenough;itisthatprincesses,beingmoreraisedabovethegenerality ofmenbytheirrankthanplacedbelowthembytheirsex,haveneverbeen taughtthatitwasimproperforthemtoconcernthemselveswithpolitics; buthavebeenallowedtofeeltheliberalinterestnaturaltoanycultivated humanbeing,inthegreattransactionswhichtookplacearoundthem,and inwhichtheymightbecalledontotakeapart。Theladiesofreigningfamilies aretheonlywomenwhoareallowedthesamerangeofinterestsandfreedom ofdevelopmentasmen;anditispreciselyintheircasethatthereisnot foundtobeanyinferiority。Exactlywhereandinproportionaswomen’scapacitiesforgovernmenthavebeentried,inthatproportionhavetheybeenfoundadequate。Thisfactisinaccordancewiththebestgeneralconclusionswhichthe world’simperfectexperienceseemsasyettosuggest,concerningthepeculiar tendenciesandaptitudescharacteristicofwomen,aswomenhavehitherto been。Idonotsay,astheywillcontinuetobe;for,asIhavealreadysaid morethanonce,Iconsideritpresumptioninanyonetopretendtodecide whatwomenareorarenot,canorcannotbe,bynaturalconstitution。They havealwayshithertobeenkept,asfarasregardsspontaneousdevelopment, insounnaturalastate,thattheirnaturecannotbuthavebeengreatlydistorted anddisguised;andnoonecansafelypronouncethatifwomen’snaturewere lefttochooseitsdirectionasfreelyasmen’s,andifnoartificialbent wereattemptedtobegiventoitexceptthatrequiredbytheconditionsof humansociety,andgiventobothsexesalike,therewouldbeanymaterial difference,orperhapsanydifferenceatall,inthecharacterandcapacities whichwouldunfoldthemselves。Ishallpresentlyshow,thateventheleast contestableofthedifferenceswhichnowexist,aresuchasmayverywell havebeenproducedmerelybycircumstances,withoutanydifferenceofnatural capacity。But,lookingatwomenastheyareknowninexperience,itmaybe saidofthem,withmoretruththanbelongstomostothergeneralisations onthesubject,thatthegeneralbentoftheirtalentsistowardsthepractical。 Thisstatementisconformabletoallthepublichistoryofwomen,inthe presentandthepast。Itisnolessborneoutbycommonanddailyexperience。 Letusconsiderthespecialnatureofthementalcapacitiesmostcharacteristic ofawomanoftalent。Theyareallofakindwhichfitsthemforpractice, andmakesthemtendtowardsit。Whatismeantbyawoman’scapacityofintuitive perception?Itmeans,arapidandcorrectinsightintopresentfact。Ithas nothingtodowithgeneralprinciples。Nobodyeverperceivedascientific lawofnaturebyintuition,norarrivedatageneralruleofdutyorprudence byit。Theseareresultsofslowandcarefulcollectionandcomparisonof experience;andneitherthemennorthewomen。Ofintuitionusuallyshine inthisdepartment,unless,indeed,theexperiencenecessaryissuchasthey canacquirebythemselves。Forwhatiscalledtheirintuitivesagacitymakes thempeculiarlyaptingatheringsuchgeneraltruthsascanbecollected fromtheirindividualmeansofobservation。When,consequently,theychance tobeaswellprovidedasmenarewiththeresultsofotherpeople’sexperience, byreadingandeducation(Iusethewordchanceadvisedly,for,inrespect totheknowledgethattendstofitthemforthegreaterconcernsoflife, theonlyeducatedwomenaretheself—educated)theyarebetterfurnished thanmeningeneralwiththeessentialrequisitesofskilfulandsuccessful practice。Menwhohavebeenmuchtaught,areapttobedeficientinthesense ofpresentfact;theydonotsee,inthefactswhichtheyarecalledupon todealwith,whatisreallythere,butwhattheyhavebeentaughttoexpect。 Thisisseldomthecasewithwomenofanyability。Theircapacityof\"intuition\" preservesthemfromit。Withequalityofexperienceandofgeneralfaculties, awomanusuallyseesmuchmorethanamanofwhatisimmediatelybeforeher。 Nowthissensibilitytothepresent,isthemainqualityonwhichthecapacity forpractice,asdistinguishedfromtheory,depends。Todiscovergeneral principles,belongstothespeculativefaculty:todiscernanddiscriminate theparticularcasesinwhichtheyareandarenotapplicable,constitutes practicaltalent:andforthis,womenastheynowarehaveapeculiaraptitude。 Iadmitthattherecanbenogoodpracticewithoutprinciples,andthatthe predominantplacewhichquicknessofobservationholdsamongawoman’sfaculties, makesherparticularlyapttobuildoverhastygeneralisationsuponherown observation;thoughatthesametimenolessreadyinrectifyingthosegeneralisations, asherobservationtakesawiderrange。Butthecorrectivetothisdefect, isaccesstotheexperienceofthehumanrace;generalknowledge——exactly thethingwhicheducationcanbestsupply。Awoman’smistakesarespecifically thoseofacleverself—educatedman,whooftenseeswhatmentrainedinroutine donotsee,butfallsintoerrorsforwantofknowingthingswhichhavelong beenknown。Ofcoursehehasacquiredmuchofthepre—existingknowledge, orhecouldnothavegotonatall;butwhatheknowsofithehaspickedupinfragmentsandatrandom,aswomendo。Butthisgravitationofwomen’smindstothepresent,tothereal,to actualfact,whileinitsexclusivenessitisasourceoferrors,isalso amostusefulcounteractiveofthecontraryerror。Theprincipalandmost characteristicaberrationofspeculativemindsassuch,consistsprecisely inthedeficiencyofthislivelyperceptionandever—presentsenseofobjective fact。Forwantofthis,theyoftennotonlyoverlookthecontradictionwhich outwardfactsopposetotheirtheories,butlosesightofthelegitimate purposeofspeculationaltogether,andlettheirspeculativefacultiesgo astrayintoregionsnotpeopledwithrealbeings,animateorinanimate,even idealised,butwithpersonifiedshadowscreatedbytheillusionsofmetaphysics orbythemereentanglementofwords,andthinktheseshadowstheproper objectsofthehighest,themosttranscendant,philosophy。Hardlyanything canbeofgreatervaluetoamanoftheoryandspeculationwhoemployshimself notincollectingmaterialsofknowledgebyobservation,butinworkingthem upbyprocessesofthoughtintocomprehensivetruthsofscienceandlaws ofconduct,thantocarryonhisspeculationsinthecompanionship,andunder thecriticism,ofareallysuperiorwoman。Thereisnothingcomparableto itforkeepinghisthoughtswithinthelimitsofrealthings,andtheactual factsofnature。Awomanseldomrunswildafteranabstraction。Thehabitual directionofhermindtodealingwiththingsasindividualsratherthanin groups,and(whatiscloselyconnectedwithit)hermorelivelyinterest inthepresentfeelingsofpersons,whichmakesherconsiderfirstofall, inanythingwhichclaimstobeappliedtopractice,inwhatmannerpersons willbeaffectedbyit——thesetwothingsmakeherextremelyunlikelyto putfaithinanyspeculationwhichlosessightofindividuals,anddeals withthingsasiftheyexistedforthebenefitofsomeimaginaryentity, somemerecreationofthemind,notresolvableintothefeelingsofliving beings。Women’sthoughtsarethusasusefulingivingrealitytothoseof thinkingmen,asmen’sthoughtsingivingwidthandlargenesstothoseof women。Indepth,asdistinguishedfrombreadth,Igreatlydoubtifevennow,women,comparedwithmen,areatanydisadvantage。Iftheexistingmentalcharacteristicsofwomenarethusvaluableeven inaidofspeculation,theyarestillmoreimportant,whenspeculationhas doneitswork,forcarryingouttheresultsofspeculationintopractice。 Forthereasonsalreadygiven,womenarecomparativelyunlikelytofallinto thecommonerrorofmen,thatofstickingtotheirrulesinacasewhose specialitieseithertakeitoutoftheclasstowhichtherulesareapplicable, orrequireaspecialadaptationofthem。Letusnowconsideranotherofthe admittedsuperioritiesofcleverwomen,greaterquicknessofapprehension。 Isnotthispre—eminentlyaqualitywhichfitsapersonforpractice?In action,everythingcontinuallydependsupondecidingpromptly。Inspeculation, nothingdoes。Amerethinkercanwait,cantaketimetoconsider,cancollect additionalevidence;heisnotobligedtocompletehisphilosophyatonce, lesttheopportunityshouldgoby。Thepowerofdrawingthebestconclusion possiblefrominsufficientdataisnotindeeduselessinphilosophy;the constructionofaprovisionalhypothesisconsistentwithallknownfacts isoftentheneedfulbasisforfurtherinquiry。Butthisfacultyisrather serviceableinphilosophy,thanthemainqualificationforit:and,forthe auxiliaryaswellasforthemainoperation,thephilosophercanallowhimself anytimehepleases。Heisinnoneedofthecapacityofdoingrapidlywhat hedoes;whatheratherneedsispatience,toworkonslowlyuntilimperfect lightshavebecomeperfect,andaconjecturehasripenedintoatheorem。 Forthose,onthecontrary,whosebusinessiswiththefugitiveandperishable ——withindividualfacts,notkindsoffacts——rapidityofthoughtisa qualificationnextonlyinimportancetothepowerofthoughtitself。He whohasnothisfacultiesunderimmediatecommand,inthecontingenciesof action,mightaswellnothavethematall。Hemaybefittocriticise,but heisnotfittoact。Nowitisinthisthatwomen,andthemenwhoaremost likewomen,confessedlyexcel。Theothersortofman,howeverpre—eminent maybehisfaculties,arrivesslowlyatcompletecommandofthem:rapidity ofjudgmentandpromptitudeofjudiciousaction,eveninthethingsheknowsbest,arethegradualandlateresultofstrenuouseffortgrownintohabit。Itwillbesaid,perhaps,thatthegreaternervoussusceptibilityofwomen isadisqualificationforpractice,inanythingbutdomesticlife,byrendering themmobile,changeable,toovehementlyundertheinfluenceofthemoment, incapableofdoggedperseverance,unequalanduncertaininthepowerofusing theirfaculties。Ithinkthatthesephrasessumupthegreaterpartofthe objectionscommonlymadetothefitnessofwomenforthehigherclassof seriousbusiness。Muchofallthisisthemereoverflowofnervousenergy runtowaste,andwouldceasewhentheenergywasdirectedtoadefinite end。Muchisalsotheresultofconsciousorunconsciouscultivation;as weseebythealmosttotaldisappearanceof\"hysterics\"andfainting—fits, sincetheyhavegoneoutoffashion。Moreover,whenpeoplearebroughtup, likemanywomenofthehigherclasses(thoughlesssoinourowncountry thananyother),akindofhot—houseplants,shieldedfromthewholesome vicissitudesofairandtemperature,anduntrainedinanyoftheoccupations andexerciseswhichgivestimulusanddevelopmenttothecirculatoryand muscularsystem,whiletheirnervoussystem,especiallyinitsemotional department,iskeptinunnaturallyactiveplay;itisnowonderifthose ofthemwhodonotdieofconsumption,growupwithconstitutionsliable toderangementfromslightcauses,bothinternalandexternal,andwithout staminatosupportanytask,physicalormental,requiringcontinuityof effort。Butwomenbroughtuptoworkfortheirlivelihoodshownoneofthese morbidcharacteristics,unlessindeedtheyarechainedtoanexcessofsedentary workinconfinedandunhealthyrooms。Womenwhointheirearlyyearshave sharedinthehealthfulphysicaleducationandbodilyfreedomoftheirbrothers, andwhoobtainasufficiencyofpureairandexerciseinafter—life,very rarelyhaveanyexcessivesusceptibilityofnerveswhichcandisqualifythem foractivepursuits。Thereisindeedacertainproportionofpersons,in bothsexes,inwhomanunusualdegreeofnervoussensibilityisconstitutional, andofsomarkedacharacterastobethefeatureoftheirorganisationwhich exercisesthegreatestinfluenceoverthewholecharacterofthevitalphenomena。 Thisconstitution,likeotherphysicalconformations,ishereditary,and istransmittedtosonsaswellasdaughters;butitispossible,andprobable, thatthenervoustemperament(asitiscalled)isinheritedbyagreater numberofwomenthanofmen。Wewillassumethisasafact:andletmethen ask,aremenofnervoustemperamentfoundtobeunfitforthedutiesand pursuitsusuallyfollowedbymen?Ifnot,whyshouldwomenofthesametemperament beunfitforthem?Thepeculiaritiesofthetemperamentare,nodoubt,within certainlimits,anobstacletosuccessinsomeemployments,thoughanaid toitinothers。Butwhentheoccupationissuitabletothetemperament, andsometimesevenwhenitisunsuitable,themostbrilliantexamplesof successarecontinuallygivenbythemenofhighnervoussensibility。They aredistinguishedintheirpracticalmanifestationschieflybythis,that beingsusceptibleofahigherdegreeofexcitementthanthoseofanother physicalconstitution,theirpowerswhenexciteddiffermorethaninthe caseofotherpeople,fromthoseshownintheirordinarystate:theyare raised,asitwere,abovethemselves,anddothingswitheasewhichthey arewhollyincapableofatothertimes。Butthisloftyexcitementisnot, exceptinweakbodilyconstitutions,amereflash,whichpassesawayimmediately, leavingnopermanenttraces,andincompatiblewithpersistentandsteady pursuitofanobject。Itisthecharacterofthenervoustemperamenttobe capableofsustainedexcitement,holdingoutthroughlong—continuedefforts。 Itiswhatismeantbyspirit。Itiswhatmakesthehigh—bredracehorserun withoutslackeningspeedtillhedropsdowndead。Itiswhathasenabled somanydelicatewomentomaintainthemostsublimeconstancynotonlyat thestake,butthroughalongpreliminarysuccessionofmentalandbodily tortures。Itisevidentthatpeopleofthistemperamentareparticularly aptforwhatmaybecalledtheexecutivedepartmentoftheleadershipof mankind。Theyarethematerialofgreatorators,greatpreachers,impressive diffusersofmoralinfluences。Theirconstitutionmightbedeemedlessfavourable tothequalitiesrequiredfromastatesmaninthecabinet,orfromajudge。 Itwouldbeso,iftheconsequencenecessarilyfollowedthatbecausepeople areexcitabletheymustalwaysbeinastateofexcitement。Butthisiswholly aquestionoftraining。Strongfeelingistheinstrumentandelementofstrong self—control:butitrequirestobecultivatedinthatdirection。Whenit is,itformsnottheheroesofimpulseonly,butthosealsoofself—conquest。 Historyandexperienceprovethatthemostpassionatecharactersarethe mostfanaticallyrigidintheirfeelingsofduty,whentheirpassionhas beentrainedtoactinthatdirection。Thejudgewhogivesajustdecision inacasewherehisfeelingsareintenselyinterestedontheotherside, derivesfromthatsamestrengthoffeelingthedeterminedsenseoftheobligation ofjustice,whichenableshimtoachievethisvictoryoverhimself。Thecapability ofthatloftyenthusiasmwhichtakesthehumanbeingoutofhisevery—day character,reactsuponthedailycharacteritself。Hisaspirationsandpowers whenheisinthisexceptionalstate,becomethetypewithwhichhecompares, andbywhichheestimates,hissentimentsandproceedingsatothertimes: andhishabitualpurposesassumeacharactermouldedbyandassimilatedto themomentsofloftyexcitement,althoughthose,fromthephysicalnature ofahumanbeing,canonlybetransient。Experienceofraces,aswellas ofindividuals,doesnotshowthoseofexcitabletemperamenttobelessfit, ontheaverage,eitherforspeculationorpractice,thanthemoreunexcitable。 TheFrench,andtheItalians,areundoubtedlybynaturemorenervouslyexcitable thantheTeutonicraces,and,comparedatleastwiththeEnglish,theyhave amuchgreaterhabitualanddailyemotionallife:buthavetheybeenless greatinscience,inpublicbusiness,inlegalandjudicialeminence,or inwar?ThereisabundantevidencethattheGreekswereofold,astheir descendantsandsuccessorsstillare,oneofthemostexcitableoftheraces ofmankind。Itissuperfluoustoask,whatamongtheachievementsofmen theydidnotexcelin。TheRomans,probably,asanequallysouthernpeople, hadthesameoriginaltemperament:butthesterncharacteroftheirnational discipline,likethatoftheSpartans,madethemanexampleoftheopposite typeofnationalcharacter;thegreaterstrengthoftheirnaturalfeelings beingchieflyapparentintheintensitywhichthesameoriginaltemperament madeitpossibletogivetotheartificial。Ifthesecasesexemplifywhat anaturallyexcitablepeoplemaybemade,theIrishCeltsaffordoneofthe aptestexamplesofwhattheyarewhenlefttothemselves;(ifthosecanbe saidtobelefttothemselveswhohavebeenforcenturiesundertheindirect influenceofbadgovernment,andthedirecttrainingofaCatholichierarchy andofasincerebeliefintheCatholicreligion)。TheIrishcharactermust beconsidered,therefore,asanunfavourablecase:yet,wheneverthecircumstances oftheindividualhavebeenatallfavourable,whatpeoplehaveshowngreater capacityforthemostvariedandmultifariousindividualeminence?Likethe FrenchcomparedwiththeEnglish,theIrishwiththeSwiss,theGreeksor ItalianscomparedwiththeGermanraces,sowomencomparedwithmenmaybe found,ontheaverage,todothesamethingswithsomevarietyintheparticular kindofexcellence。But,thattheywoulddothemfullyaswellonthewhole, iftheireducationandcultivationwereadaptedtocorrectinginsteadof aggravatingtheinfirmitiesincidenttotheirtemperament,Iseenotthesmallestreasontodoubt。Supposingit,however,tobetruethatwomen’smindsarebynaturemore mobilethanthoseofmen,lesscapableofpersistinglonginthesamecontinuous effort,morefittedfordividingtheirfacultiesamongmanythingsthanfor travellinginanyonepathtothehighestpointwhichcanbereachedbyit: thismaybetrueofwomenastheynoware(thoughnotwithoutgreatandnumerous exceptions),andmayaccountfortheirhavingremainedbehindthehighest orderofmeninpreciselythethingsinwhichthisabsorptionofthewhole mindinonesetofideasandoccupationsmayseemtobemostrequisite。Still, thisdifferenceisonewhichcanonlyaffectthekindofexcellence,not theexcellenceitself,oritspracticalworth:anditremainstobeshown whetherthisexclusiveworkingofapartofthemind,thisabsorptionof thewholethinkingfacultyinasinglesubject,andconcentrationofiton asinglework,isthenormalandhealthfulconditionofthehumanfaculties, evenforspeculativeuses。Ibelievethatwhatisgainedinspecialdevelopment bythisconcentration,islostinthecapacityofthemindfortheother purposesoflife;andeveninabstractthought,itismydecidedopinion thattheminddoesmorebyfrequentlyreturningtoadifficultproblem,than bystickingtoitwithoutinterruption。Forthepurposes,atallevents, ofpractice,fromitshighesttoitshumblestdepartments,thecapacityof passingpromptlyfromonesubjectofconsiderationtoanother,withoutletting theactivespringoftheintellectrundownbetweenthetwo,isapowerfar morevaluable;andthispowerwomenpre—eminentlypossess,byvirtueofthe verymobilityofwhichtheyareaccused。Theyperhapshaveitfromnature, buttheycertainlyhaveitbytrainingandeducation;fornearlythewhole oftheoccupationsofwomenconsistinthemanagementofsmallbutmultitudinous details,oneachofwhichthemindcannotdwellevenforaminute,butmust passontootherthings,andifanythingrequireslongerthought,muststeal timeatoddmomentsforthinkingofit。Thecapacityindeedwhichwomenshow fordoingtheirthinkingincircumstancesandattimeswhichalmostanyman wouldmakeanexcusetohimselffornotattemptingit,hasoftenbeennoticed: andawoman’smind,thoughitmaybeoccupiedonlywithsmallthings,can hardlyeverpermititselftobevacant,asaman’ssoofteniswhennot engagedinwhathechoosestoconsiderthebusinessofhislife。Thebusiness ofawoman’sordinarylifeisthingsingeneral,andcanaslittleceasetogoonastheworldtogoround。But(itissaid)thereisanatomicalevidenceofthesuperiormentalcapacity ofmencomparedwithwomen:theyhavealargerbrain。Ireply,thatinthe firstplacethefactitselfisdoubtful。Itisbynomeansestablishedthat thebrainofawomanissmallerthanthatofaman。Ifitisinferredmerely becauseawoman’sbodilyframegenerallyisoflessdimensionsthanaman’s, thiscriterionwouldleadtostrangeconsequences。Atallandlarge—boned manmustonthisshowingbewonderfullysuperiorinintelligencetoasmall man,andanelephantorawhalemustprodigiouslyexcelmankind。Thesize ofthebraininhumanbeings,anatomistssay,variesmuchlessthanthesize ofthebody,orevenofthehead,andtheonecannotbeatallinferredfrom theother。Itiscertainthatsomewomenhaveaslargeabrainasanyman。 Itiswithinmyknowledgethatamanwhohadweighedmanyhumanbrains,said thattheheaviestheknewof,heaviereventhanCuvier’s(theheaviestpreviously recorded),wasthatofawoman。Next,Imustobservethatthepreciserelation whichexistsbetweenthebrainandtheintellectualpowersisnotyetwell understood,butisasubjectofgreatdispute。Thatthereisaveryclose relationwecannotdoubt。Thebrainiscertainlythematerialorganofthought andfeeling:and(makingabstractionofthegreatunsettledcontroversyrespecting theappropriationofdifferentpartsofthebraintodifferentmentalfaculties) Iadmitthatitwouldbeananomaly,andanexceptiontoallweknowofthe generallawsoflifeandorganisation,ifthesizeoftheorganwerewholly indifferenttothefunction;ifnoaccessionofpowerwerederivedfromthe greatmagnitudeoftheinstrument。Buttheexceptionandtheanomalywould befullyasgreatiftheorganexercisedinfluencebyitsmagnitudeonly。 Inallthemoredelicateoperationsofnature——ofwhichthoseoftheanimated creationarethemostdelicate,andthoseofthenervoussystembyfarthe mostdelicateofthese——differencesintheeffectdependasmuchondifferences ofqualityinthephysicalagents,asontheirquantity:andifthequality ofaninstrumentistobetestedbythenicetyanddelicacyoftheworkit cando,theindicationspointtoagreateraveragefinenessofqualityin thebrainandnervoussystemofwomenthanofmen。Dismissingabstractdifference ofquality,athingdifficulttoverify,theefficiencyofanorganisknown todependnotsolelyonitssizebutonitsactivity:andofthiswehave anapproximatemeasureintheenergywithwhichthebloodcirculatesthrough it,boththestimulusandthereparativeforcebeingmainlydependenton thecirculation。Itwouldnotbesurprising——itisindeedanhypothesis whichaccordswellwiththedifferencesactuallyobservedbetweenthemental operationsofthetwosexes——ifmenontheaverageshouldhavetheadvantage inthesizeofthebrain,andwomeninactivityofcerebralcirculation。 Theresultswhichconjecture,foundedonanalogy,wouldleadustoexpect fromthisdifferenceoforganisation,wouldcorrespondtosomeofthosewhich wemostcommonlysee。Inthefirstplace,thementaloperationsofmenmight beexpectedtobeslower。Theywouldneitherbesopromptaswomeninthinking, norsoquicktofeel。Largebodiestakemoretimetogetintofullaction。 Ontheotherhand,whenoncegotthoroughlyintoplay,men’sbrainwould bearmorework。Itwouldbemorepersistentinthelinefirsttaken;itwould havemoredifficultyinchangingfromonemodeofactiontoanother,but, intheonethingitwasdoing,itcouldgoonlongerwithoutlossofpower orsenseoffatigue。Anddowenotfindthatthethingsinwhichmenmost excelwomenarethosewhichrequiremostploddingandlonghammeringata singlethought,whilewomendobestwhatmustbedonerapidly?Awoman’s brainissoonerfatigued,soonerexhausted;butgiventhedegreeofexhaustion, weshouldexpecttofindthatitwouldrecoveritselfsooner。Irepeatthat thisspeculationisentirelyhypothetical;itpretendstonomorethanto suggestalineofinquiry。Ihavebeforerepudiatedthenotionofitsbeing yetcertainlyknownthatthereisanynaturaldifferenceatallintheaverage strengthordirectionofthementalcapacitiesofthetwosexes,muchless whatthatdifferenceis。Norisitpossiblethatthisshouldbeknown,so longasthepsychologicallawsoftheformationofcharacterhavebeenso littlestudied,eveninageneralway,andintheparticularcaseneverscientifically appliedatall;solongasthemostobviousexternalcausesofdifference ofcharacterarehabituallydisregarded——leftunnoticedbytheobserver, andlookeddownuponwithakindofsuperciliouscontemptbytheprevalent schoolsbothofnaturalhistoryandofmentalphilosophy:who,whetherthey lookforthesourceofwhatmainlydistinguisheshumanbeingsfromoneanother, intheworldofmatterorinthatofspirit,agreeinrunningdownthose whoprefertoexplainthesedifferencesbythedifferentrelationsofhumanbeingstosocietyandlife。Tosoridiculousanextentarethenotionsformedofthenatureofwomen, mereempiricalgeneralisations,framed,withoutphilosophyoranalysis,upon thefirstinstanceswhichpresentthemselves,thatthepopularideaofit isdifferentindifferentcountries,accordingastheopinionsandsocial circumstancesofthecountryhavegiventothewomenlivinginitanyspeciality ofdevelopmentornon—development。Anorientalthinksthatwomenarebynature peculiarlyvoluptuous;seetheviolentabuseofthemonthisgroundinHindoo writings。AnEnglishmanusuallythinksthattheyarebynaturecold。The sayingsaboutwomen’sficklenessaremostlyofFrenchorigin;fromthefamous distichofFrancistheFirst,upwardanddownward。InEnglanditisacommon remark,howmuchmoreconstantwomenarethanmen。Inconstancyhasbeenlonger reckoneddiscreditabletoawoman,inEnglandthaninFrance;andEnglishwomen arebesides,intheirinmostnature,muchmoresubduedtoopinion。Itmay beremarkedbytheway,thatEnglishmenareinpeculiarlyunfavourablecircumstances forattemptingtojudgewhatisorisnotnatural,notmerelytowomen,but tomen,ortohumanbeingsaltogether,atleastiftheyhaveonlyEnglish experiencetogoupon:becausethereisnoplacewherehumannatureshows solittleofitsoriginallineaments。Bothinagoodandabadsense,the Englisharefartherfromastateofnaturethananyothermodernpeople。 Theyare,morethananyotherpeople,aproductofcivilisationanddiscipline。 Englandisthecountryinwhichsocialdisciplinehasmostsucceeded,not somuchinconquering,asinsuppressing,whateverisliabletoconflict withit。TheEnglish,morethananyotherpeople,notonlyactbutfeelaccording torule。Inothercountries,thetaughtopinion,ortherequirementofsociety, maybethestrongerpower,butthepromptingsoftheindividualnatureare alwaysvisibleunderit,andoftenresistingit:rulemaybestrongerthan nature,butnatureisstillthere。InEngland,rulehastoagreatdegree substituteditselffornature。Thegreaterpartoflifeiscarriedon,not byfollowinginclinationunderthecontrolofrule,butbyhavingnoinclination butthatoffollowingarule。Nowthishasitsgoodsidedoubtless,though ithasalsoawretchedlybadone;butitmustrenderanEnglishmanpeculiarly ill—qualifiedtopassajudgmentontheoriginaltendenciesofhumannature fromhisownexperience。Theerrorstowhichobserverselsewhereareliable onthesubject,areofadifferentcharacter。AnEnglishmanisignorantrespecting humannature,aFrenchmanisprejudiced。AnEnglishman’serrorsarenegative, aFrenchman’spositive。AnEnglishmanfanciesthatthingsdonotexist,because heneverseesthem;aFrenchmanthinkstheymustalwaysandnecessarilyexist, becausehedoesseethem。AnEnglishmandoesnotknownature,becausehe hashadnoopportunityofobservingit;aFrenchmangenerallyknowsagreat dealofit,butoftenmistakesit,becausehehasonlyseenitsophisticated anddistorted。Fortheartificialstatesuperinducedbysocietydisguises thenaturaltendenciesofthethingwhichisthesubjectofobservation, intwodifferentways:byextinguishingthenature,orbytransformingit。 Intheonecasethereisbutastarvedresiduumofnatureremainingtobe studied;intheothercasethereismuch,butitmayhaveexpandedinanydirectionratherthanthatinwhichitwouldspontaneouslygrow。Ihavesaidthatitcannotnowbeknownhowmuchoftheexistingmental differencesbetweenmenandwomenisnaturalandhowmuchartificial;whether thereareanynaturaldifferencesatall;or,supposingallartificialcauses ofdifferencetobewithdrawn,whatnaturalcharacterwouldberevealedI amnotabouttoattemptwhatIhavepronouncedimpossible:butdoubtdoes notforbidconjecture,andwherecertaintyisunattainable,theremayyet bethemeansofarrivingatsomedegreeofprobability。Thefirstpoint, theoriginofthedifferencesactuallyobserved,istheonemostaccessible tospeculation;andIshallattempttoapproachit,bytheonlypathbywhich itcanbereached;bytracingthementalconsequencesofexternalinfluences。 Wecannotisolateahumanbeingfromthecircumstancesofhiscondition, soastoascertainexperimentallywhathewouldhavebeenbynature;but wecanconsiderwhatheis,andwhathiscircumstanceshavebeen,andwhethertheonewouldhavebeencapableofproducingtheother。Letustake,then,theonlymarkedcasewhichobservationaffords,of apparentinferiorityofwomentomen,ifweexceptthemerelyphysicalone ofbodilystrength。Noproductioninphilosophy,science,orart,entitled tothefirstrank,hasbeentheworkofawoman。Isthereanymodeofaccounting forthis,withoutsupposingthatwomenarenaturallyincapableofproducingthem?Inthefirstplace,wemayfairlyquestionwhetherexperiencehasafforded sufficientgroundsforaninduction。Itisscarcelythreegenerationssince women,savingveryrareexceptionshavebeguntotrytheircapacityinphilosophy, science,orart。Itisonlyinthepresentgenerationthattheirattempts havebeenatallnumerous;andtheyareevennowextremelyfew,everywhere butinEnglandandFrance。Itisarelevantquestion,whetheramindpossessing therequisitesoffirstrateeminenceinspeculationorcreativeartcould havebeenexpected,onthemerecalculationofchances,toturnupduring thatlapseoftime,amongthewomenwhosetastesandpersonalpositionadmitted oftheirdevotingthemselvestothesepursuitsInallthingswhichthere hasyetbeentimefor——inallbuttheveryhighestgradesinthescale ofexcellence,especiallyinthedepartmentinwhichtheyhavebeenlongest engaged,literature(bothproseandpoetry)——womenhavedonequiteasmuch, haveobtainedfullyashighprizesandasmanyofthem,ascouldbeexpected fromthelengthoftimeandthenumberofcompetitors。Ifwegobacktothe earlierperiodwhenveryfewwomenmadetheattempt,yetsomeofthosefew madeitwithdistinguishedsuccess。TheGreeksalwaysaccountedSapphoamong theirgreatpoets;andwemaywellsupposethatMyrtis,saidtohavebeen theteacherofPindar,andCorinna,whofivetimesboreawayfromhimthe prizeofpoetry,mustatleasthavehadsufficientmerittoadmitofbeing comparedwiththatgreatname。Aspasiadidnotleaveanyphilosophicalwritings; butitisanadmittedfactthatSocratesresortedtoherforinstruction,andavowedhimselftohaveobtainedit。Ifweconsidertheworksofwomeninmoderntimes,andcontrastthemwith thoseofmen,eitherintheliteraryortheartisticdepartment,suchinferiority asmaybeobservedresolvesitselfessentiallyintoonething:butthatis amostmaterialone;deficiencyoforiginality。Nottotaldeficiency;for everyproductionofmindwhichisofanysubstantivevalue,hasanoriginality ofitsown——isaconceptionoftheminditself,notacopyofsomething else。Thoughtsoriginal,inthesenseofbeingunborrowed——ofbeingderived fromthethinker’sownobservationsorintellectualprocesses——areabundant inthewritingsofwomen。Buttheyhavenotyetproducedanyofthosegreat andluminousnewideaswhichformanerainthought,northosefundamentally newconceptionsinart,whichopenavistaofpossibleeffectsnotbefore thoughtof,andfoundanewschool。Theircompositionsaremostlygrounded ontheexistingfundofthought,andtheircreationsdo—notdeviatewidely fromexistingtypes。Thisisthesortofinferioritywhichtheirworksmanifest: forinpointofexecution,inthedetailedapplicationofthought,andthe perfectionofstyle,thereisnoinferiority。Ourbestnovelistsinpoint ofcomposition,andofthemanagementofdetail,havemostlybeenwomen; andthereisnotinallmodernliteratureamoreeloquentvehicleofthought thanthestyleofMadamedeStael,nor,asaspecimenofpurelyartistic excellence,anythingsuperiortotheproseofMadameSand,whosestyleacts uponthenervoussystemlikeasymphonyofHaydnorMozart。Highoriginality ofconceptionis,asIhavesaid,whatischieflywanting。Andnowtoexamineifthereisanymannerinwhichthisdeficiencycanbeaccountedfor。Letusremember,then,sofarasregardsmerethought,thatduringall thatperiodintheworld’sexistence,andintheprogressofcultivation, inwhichgreatandfruitfulnewtruthsIcouldbearrivedatbymereforce ofgenius,withlittlepreciousstudyandaccumulationofknowledge——during allthattimewomendidnotconcernthemselveswithspeculationatall。From thedaysofHypatiatothoseoftheReformation,theillustriousHeloisa isalmosttheonlywomantowhomanysuchachievementmighthavebeenpossible; andweknownothowgreatacapacityofspeculationinhermayhavebeen losttomankindbythemisfortunesofherlife。Neversinceanyconsiderable numberofwomenhavebegantocultivateseriousthought,hasoriginality beenpossibleoneasyterms。Nearlyallthethoughtswhichcanbereached bymerestrengthoforiginalfaculties,havelongsincebeenarrivedat; andoriginality,inanyhighsenseoftheword,isnowscarcelyeverattained butbymindswhichhaveundergoneelaboratediscipline,andaredeeplyversed intheresultsofpreviousthinking。ItisMr。Maurice,Ithink,whohas remarkedonthepresentage,thatitsmostoriginalthinkersarethosewho haveknownmostthoroughlywhathadbeenthoughtbytheir;predecessors: andthiswillalwayshenceforthbethecase。Everyfreshstoneintheedifice hasnowtobeplacedonthetopofsomanyothers,thatalongprocessof climbing,andofcarryingupmaterials,hastobegonethroughbywhoever aspirestotakeashareinthepresentstageofthework。Howmanywomen aretherewhohavegonethroughanysuchprocess?Mrs。Somerville,alone perhapsofwomen,knowsasmuchofmathematicsasisnowneedfulformaking anyconsiderablemathematicaldiscovery:isitanyproofofinferiorityin women,thatshehasnothappenedtobeoneofthetwoorthreepersonswho inherlifetimehaveassociatedtheirnameswithsomestrikingadvancement ofthescience?Twowomen,sincepoliticaleconomyhasbeenmadeascience, haveknownenoughofittowriteusefullyonthesubject:ofhowmanyof theinnumerablemenwhohavewrittenonitduringthesametime,isitpossible withtruthtosaymore?Ifnowomanhashithertobeenagreathistorian, whatwomanhashadthenecessaryerudition?Ifnowomanisagreatphilologist, whatwomanhasstudiedSanscritandSlavonic,theGothicofUlphilaandthe PersicoftheZendavesta?Eveninpracticalmattersweallknowwhatisthe valueoftheoriginalityofuntaughtgeniuses。Itmeans,inventingoveragain initsrudimentaryformsomethingalreadyinventedandimproveduponbymany successiveinventors。Whenwomenhavehadthepreparationwhichallmennow requiretobeeminentlyoriginal,itwillbetimeenoughtobeginjudgingbyexperienceoftheircapacityfororiginality。Itnodoubtoftenhappensthataperson,whohasnotwidelyandaccurately studiedthethoughtsofothersonasubject,hasbynaturalsagacityahappy intuition,whichhecansuggest,butcannotprove,whichyetwhenmatured maybeanimportantadditiontoknowledge:buteventhen,nojusticecan bedonetoituntilsomeotherperson,whodoespossessthepreviousacquirements, takesitinhand,testsit,givesitascientificorpracticalform,and fitsitintoitsplaceamongtheexistingtruthsofphilosophyorscience。 Isitsupposedthatsuchfelicitousthoughtsdonotoccurtowomen?They occurbyhundredstoeverywomanofintellect。Buttheyaremostlylost, forwantofahusbandorfriendwhohastheotherknowledgewhichcanenable himtoestimatethemproperlyandbringthembeforetheworld:andevenwhen theyarebroughtbeforeit,theygenerallyappearashisideas,nottheir realauthor’s。Whocantellhowmanyofthemostoriginalthoughtsputforth bymalewriters,belongtoawomanbysuggestion,tothemselvesonlybyverifyingandworkingout?IfImayjudgebymyowncase,averylargeproportionindeed。Ifweturnfrompurespeculationtoliteratureinthenarrowsenseof theterm,andthefinearts,thereisaveryobviousreasonwhywomen’sliterature is,initsgeneralconceptionandinitsmainfeatures,animitationofmen’s。 WhyistheRomanliterature,ascriticsproclaimtosatiety,notoriginal, butanimitationoftheGreek?SimplybecausetheGreekscamefirst。Ifwomen livedinadifferentcountryfrommen,andhadneverreadanyoftheirwritings, theywouldhavehadaliteratureoftheirown。Asitis,theyhavenotcreated one,becausetheyfoundahighlyadvancedliteraturealreadycreated。If therehadbeennosuspensionoftheknowledgeofantiquity,oriftheRenaissance hadoccurredbeforetheGothiccathedralswerebuilt,theyneverwouldhave beenbuilt。Weseethat,inFranceandItaly,imitationoftheancientliterature stoppedtheoriginaldevelopmentevenafterithadcommenced。Allwomenwho writearepupilsofthegreatmalewriters。Apainter’searlypictures,even ifhebeaRaffaello,areundistinguishableinstylefromthoseofhismaster。 EvenaMozartdoesnotdisplayhispowerfuloriginalityinhisearliestpieces。 Whatyearsaretoagiftedindividual,generationsaretoamass。Ifwomen’s literatureisdestinedtohaveadifferentcollectivecharacterfromthat ofmen,dependingonanydifferenceofnaturaltendencies,muchlongertime isnecessarythanhasyetelapsed,beforeitcanemancipateitselffromthe influenceofacceptedmodels,andguideitselfbyitsownimpulses。Butif, asIbelieve,therewillnotprovetobeanynaturaltendenciescommonto women,anddistinguishingtheirgeniusfromthatofmen,yeteveryindividual writeramongthemhasherindividualtendencies,whichatpresentarestill subduedbytheinfluenceofprecedentandexample:anditwillrequiregenerations more,beforetheirindividualityissufficientlydevelopedtomakeheadagainstthatinfluence。###第5章Itisinthefinearts,properlysocalled,thattheprimafacieevidence ofinferiororiginalpowersinwomenatfirstsightappearsthestrongest: sinceopinion(itmaybesaid)doesnotexcludethemfromthese,butrather encouragesthem,andtheireducation,insteadofpassingoverthisdepartment, isintheaffluentclassesmainlycomposedofit。Yetinthislineofexertion theyhavefallenstillmoreshortthaninmanyothers,ofthehighesteminence attainedbymen。Thisshortcoming,however,needsnootherexplanationthan thefamiliarfact,moreuniversallytrueinthefineartsthaninanything else;thevastsuperiorityofprofessionalpersonsoveramateurs。Womenin theeducatedclassesarealmostuniversallytaughtmoreorlessofsomebranch orotherofthefinearts,butnotthattheymaygaintheirlivingortheir socialconsequencebyit。Womenartistsareallamateurs。Theexceptions areonlyofthekindwhichconfirmthegeneraltruth。Womenaretaughtmusic, Ibutnotforthepurposeofcomposing,onlyofexecutingit:andaccordingly itisonlyascomposers,thatmen,inmusic,aresuperiortowomen。Theonly oneofthefineartswhichwomendofollow,toanyextent,asaprofession, andanoccupationforlife,isthehistrionic;andinthattheyareconfessedly equal,ifnotsuperior,tomen。Tomakethecomparisonfair,itshouldbe madebetweentheproductionsofwomeninanybranchofart,andthoseof mennotfollowingitasaprofession。Inmusicalcomposition,forexample, womensurelyhaveproducedfullyasgoodthingsashaveeverbeenproduced bymaleamateurs。Therearenowafewwomen,averyfew,whopractisepainting asaprofession,andthesearealreadybeginningtoshowquiteasmuchtalent ascouldbeexpected。Evenmalepainters(paceMr。Ruskin)havenotmade anyveryremarkablefiguretheselastcenturies,anditwillbelongbefore theydoso。Thereasonwhytheoldpaintersweresogreatlysuperiortothe modern,isthatagreatlysuperiorclassofmenappliedthemselvestothe art。InthefourteenthandfifteenthcenturiestheItalianpainterswere themostaccomplishedmenoftheirage。Thegreatestofthemweremenof encyclopaedicalacquirementsandpowers,likethegreatmenofGreece。But intheirtimesfineartwas,tomen’sfeelingsandconceptions,amongthe grandestthingsinwhichahumanbeingcouldexcel;andbyitmenweremade,— whatonlypoliticalormilitarydistinctionnowmakesthem,thecompanions ofsovereigns,andtheequalsofthehighestnobility。Inthepresentage, menofanythinglikesimilarcalibrefindsomethingmore—importanttodo, fortheirownfameandtheusesofthemodernworld,thanpainting:andit isonlynowandthenthataReynoldsoraTurner(ofwhoserelativerank amongeminentmenIdonotpretendtoanopinion)applieshimselftothat art。Musicbelongstoadifferentorderofthings:itdoesnotrequirethe samegeneralpowersofmind,butseemsmoredependentonanaturalgift: anditmaybethoughtsurprisingthatnooneofthegreatmusicalcomposers hasbeenawoman。Buteventhisnaturalgift,tobemadeavailableforgreat creations,requiresstudy,andprofessionaldevotiontothepursuit。The onlycountrieswhichhaveproducedfirst—ratecomposers,evenofthemale sex,areGermanyandItaly——countriesinwhich,bothinpointofspecial andofgeneralcultivation,womenhaveremainedfarbehindFranceandEngland, beinggenerally(itmaybesaidwithoutexaggeration)verylittleeducated, andhavingscarcelycultivatedatallanyofthehigherfacultiesofmind。 Andinthosecountriesthemenwhoareacquaintedwiththeprinciplesof musicalcompositionmustbecountedbyhundreds,ormoreprobablybythousands, thewomenbarelybyscores:sothathereagain,onthedoctrineofaverages, wecannotreasonablyexpecttoseemorethanoneeminentwomantofiftyeminent men;andthelastthreecenturieshavenotproducedfiftyeminentmalecomposerseitherinGermanyorinItaly。Thereareotherreasons,besidesthosewhichwehavenowgiven,thathelp toexplainwhywomenremainbehindmen,eveninthepursuitswhichareopen toboth。Foronething,veryfewwomenhavetimeforthem。Thismayseem aparadox;itisanundoubtedsocialfact。Thetimeandthoughtsofevery womanhavetosatisfygreatpreviousdemandsonthemforthingspractical。 Thereis,first,thesuperintendenceofthefamilyandthedomesticexpenditure, whichoccupiesatleastonewomanineveryfamily,generallytheoneofmature yearsandacquiredexperience;unlessthefamilyissorichastoadmitof delegatingthattasktohiredagency,andsubmittingtoallthewasteand malversationinseparablefromthatmodeofconductingit。Thesuperintendence ofahousehold,evenwhennotinotherrespectslaborious,isextremelyonerous tothethoughts;itrequiresincessantvigilance,aneyewhichnodetail escapes,andpresentsquestionsforconsiderationandsolution,foreseen andunforeseen,ateveryhouroftheday,fromwhichthepersonresponsible forthemcanhardlyevershakeherselffree。Ifawomanisofarankand circumstanceswhichrelieveherinameasurefromthesecares,shehasstill devolvingonherthemanagementforthewholefamilyofitsintercoursewith others——ofwhatiscalledsociety,andthelessthecallmadeonherby theformerduty,thegreaterisalwaysthedevelopmentofthelatter:the dinnerparties,concerts,eveningparties,morningvisits,letter—writing, andallthatgoeswiththem。Allthisisoverandabovetheengrossingduty whichsocietyimposesexclusivelyonwomen,ofmakingthemselvescharming。 Acleverwomanofthehigherranksfindsnearlyasufficientemploymentof hertalentsincultivatingthegracesofmannerandtheartsofconversation。 Tolookonlyattheoutwardsideofthesubject:thegreatandcontinual exerciseofthoughtwhichallwomenwhoattachanyvaluetodressingwell (Idonotmeanexpensively,butwithtaste,andperceptionofnaturaland ofartificialconvenance)mustbestowupontheirowndress,perhapsalso uponthatoftheirdaughters,wouldalonegoagreatwaytowardsachieving respectableresultsinart,orscience,orliterature,anddoesactually exhaustmuchofthetimeandmentalpowertheymighthavetospareforeither。(2*) Ifitwerepossiblethatallthisnumberoflittlepracticalinterests(which aremadegreattothem)shouldleavethemeithermuchleisure,ormuchenergy andfreedomofmind,tobedevotedtoartorspeculation,theymusthave amuchgreateroriginalsupplyofactivefacultythanthevastmajorityof men。Butthisisnotall。Independentlyoftheregularofficesoflifewhich devolveuponawoman,sheisexpectedtohavehertimeandfacultiesalways atthedisposalofeverybody。Ifamanhasnotaprofessiontoexempthim fromsuchdemands,still,ifhehasapursuit,heoffendsnobodybydevoting histimetoit;occupationisreceivedasavalidexcuseforhisnotanswering toeverycasualdemandwhichmaybemadeonhim。Areawoman’soccupations, especiallyherchosenandvoluntaryones,everregardedasexcusingherfrom anyofwhataretermedthecallsofsociety?Scarcelyarehermostnecessary andrecogniseddutiesallowedasanexemption。Itrequiresanillnessin thefamily,orsomethingelseoutofthecommonway,toentitlehertogive herownbusinesstheprecedenceoverotherpeople’samusement。Shemustalways beatthebeckandcallofsomebody,generallyofeverybody。Ifshehasa studyorapursuit,shemustsnatchanyshortintervalwhichaccidentally occurstobeemployedinit。Acelebratedwoman,inaworkwhichIhopewill somedaybepublished,remarkstrulythateverythingawomandoesisdone atoddtimes。Isitwonderful,then,ifshedoesnotattainthehighesteminence inthingswhichrequireconsecutiveattention,andtheconcentrationonthem ofthechiefinterestoflife?Suchisphilosophy,andsuch,aboveall,is art,inwhich,besidesthedevotionofthethoughtsandfeelings,thehandalsomustbekeptinconstantexercisestoattainhighskill。Thereisanotherconsiderationtobeaddedtoallthese。Inthevarious artsandintellectualoccupations,thereisadegreeofproficiencysufficient forlivingbyit,andthereisahigherdegreeonwhichdependthegreat productionswhichimmortaliseaname。Totheattainmentoftheformer,there areadequatemotivesinthecaseofallwhofollowthepursuitprofessionally: theotherishardlyeverattainedwherethereisnot,orwheretherehas notbeenatsomeperiodoflife,anardentdesireofcelebrity。Nothingless iscommonlyasufficientstimulustoundergothelongandpatientdrudgery, which,inthecaseevenofthegreatestnaturalgifts,isabsolutelyrequired forgreateminenceinpursuitsinwhichwealreadypossesssomanysplendid memorialsofthehighestgenius。Now,whetherthecausebenaturalorartificial, womenseldomhavethiseagernessforfame。Theirambitionisgenerallyconfined withinnarrowerbounds。Theinfluencetheyseekisoverthosewhoimmediately surroundthem。Theirdesireistobeliked,loved,oradmired,bythosewhom theyseewiththeireyes:andtheproficiencyinknowledge,arts,andaccomplishments, whichissufficientforthat,almostalwayscontentsthem。Thisisatrait ofcharacterwhichcannotbeleftoutoftheaccountinjudgingofwomen astheyare。Idonotatallbelievethatitisinherentinwomen。Itis onlythenaturalresultoftheircircumstances。Theloveoffameinmenis encouragedbyeducationandopinion:to\"scorndelightsandlivelaborious days\"foritssake,isaccountedthepartof\"nobleminds,\" evenifspokenofastheir\"lastinfirmity,\"andisstimulated bytheaccesswhichfamegivestoallobjectsofambition,includingeven thefavourofwomen;whiletowomenthemselvesalltheseobjectsareclosed, andthedesireoffameitselfconsidereddaringandunfeminine。Besides, howcoulditbethatawoman’sinterestsshouldnotbeallconcentratedupon theimpressionsmadeonthosewhocomeintoherdailylife,whensociety hasordainedthatallherdutiesshouldbetothem,andhascontrivedthat allhercomfortsshoulddependonthem?Thenaturaldesireofconsideration fromourfellow—creaturesisasstronginawomanasinaman;butsociety hassoorderedthingsthatpublicconsiderationis,inallordinarycases, onlyattainablebyherthroughtheconsiderationofherhusbandorofher malerelations,whileherprivateconsiderationisforfeitedbymakingherself individuallyprominent,orappearinginanyothercharacterthanthatof anappendagetomen。Whoeverisintheleastcapableofestimatingtheinfluence onthemindoftheentiredomesticandsocialpositionandthewholehabit ofalife,musteasilyrecogniseinthatinfluenceacompleteexplanation ofnearlyalltheapparentdifferencesbetweenwomenandmen,includingthewholeofthosewhichimplyanyinferiority。Asformoraldifferences,consideredasdistinguishedfromintellectual, thedistinctioncommonlydrawnistotheadvantageofwomen。Theyaredeclared tobebetterthanmen;anemptycompliment,whichmustprovokeabittersmile fromeverywomanofspirit,sincethereisnoothersituationinlifein whichitistheestablishedorder,andconsideredquitenaturalandsuitable, thatthebettershouldobeytheworse。Ifthispieceofidletalkisgood foranything,itisonlyasanadmissionbymen,ofthecorruptinginfluence ofpower;forthatiscertainlytheonlytruthwhichthefact,ifitbea fact,eitherprovesorillustrates。Anditistruethatservitude,except whenitactuallybrutalises,thoughcorruptingtoboth,islesssotothe slavesthantotheslave—masters。Itiswholesomerforthemoralnatureto berestrained,evenbyarbitrarypower,thantobeallowedtoexercisearbitrary powerwithoutrestraint。Women,itissaid,seldomerfallunderthepenal law——contributeamuchsmallernumberofoffenderstothecriminalcalendar, thanmen。Idoubtnotthatthesamethingmaybesaid,withthesametruth, ofnegroslaves。Thosewhoareunderthecontrolofotherscannotoftencommit crimes,unlessatthecommandandforthepurposesoftheirmasters。Ido notknowamoresignalinstanceoftheblindnesswithwhichtheworld,including theherdofstudiousmen,ignoreandpassoveralltheinfluencesofsocial circumstances,thantheirsillydepreciationoftheintellectual,andsillypanegyricsonthemoral,natureofwomen。Thecomplimentarydictumaboutwomen’ssuperiormoralgoodnessmaybe allowedtopairoffwiththedisparagingonerespectingtheirgreaterliability tomoralbias。Women,wearetold,arenotcapableofresistingtheirpersonal partialities:theirjudgmentingraveaffairsiswarpedbytheirsympathies andantipathies。Assumingittobeso,itisstilltobeprovedthatwomen areoftenermisledbytheirpersonalfeelingsthanmenbytheirpersonal interests。Thechiefdifferencewouldseeminthatcasetobe,thatmenare ledfromthecourseofdutyandthepublicinterestbytheirregardforthemselves, women(notbeingallowedtohaveprivateinterestsoftheirown)bytheir regardforsomebodyelse。Itisalsotobeconsidered,thatalltheeducation whichwomenreceivefromsocietyinculcatesonthemthefeelingthatthe individualsconnectedwiththemaretheonlyonestowhomtheyoweanyduty ——theonlyoneswhoseinteresttheyarecalledupontocarefor;while, asfaraseducationisconcerned,theyareleftstrangerseventotheelementary ideaswhicharepresupposedinanyintelligentregardforlargerinterests orhighermoralobjects。Thecomplaintagainstthemresolvesitselfmerely intothis,thattheyfulfilonlytoofaithfullythesoledutywhichtheyaretaught,andalmosttheonlyonewhichtheyarepermittedtopractise。Theconcessionsoftheprivilegedtotheunprivilegedaresoseldombrought aboutbyanybettermotivethanthepoweroftheunprivilegedtoextortthem, thatanyargumentsagainsttheprerogativeofsexarelikelytobelittle attendedtobythegenerality,aslongastheyareabletosaytothemselves thatwomendonotcomplainofit。Thatfactcertainlyenablesmentoretain theunjustprivilegesometimelonger;butdoesnotrenderitlessunjust。 Exactlythesamethingmaybesaidofthewomenintheharemofanoriental: theydonotcomplainofnotbeingallowedthefreedomofEuropeanwomen。 Theythinkourwomeninsufferablyboldandunfeminine。Howrarelyitisthat evenmencomplainofthegeneralorderofsociety;andhowmuchrarerstill wouldsuchcomplaintbe,iftheydidnotknowofanydifferentorderexisting anywhereelse。Womendonotcomplainofthegenerallotofwomen;orrather theydo,forplaintiveelegiesonitareverycommoninthewritingsofwomen, andwerestillmoresoaslongasthelamentationscouldnotbesuspected ofhavinganypracticalobject。Theircomplaintsarelikethecomplaints whichmenmakeofthegeneralunsatisfactorinessofhumanlife;theyare notmeanttoimplyblame,ortopleadforanychange。Butthoughwomendo notcomplainofthepowerofhusbands,eachcomplainsofherownhusband, orofthehusbandsofherfriends。Itisthesameinallothercasesofservitude, atleastinthecommencementoftheemancipatorymovement。Theserfsdid notatfirstcomplainofthepoweroftheirlords,butonlyoftheirtyranny。 Thecommonsbeganbyclaimingafewmunicipalprivileges;theynextasked anexemptionforthemselvesfrombeingtaxedwithouttheirownconsent;but theywouldatthattimehavethoughtitagreatpresumptiontoclaimany shareintheking’ssovereignauthority。Thecaseofwomenisnowtheonly caseinwhichtorebelagainstestablishedrulesisstilllookeduponwith thesameeyesaswasformerlyasubject’sclaimtotheIrightofrebelling againsthisking。Awomanwhojoinsinanymovementwhichherhusbanddisapproves, makesherselfamartyr,withoutevenbeingabletobeanapostle,forthe husbandcanlegallyputastoptoherapostleship。Womencannotbeexpected todevotethemselvestotheemancipationofwomen,untilmeninconsiderable numberarepreparedtojoinwiththemintheundertaking。 NOTES:1。EspeciallyisthistrueifwetakeintoconsiderationAsiaaswell asEurope。IfaHindooprincipalityisstrongly,vigilantly,andeconomically governed;iforderispreservedwithoutoppression;ifcultivationisextending, andthepeopleprosperous,inthreecasesoutoffourthatprincipalityis underawoman’srule。Thisfact,tomeanentirelyunexpectedone,Ihave collectedfromalongknowledgeofHindoogovernments。Therearemanysuch instances:forthough,byHindooinstitutions,awomancannotreign,she isthelegalregentofakingdomduringtheminorityoftheheir;andminorities arefrequent,thelivesofthemalerulersbeingsooftenprematurelyterminated throughtheeffectofinactivityandsensualexcesses。Whenweconsiderthat theseprincesseshaveneverbeenseeninpublic,haveneverconversedwith anymannotoftheirownfamilyexceptfrombehindacurtain,thattheydo notread,andiftheydidthereisnobookintheirlanguageswhichcangive themthesmallestinstructiononpoliticalaffairs;theexampletheyaffordofthenaturalcapacityofwomenforgovernmentisverystriking。2。\"Itappearstobethesamerightturnofmindwhichenablesa mantoacquirethetruth,orjustideaofwhatisright,intheornaments, asinthemorestableprinciplesofart。Ithasstillthesamecentreof perfection,thoughitisthecentreofasmallercircle。——Toillustrate thisbyfashionofdress,inwhichthereisallowedtobeagoodorbadtaste。 Thecomponentpartsofdressarecontinuallychangingfromgreattolittle, fromshorttolong;butthegeneralformstillremains;itisstillthesame generaldresswhichiscomparativelyfixed,thoughonaveryslenderfoundation; butitisonthiswhichfashionmustrest。Hewhoinventswiththemostsuccess, ordressesinthebesttaste,wouldprobably,fromthesamesagacityemployed togreaterpurposes,havediscoveredequalskill,orhaveformedthesame correcttaste,inthehighestlaboursofart。\"——SirJoshuaReynold’s Discourses,Disc。vii。 CHAPTER4Thereremainsaquestion,notoflessimportancethanthosealreadydiscussed, andwhichwillbeaskedthemostimportunatelybythoseopponentswhoseconviction issomewhatshakenonthemainpoint。Whatgoodarewetoexpectfromthe changesproposedinourcustomsandinstitutions?Wouldmankindbeatall betteroffifwomenwerefree?Ifnot,whydisturbtheirminds,andattempttomakeasocialrevolutioninthenameofanabstractright?Itishardlytobeexpectedthatthisquestionwillbeaskedinrespect tothechangeproposedintheconditionofwomeninmarriage。Thesufferings, immoralities,evilsofallsorts,producedininnumerablecasesbythesubjection ofindividualwomentoindividualmen,arefartooterribletobeoverlooked。 Unthinkingoruncandidpersons,countingthosecasesalonewhichareextreme, orwhichattainpublicity,maysaythattheevilsareexceptional;butno onecanbeblindtotheirexistence,nor,inmanycases,totheirintensity。 Anditisperfectlyobviousthattheabuseofthepowercannotbeverymuch checkedwhilethepowerremains。Itisapowergiven,oroffered,notto goodmen,ortodecentlyrespectablemen,buttoallmen;themostbrutal, andthemostcriminal。Thereisnocheckbutthatofopinion,andsuchmen areingeneralwithinthereachofnoopinionbutthatofmenlikethemselves。 Ifsuchmendidnotbrutallytyranniseovertheonehumanbeingwhomthe lawcompelstobeareverythingfromthem,societymustalreadyhavereached aparadisiacalstate。Therecouldbenoneedanylongeroflawstocurbmen’s viciouspropensities。Astraeamustnotonlyhavereturnedtoearth,butthe heartoftheworstmanmusthavebecomehertemple。Thelawofservitude inmarriageisamonstrouscontradictiontoalltheprinciplesofthemodern world,andtoalltheexperiencethroughwhichthoseprincipleshavebeen slowlyandpainfullyworkedout。Itisthesolecase,nowthatnegroslavery hasbeenabolished,inwhichahumanbeingintheplenitudeofeveryfaculty isdelivereduptothetendermerciesofanotherhumanbeing,inthehope forsooththatthisotherwillusethepowersolelyforthegoodoftheperson subjectedtoit。Marriageistheonlyactualbondageknowntoourlaw。Thereremainnolegalslaves,exceptthemistressofeveryhouse。Itisnot,therefore,onthispartofthesubject,thatthequestionis likelytobeasked,Cuibono。Wemaybetoldthattheevilwouldoutweigh thegood,buttherealityofthegoodadmitsofnodispute。Inregard,however, tothelargerquestion,theremovalofwomen’sdisabilities——theirrecognition astheequalsofmeninallthatbelongstocitizenship——theopeningto themofallhonourableemployments,andofthetrainingandeducationwhich qualifiesforthoseemployments——therearemanypersonsforwhomitis notenoughthattheinequalityhasnojustorlegitimatedefence;theyrequiretobetoldwhatexpressadvantagewouldbeobtainedbyabolishingit。Towhichletmefirstanswer,theadvantageofhavingthemostuniversal andpervadingofallhumanrelationsregulatedbyjusticeinsteadofinjustice。 Thevastamountofthisgaintohumannature,itishardlypossible,byany explanationorillustration,toplaceinastrongerlightthanitisplaced bythebarestatement,toanyonewhoattachesamoralmeaningtowords。All theselfishpropensities,theself—worship,theunjustself—preference,which existamongmankind,havetheirsourceandrootin,andderivetheirprincipal nourishmentfrom,thepresentconstitutionoftherelationbetweenmenand women。Thinkwhatitistoaboy,togrowuptomanhoodinthebeliefthat withoutanymeritoranyexertionofhisown,thoughhemaybethemostfrivolous andemptyorthemostignorantandstolidofmankind,bythemerefactof beingbornamaleheisbyrightthesuperiorofallandeveryoneofan entirehalfofthehumanrace:includingprobablysomewhoserealsuperiority tohimselfhehasdailyorhourlyoccasiontofeel;butevenifinhiswhole conducthehabituallyfollowsawoman’sguidance,still,ifheisafool, shethinksthatofcoursesheisnot,andcannotbe,equalinabilityand judgmenttohimself;andifheisnotafool,hedoesworse——heseesthat sheissuperiortohim,andbelievesthat,notwithstandinghersuperiority, heisentitledtocommandandsheisboundtoobey。Whatmustbetheeffect onhischaracter,ofthislesson?Andmenofthecultivatedclassesareoften notawarehowdeeplyitsinksintotheimmensemajorityofmaleminds。For, amongright—feelingandwellbredpeople,theinequalityiskeptasmuchas possibleoutofsight;aboveall,outofsightofthechildren。Asmuchobedience isrequiredfromboystotheirmotherastotheirfather:theyarenotpermitted todomineerovertheirsisters,noraretheyaccustomedtoseethesepostponed tothem,butthecontrary;thecompensationsofthechivalrousfeelingbeing madeprominent,whiletheservitudewhichrequiresthemiskeptinthebackground。 Wellbrought—upyouthsinthehigherclassesthusoftenescapethebadinfluences ofthesituationintheirearlyyears,andonlyexperiencethemwhen,arrived atmanhood,theyfallunderthedominionoffactsastheyreallyexist。Such peoplearelittleaware,whenaboyisdifferentlybroughtup,howearly thenotionofhisinherentsuperioritytoagirlarisesinhismind;how itgrowswithhisgrowthandstrengthenswithhisstrength;howitisinoculated byoneschoolboyuponanother;howearlytheyouththinkshimselfsuperior tohismother,owingherperhapsforbearance,butno—realrespect;anahow sublimeandsultan—likeasenseofsuperiorityhefeels,aboveall,over thewomanwhomhehonoursbyadmittinghertoapartnershipofhislife。 Isitimaginedthatallthisdoesnotpervertthewholemannerofexistence oftheman,bothasanindividualandasasocialbeing?Itisanexactparallel tothefeelingofahereditarykingthatheisexcellentaboveothersby beingbornaking,oranoblebybeingbornanoble。Therelationbetween husbandandwifeisverylikethatbetweenlordandvassal,exceptthatthe wifeisheldtomoreunlimitedobediencethanthevassalwas。Howeverthe vassal’scharactermayhavebeenaffected,forbetterandforworse,byhis subordination,whocanhelpseeingthatthelord’swasaffectedgreatlyfor theworse?whetherhewasledtobelievethathisvassalswerereallysuperior tohimself,ortofeelthathewasplacedincommandoverpeopleasgood ashimself,fornomeritsorlaboursofhisown,butmerelyforhaving,as Figarosays,takenthetroubletobeborn。Theself—worshipofthemonarch, orofthefeudalsuperior,ismatchedbytheself—worshipofthemale。Human beingsdonotgrowupfromchildhoodinthepossessionofunearneddistinctions, withoutplumingthemselvesuponthem。Thosewhomprivilegesnotacquired bytheirmerit,andwhichtheyfeeltobedisproportionedtoit,inspire withadditionalhumility,arealwaysthefew,andthebestfew。Therest areonlyinspiredwithpride,andtheworstsortofpride,thatwhichvalues itselfuponaccidentaladvantages,notofitsownachieving。Aboveall,when thefeelingofbeingraisedabovethewholeoftheothersexiscombined withpersonalauthorityoveroneindividualamongthem;thesituation,if aschoolofconscientiousandaffectionateforbearancetothosewhosestrongest pointsofcharacterareconscienceandaffection,istomenofanotherquality aregularlyconstitutedacademyorgymnasiumfortrainingtheminarrogance andoverbearingness;whichvices,ifcurbedbythecertaintyofresistance intheirintercoursewithothermen,theirequals,breakouttowardsall whoareinapositiontobeobligedtotoleratethem,andoftenrevengethemselves upontheunfortunatewifefortheinvoluntaryrestraintwhichtheyareobligedtosubmittoelsewhere。Theexampleafforded,andtheeducationgiventothesentiments,bylaying thefoundationofdomesticexistenceuponarelationcontradictorytothe firstprinciplesofsocialjusticemust,fromtheverynatureofman,have apervertinginfluenceofsuchmagnitude,thatitishardlypossiblewith ourpresentexperiencetoraiseourimaginationstotheconceptionofso greatachangeforthebetteraswouldbemadebyitsremoval。Allthateducation andcivilisationaredoingtoeffacetheinfluencesoncharacterofthelaw offorce,andreplacethembythoseofjustice,remainsmerelyonthesurface, aslongasthecitadeloftheenemyisnotattacked。Theprincipleofthe modernmovementinmoralsandpolitics,isthatconduct,andconductalone, entitlestorespect:thatnotwhatmenare,butwhattheydo,constitutes theirclaimtodeference;that,aboveall,merit,andnotbirth,istheonly rightfulclaimtopowerandauthority。Ifnoauthority,notinitsnature temporary,wereallowedtoonehumanbeingoveranother,societywouldnot beemployedinbuildinguppropensitieswithonehandwhichithastocurb withtheother。Thechildwouldreally,forthefirsttimeinman’sexistence onearth,betrainedinthewayheshouldgo,andwhenhewasoldtherewould beachancethathewouldnotdepartfromit。Butsolongastherightof thestrongtopowerovertheweakrulesintheveryheartofsociety,the attempttomaketheequalrightoftheweaktheprincipleofitsoutward actionswillalwaysbeanuphillstruggle;forthelawofjustice,which isalsothatofChristianity,willnevergetpossessionofmen’sinmostsentiments;theywillbeworkingagainstit,evenwhenbendingtoit。Thesecondbenefittobeexpectedfromgivingtowomenthefreeuseof theirfaculties,byleavingthemthefreechoiceoftheiremployments,and openingtothemthesamefieldofoccupationandthesameprizesandencouragements astootherhumanbeings,wouldbethatofdoublingthemassofmentalfaculties availableforthehigherserviceofhumanity。Wherethereisnowoneperson qualifiedtobenefitmankindandpromotethegeneralimprovement,asapublic teacher,oranadministratorofsomebranchofpublicorsocialaffairs, therewouldthenbeachanceoftwo。Mentalsuperiorityofanykindisat presenteverywheresomuchbelowthedemand;thereissuchadeficiencyof personscompetenttodoexcellentlyanythingwhichitrequiresanyconsiderable amountofabilitytodo;thatthelosstotheworld,byrefusingtomake useofonehalfofthewholequantityoftalentitpossesses,isextremely serious。Itistruethatthisamountofmentalpowerisnottotallylost。 Muchofitisemployed,andwouldinanycasebeemployed,indomesticmanagement, andinthefewotheroccupationsopentowomen;andfromtheremainderindirect benefitisinmanyindividualcasesobtained,throughthepersonalinfluence ofindividualwomenoverindividualmen。Butthesebenefitsarepartial; theirrangeisextremelycircumscribed;andiftheymustbeadmitted,on theonehand,asadeductionfromtheamountoffreshsocialpowerthatwould beacquiredbygivingfreedomtoone—halfofthewholesumofhumanintellect, theremustbeadded,ontheother,thebenefitofthestimulusthatwould begiventotheintellectofmenbythecompetition;or(touseamoretrue expression)bythenecessitythatwouldbeimposedonthemofdeservingprecedencybeforetheycouldexpecttoobtainit。Thisgreataccessiontotheintellectualpowerofthespecies,andto theamountofintellectavailableforthegoodmanagementofitsaffairs, wouldbeobtained,partly,throughthebetterandmorecompleteintellectual educationofwomen,whichwouldthenimproveparipassuwiththatofmen。 Womeningeneralwouldbebroughtupequallycapableofunderstandingbusiness, publicaffairs,andthehighermattersofspeculation,withmenInthesame classofsociety;andtheselectfewoftheoneaswellasoftheothersex, whowerequalifiednotonlytocomprehendwhatisdoneorthoughtbyothers, buttothinkordosomethingconsiderablethemselves,wouldmeetwiththe samefacilitiesforimprovingandtrainingtheircapacitiesintheonesex asintheother。Inthisway,thewideningofthesphereofactionforwomen wouldoperateforgood,byraisingtheireducationtothelevelofthatof men,andmakingtheoneparticipateinallimprovementsmadeintheother。 Butindependentlyofthis,themerebreakingdownofthebarrierwouldof itselfhaveaneducationalvirtueofthehighestworth。Themeregetting ridoftheideathatallthewidersubjectsofthoughtandaction,allthe thingswhichareofgeneralandnotsolelyofprivateinterest,aremen’s business,fromwhichwomenaretobewarnedoff——positivelyinterdicted frommostofit,coldlytoleratedinthelittlewhichisallowedthem—— themereconsciousnessawomanwouldthenhaveofbeingahumanbeinglike anyother,entitledtochooseherpursuits,urgedorinvitedbythesame inducementsasanyoneelsetointerestherselfinwhateverisinteresting tohumanbeings,entitledtoexerttheshareofinfluenceonallhumanconcerns whichbelongstoanindividualopinion,whethersheattemptedactualparticipation inthemornot——thisalonewouldeffectanimmenseexpansionofthefacultiesofwomen,aswellasenlargementoftherangeoftheirmoralsentiments。Besidestheadditiontotheamountofindividualtalentavailablefor theconductofhumanaffairs,whichcertainlyarenotatpresentsoabundantly providedinthatrespectthattheycanaffordtodispensewithone—halfof whatnatureproffers;theopinionofwomenwouldthenpossessamorebeneficial, ratherthanagreater,influenceuponthegeneralmassofhumanbeliefand sentiment。Isayamorebeneficial,ratherthanagreaterinfluence;for theinfluenceofwomenoverthegeneraltoneofopinionhasalways,orat leastfromtheearliestknownperiod,beenveryconsiderable。Theinfluence ofmothersontheearlycharacteroftheirsons,andthedesireofyoung mentorecommendthemselvestoyoungwomen,haveinallrecordedtimesbeen importantagenciesintheformationofcharacter,andhavedeterminedsome ofthechiefstepsintheprogressofcivilisation。EvenintheHomericage, {alphaiotadeltaomegasigma}towardsthe{TAUrhoomegaalphadeltaalpha sigma}{epsilonlambdachiepsilonsigmaiotapiepsilonpilambdaomega upsilsonsigma}isanacknowledgedandpowerfulmotiveofactioninthegreat Hector。Themoralinfluenceofwomenhashadtwomodesofoperation。First, ithasbeenasofteninginfluence。Thosewhoweremostliabletobethevictims ofviolence,havenaturallytendedasmuchastheycouldtowardslimiting itssphereandmitigatingitsexcesses。Thosewhowerenottaughttofight, havenaturallyinclinedinfavourofanyothermodeofsettlingdifferences ratherthanthatoffighting。Ingeneral,thosewhohavebeenthegreatest sufferersbytheindulgenceofselfishpassion,havebeenthemostearnest supportersofanymorallawwhichofferedameansofbridlingpassion。Women werepowerfullyinstrumentalininducingthenorthernconquerorstoadopt thecreedofChristianity,acreedsomuchmorefavourabletowomenthan anythatprecededit。TheconversionoftheAnglo—SaxonsandoftheFranks maybesaidtohavebeenbegunbythewivesofEthelbertandClovis。The othermodeinwhichtheeffectofwomen’sopinionhasbeenconspicuous,is bygiving,apowerfulstimulustothosequalitiesinmen,which,notbeing themselvestrainedin,itwasnecessaryforthemthattheyshouldfindin theirprotectors。Courage,andthemilitaryvirtuesgenerally,haveatall timesbeengreatlyindebtedtothedesirewhichmenfeltofbeingadmired bywomen:andthestimulusreachesfarbeyondthisoneclassofeminentqualities, since,byaverynaturaleffectoftheirposition,thebestpassporttothe admirationandfavourofwomenhasalwaysbeentobethoughthighlyofby men。Fromthecombinationofthetwokindsofmoralinfluencethusexercised bywomen,arosethespiritofchivalry:thepeculiarityofwhichis,toaim atcombiningthehigheststandardofthewarlikequalitieswiththecultivation ofatotallydifferentclassofvirtues——thoseofgentleness,generosity, andself—abnegation,towardsthenon—militaryanddefenselessclassesgenerally, andaspecialsubmissionandworshipdirectedtowardswomen;whoweredistinguished fromtheotherdefencelessclassesbythehighrewardswhichtheyhadit intheirpowervoluntarilytobestowonthosewhoendeavouredtoearntheir favour,insteadofextortingtheirsubjection。Thoughthepracticeofchivalry fellevenmoresadlyshortofitstheoreticstandardthanpracticegenerally fallsbelowtheory,itremainsoneofthemostpreciousmonumentsofthe moralhistoryofourrace;asaremarkableinstanceofaconcertedandorganised attemptbyamostdisorganisedanddistractedsociety,toraiseupandcarry intopracticeamoralidealgreatlyinadvanceofitssocialconditionand institutions;somuchsoastohavebeencompletelyfrustratedinthemain object,yetneverentirelyinefficacious,andwhichhasleftamostsensible, andforthemostpartahighlyvaluableimpressontheideasandfeelingsofallsubsequenttimes。Thechivalrousidealistheacmeoftheinfluenceofwomen’ssentiments onthemoralcultivationofmankind:andifwomenaretoremainintheir subordinatesituation,itweregreatlytobelamentedthatthechivalrous standardshouldhavepassedaway,foritistheonlyoneatallcapableof mitigatingthedemoralisinginfluencesofthatposition。Butthechanges inthegeneralstateofthespeciesrenderedinevitablethesubstitution ofatotallydifferentidealofmoralityforthechivalrousone。Chivalry wastheattempttoinfusemoralelementsintoastateofsocietyinwhich everythingdependedforgoodorevilonindividualprowess,underthesoftening influencesofindividualdelicacyandgenerosity。Inmodernsocieties,all things,eveninthemilitarydepartmentofaffairs,aredecided,notbyindividual effort,butbythecombinedoperationsofnumbers;whilethemainoccupation ofsocietyhaschangedfromfightingtobusiness,frommilitarytoindustrial life。Theexigenciesofthenewlifearenomoreexclusiveofthevirtues ofgenerositythanthoseoftheold,butitnolongerentirelydependson them。Themainfoundationsofthemorallifeofmoderntimesmustbejustice andprudence;therespectofeachfortherightsofeveryother,andthe abilityofeachtotakecareofhimself。Chivalryleftwithoutlegalcheck allformsofwrongwhichreignedunpunishedthroughoutsociety;itonlyencouraged afewtodorightinpreferencetowrong,bythedirectionitgavetothe instrumentsofpraiseandadmiration。Buttherealdependenceofmorality mustalwaysbeuponitspenalsanctions——itspowertodeterfromevil。 Thesecurityofsocietycannotrestonmerelyrenderinghonourtoright, amotivesocomparativelyweakinallbutafew,andwhichonverymanydoes notoperateatall。Modernsocietyisabletorepresswrongthroughalldepartments oflife,byafitexertionofthesuperiorstrengthwhichcivilisationhas givenit,andthustorendertheexistenceoftheweakermembersofsociety (nolongerdefenselessbutprotectedbylaw)tolerabletothem,withoutreliance onthechivalrousfeelingsofthosewhoareinapositiontotyrannise。The beautiesandgracesofthechivalrouscharacterarestillwhattheywere, buttherightsoftheweak,andthegeneralcomfortofhumanlife,nowrest onafarsurerandsteadiersupport;orrather,theydosoineveryrelationoflifeexcepttheconjugal。Atpresentthemoralinfluenceofwomenisnolessreal,butitisno longerofsomarkedanddefiniteacharacter:ithasmorenearlymergedin thegeneralinfluenceofpublicopinion。Boththroughthecontagionofsympathy, andthroughthedesireofmentoshineintheeyesofwomen,theirfeelings havegreateffectinkeepingalivewhatremainsofthechivalrousideal—— infosteringthesentimentsandcontinuingthetraditionsofspiritandgenerosity。 Inthesepointsofcharacter,theirstandardishigherthanthatofmen; inthequalityofjustice,somewhatlower。Asregardstherelationsofprivate lifeitmaybesaidgenerally,thattheirinfluenceis,onthewhole,encouraging tothesoftervirtues,discouragingtothesterner:thoughthestatement mustbetakenwithallthemodificationsdependentonindividualcharacter。 Inthechiefofthegreatertrialstowhichvirtueissubjectintheconcerns oflife——theconflictbetweeninterestandprinciple——thetendencyof women’sinfluence——isofaverymixedcharacter。Whentheprincipleinvolved happenstobeoneoftheveryfewwhichthecourseoftheirreligiousor moraleducationhasstronglyimpresseduponthemselves,theyarepotentauxiliaries tovirtue:andtheirhusbandsandsonsareoftenpromptedbythemtoacts ofabnegationwhichtheyneverwouldhavebeencapableofwithoutthatstimulus。 But,withthepresenteducationandpositionofwomen,themoralprinciples whichhavebeenimpressedonthemcoverbutacomparativelysmallpartof thefieldofvirtue,andare,moreover,principallynegative;forbidding particularacts,buthavinglittletodowiththegeneraldirectionofthe thoughtsandpurposes。Iamafraiditmustbesaid,thatdisinterestedness inthegeneralconductoflife——thedevotionoftheenergiestopurposes whichholdoutnopromiseofprivateadvantagestothefamily——isvery seldomencouragedorsupportedbywomen’sinfluence。Itissmallblameto themthattheydiscourageobjectsofwhichtheyhavenotlearnttoseethe advantage,andwhichwithdrawtheirmenfromthem,andfromtheinterests ofthefamily。Buttheconsequenceisthatwomen’sinfluenceisoftenanythingbutfavourabletopublicvirtue。Womenhave,however,someshareofinfluenceingivingthetonetopublic moralitiessincetheirsphereofactionhasbeenalittlewidened,andsince aconsiderablenumberofthemhaveoccupiedthemselvespracticallyinthe promotionofobjectsreachingbeyondtheirownfamilyandhousehold。The influenceofwomencountsforagreatdealintwoofthemostmarkedfeatures ofmodernEuropeanlife——itsaversiontowar,anditsaddictiontophilanthropy。 Excellentcharacteristicsboth;butunhappily,iftheinfluenceofwomen isvaluableintheencouragementitgivestothesefeelingsingeneral,in theparticularapplicationsthedirectionitgivestothemisatleastas oftenmischievousasuseful。Inthephilanthropicdepartmentmoreparticularly, thetwoprovinceschieflycultivatedbywomenarereligiousproselytismand charity。Religiousproselytismathome,isbutanotherwordforembittering ofreligiousanimosities:abroad,itisusuallyablindrunningatanobject, withouteitherknowingorheedingthefatalmischiefs——fataltothereligious objectitselfaswellastoallotherdesirableobjects——whichmaybeproduced bythemeansemployed。Asforcharity,itisamatterinwhichtheimmediate effectonthepersonsdirectlyconcerned,andtheultimateconsequenceto thegeneralgood,areapttobeatcompletewarwithoneanother:whilethe educationgiventowomen——aneducationofthesentimentsratherthanof theunderstanding——andthehabitinculcatedbytheirwholelife,oflooking toimmediateeffectsonpersons,andnottoremoteeffectsonclassesof persons——makethembothunabletosee,andunwillingtoadmit,theultimate eviltendencyofanyformofcharityorphilanthropywhichcommendsitself totheirsympatheticfeelings。Thegreatandcontinuallyincreasingmass ofunenlightenedandshortsightedbenevolence,which,takingthecareof people’slivesoutoftheirownhands,andrelievingthemfromthedisagreeable consequencesoftheirownacts,sapstheveryfoundationsoftheself—respect, self—help,andself—controlwhicharetheessentialconditionsbothofindividual prosperityandofsocialvirtue——thiswasteofresourcesandofbenevolent feelingsindoingharminsteadofgood,isimmenselyswelledbywomen’scontributions, andstimulatedbytheirinfluence。Notthatthisisamistakelikelytobe madebywomen,wheretheyhaveactuallythepracticalmanagementofschemes ofbeneficence。Itsometimeshappensthatwomenwhoadministerpubliccharities ——withthatinsightintopresentfact,andespeciallyintothemindsand feelingsofthosewithwhomtheyareinimmediatecontact,inwhichwomen generallyexcelmen——recogniseintheclearestmannerthedemoralising influenceofthealmsgivenorthehelpafforded,andcouldgivelessons onthesubjecttomanyamalepoliticaleconomist。Butwomenwhoonlygive theirmoney,andarenotbroughtfacetofacewiththeeffectsitproduces, howcantheybeexpectedtoforeseethem?Awomanborntothepresentlot ofwomen,andcontentwithit,howshouldsheappreciatethevalueofself—dependence? Sheisnotself—dependent;sheisnottaughtself—dependence;herdestiny istoreceiveeverythingfromothers,andwhyshouldwhatisgoodenough forherbebadforthepoor?Herfamiliarnotionsofgoodareofblessings descendingfromasuperior。Sheforgetsthatsheisnotfree,andthatthe poorare;thatifwhattheyneedisgiventothemunearned,theycannotbe compelledtoearnit:thateverybodycannotbetakencareofbyeverybody, buttheremustbesomemotivetoinducepeopletotakecareofthemselves; andthattobehelped—tohelpthemselves,iftheyarephysicallycapableofit,istheonlycharitywhichprovestobecharityintheend。###第6章Theseconsiderationsshowhowusefullythepartwhichwomentakeinthe formationofgeneralopinion,wouldbemodifiedforthebetterbythatmore enlargedinstruction,andpracticalconversancywiththethingswhichtheir opinionsinfluence,thatwouldnecessarilyarisefromtheirsocialandpolitical emancipation。Buttheimprovementitwouldworkthroughtheinfluencetheyexercise,eachinherownfamily,wouldbestillmoreremarkable。Itisoftensaidthatintheclassesmostexposedtotemptation,aman’s wifeandchildrentendtokeephimhonestandrespectable,bothbythewife’s directinfluence,andbytheconcernhefeelsfortheirfuturewelfare。This maybeso,andnodoubtoftenisso,withthosewhoaremoreweakthanwicked; andthisbeneficialinfluencewouldbepreservedandstrengthenedunderequal laws;itdoesnotdependonthewoman’sservitude,butis,onthecontrary, diminishedbythedisrespectwhichtheinferiorclassofmenalwaysatheart feeltowardsthosewhoaresubjecttotheirpower。Butwhenweascendhigher inthescale,wecomeamongatotallydifferentsetofmovingforces。The wife’sinfluencetends,asfarasitgoes,topreventthehusbandfromfalling belowthecommonstandardofapprobationofthecountry。Ittendsquiteas stronglytohinderhimfromrisingaboveit。Thewifeistheauxiliaryof thecommonpublicopinion。Amanwhoismarriedtoawomanhisinferiorin intelligence,findsheraperpetualdeadweight,or,worsethanadeadweight, adrag,uponeveryaspirationofhistobebetterthanpublicopinionrequires himtobe。Itishardlypossibleforonewhoisinthesebonds,toattain exaltedvirtue。Ifhediffersinhisopinionfromthemass——ifhesees truthswhichhavenotyetdawneduponthem,orif,feelinginhishearttruths whichtheynominallyrecognise,hewouldliketoactuptothosetruthsmore conscientiouslythanthegeneralityofmankind——toallsuchthoughtsand desires,marriageistheheaviestofdrawbacks,unlesshebesofortunateastohaveawifeasmuchabovethecommonlevelashehimselfis。For,inthefirstplace,thereisalwayssomesacrificeofpersonalinterest required;eitherofsocialconsequence,orofpecuniarymeans;perhapsthe riskofeventhemeansofsubsistence。Thesesacrificesandriskshemay bewillingtoencounterforhimself;buthewillpausebeforeheimposes themonhisfamily。Andhisfamilyinthiscasemeanshiswifeanddaughters; forhealwayshopesthathissonswillfeelashefeelshimself,andthat whathecandowithout,theywilldowithout,willingly,isthesamecause。 Buthisdaughters——theirmarriagemaydependuponit:andhiswife,who isunabletoenterintoorunderstandtheobjectsforwhichthesesacrifices aremade——who,ifshethoughtthemworthanysacrifice,wouldthinkso ontrust,andsolelyforhissake——whocouldparticipateinnoneofthe enthusiasmortheself—approbationhehimselfmayfeel,whilethethings whichheisdisposedtosacrificeareallinalltoher;willnotthebest andmostunselfishmanhesitatethelongestbeforebringingonherthisconsequence? Ifitbenotthecomfortsoflife,butonlysocialconsideration,thatis atstake,theburthenuponhisconscienceandfeelingsisstillverysevere。 WhoeverhasawifeandchildrenhasgivenhostagestoMrsGrundy。Theapprobation ofthatpotentatemaybeamatterofindifferencetohim,butitisofgreat importancetohiswife。Themanhimselfmaybeaboveopinion,ormayfind sufficientcompensationintheopinionofthoseofhisownwayofthinking。 Buttothewomenconnectedwithhim,hecanoffernocompensation。Thealmost invariabletendencyofthewifetoplaceherinfluenceinthesamescale withsocialconsideration,issometimesmadeareproachtowomen,andrepresented asapeculiartraitoffeeblenessandchildishnessofcharacterinthem: surelywithgreatinjustice。Societymakesthewholelifeofawoman,in theeasyclasses,acontinuedselfsacrifice;itexactsfromheranunremitting restraintofthewholeofhernaturalinclinations,andthesolereturnit makestoherforwhatoftendeservesthenameofamartyrdom,isconsideration。 Herconsiderationisinseparablyconnectedwiththatofherhusband,and afterpayingthefullpriceforit,shefindsthatsheistoloseit,for noreasonofwhichshecanfeelthecogency。Shehassacrificedherwhole lifetoit,andherhusbandwillnotsacrificetoitawhim,afreak,an eccentricity;somethingnotrecognisedorallowedforbytheworld,andwhich theworldwillagreewithherinthinkingafolly,ifitthinksnoworse! Thedilemmaishardestuponthatverymeritoriousclassofmen,who,without possessingtalentswhichqualifythemtomakeafigureamongthosewithwhom theyagreeinopinion,holdtheiropinionfromconviction,andfeelbound inhonourandconsciencetoserveit,bymakingprofessionoftheirbelief, andgivingtheirtime,labour,andmeans,toanythingundertakeninitsbehalf。 Theworstcaseofalliswhensuchmenhappentobeofarankandposition whichofitselfneithergivesthem,norexcludesthemfrom,whatisconsidered thebestsociety;whentheiradmissiontoitdependsmainlyonwhatisthought ofthempersonally——andhoweverunexceptionabletheirbreedingandhabits, theirbeingidentifiedwithopinionsandpublicconductunacceptabletothose whogivethetonetosocietywouldoperateasaneffectualexclusion。Many awomanflattersherself(ninetimesoutoftenquiteerroneously)thatnothing preventsherandherhusbandfrommovinginthehighestsocietyofherneighbourhood ——societyinwhichotherswellknowntoher,andinthesameclassoflife, mixfreely——exceptthatherhusbandisunfortunatelyaDissenter,orhas thereputationofminglinginlowradicalpolitics。Thatitis,shethinks, whichhindersGeorgefromgettingacommissionoraplace,Carolinefrom makinganadvantageousmatch,andpreventsherandherhusbandfromobtaining invitations,perhapshonours,which,foraughtshesees,theyareaswell entitledtoassomefolks。Withsuchaninfluenceineveryhouse,either exertedactively,oroperatingallthemorepowerfullyfornotbeingasserted, isitanywonderthatpeopleingeneralarekeptdowninthatmediocrityofrespectabilitywhichisbecomingamarkedcharacteristicofmoderntimes?Thereisanotherveryinjuriousaspectinwhichtheeffect,notofwomen’s disabilitiesdirectly,butofthebroadlineofdifferencewhichthosedisabilities createbetweentheeducationandcharacterofawomanandthatofaman, requirestobeconsidered。Nothingcanbemoreunfavourabletothatunion ofthoughtsandinclinationswhichistheidealofmarriedlife。Intimate societybetweenpeopleradicallydissimilartooneanother,isanidledream。 Unlikenessmayattract,butitislikenesswhichretains;andinproportion tothelikenessisthesuitabilityoftheindividualstogiveeachother ahappylife。Whilewomenaresounlikemen,itisnotwonderfulthatselfish menshouldfeeltheneedofarbitrarypowerintheirownhands,toarrest inliminethelife—longconflictofinclinations,bydecidingeveryquestion onthesideoftheirownpreference。Whenpeopleareextremelyunlike,there canbenorealidentityofinterest。Veryoftenthereisconscientiousdifference ofopinionbetweenmarriedpeople,onthehighestpointsofduty。Isthere anyrealityinthemarriageunionwherethistakesplace?Yetitisnotuncommon anywhere,whenthewomanhasanyearnestnessofcharacter;anditisavery generalcaseindeedinCatholiccountries,whensheissupportedinherdissent bytheonlyotherauthoritytowhichsheistaughttobow,thepriest。With theusualbarefacednessofpowernotaccustomedtofinditselfdisputed, theinfluenceofpriestsoverwomenisattackedbyProtestantandLiberal writers,lessforbeingbadinitself,thanbecauseitisarivalauthority tothehusband,andraisesuparevoltagainsthisinfallibility。InEngland, similardifferencesoccasionallyexistwhenanEvangelicalwifehasallied herselfwithahusbandofadifferentquality;butingeneralthissource atleastofdissensionisgotridof,byreducingthemindsofwomentosuch anullity,thattheyhavenoopinionsbutthoseofMrs。Grundy,orthose whichthehusbandtellsthemtohave。Whenthereisnodifferenceofopinion, differencesmerelyoftastemaybesufficienttodetractgreatlyfromthe happinessofmarriedlife。Andthoughitmaystimulatetheamatorypropensities ofmen,itdoesnotconducetomarriedhappiness,toexaggeratebydifferences ofeducationwhatevermaybethenativedifferencesofthesexes。Ifthe marriedpairarewell—bredandwell—behavedpeople,theytolerateeachother’s tastes;butismutualtolerationwhatpeoplelookforwardto,whentheyenter intomarriage?Thesedifferencesofinclinationwillnaturallymaketheir wishesdifferent,ifnotrestrainedbyaffectionorduty,astoalmostall domesticquestionswhicharise。Whatadifferencetheremustbeinthesociety whichthetwopersonswillwishtofrequent,orbefrequentedby!Eachwill desireassociateswhosharetheirowntastes:thepersonsagreeabletoone, willbeindifferentorpositivelydisagreeabletotheother;yettherecan benonewhoarenotcommontoboth,formarriedpeopledonotnowlivein differentpartsofthehouseandhavetotallydifferentvisitinglists,as inthereignofLouisXV。Theycannothelphavingdifferentwishesasto thebringingupofthechildren:eachwillwishtoseereproducedinthem theirowntastesandsentiments:andthereiseitheracompromise,andonly ahalfsatisfactiontoeither,orthewifehastoyield——oftenwithbitter suffering;and,withorwithoutintention,heroccultinfluencecontinuestocounterworkthehusband’spurposes。Itwouldofcoursebeextremefollytosupposethatthesedifferences offeelingandinclinationonlyexistbecausewomenarebroughtupdifferently frommen,andthattherewouldnotbedifferencesoftasteunderanyimaginable circumstances。Butthereisnothingbeyondthemarkinsayingthatthedistinction inbringingupimmenselyaggravatesthosedifferences,andrendersthemwholly inevitable。Whilewomenarebroughtupastheyare,amanandawomanwill butrarelyfindinoneanotherrealagreementoftastesandwishesasto dailylife。Theywillgenerallyhavetogiveitupashopeless,andrenounce theattempttohave,intheintimateassociateoftheirdailylife,that idemvelle,idemnolle,whichistherecognisedbondofanysocietythat isreallysuch:orifthemansucceedsinobtainingit,hedoessobychoosing awomanwhoissocompleteanullitythatshehasnovelleornolleatall, andisasreadytocomplywithonethingasanotherifanybodytellsher todoso。Eventhiscalculationisapttofail;dullnessandwantofspirit arenotalwaysaguaranteeofthesubmissionwhichissoconfidentlyexpected fromthem。Butiftheywere,isthistheidealofmarriage?What,inthis case,doesthemanobtainbyit,exceptanupperservant,anurse,oramistress? onthecontrary,wheneachoftwopersons,insteadofbeinganothing,is asomething;whentheyareattachedtooneanother,andarenottoomuch unliketobeginwith;theconstantpartakinginthesamethings,assisted bytheirsympathy,drawsoutthelatentcapacitiesofeachforbeinginterested inthethingswhichwereatfirstinterestingonlytotheother;andworks agradualassimilationofthetastesandcharacterstooneanother,partly bytheinsensiblemodificationofeach,butmorebyarealenrichingofthe twonatures,eachacquiringthetastesandcapacitiesoftheotherinaddition toitsown。Thisoftenhappensbetweentwofriendsofthesamesex,whoare muchassociatedintheirdailylife:anditwouldbeacommon,ifnotthe commonest,caseinmarriage,didnotthetotallydifferentbringingupof thetwosexesmakeitnexttoanimpossibilitytoformareallywell—assorted union。Werethisremedied,whateverdifferencestheremightstillbeinindividual tastes,therewouldatleastbe,asageneralrule,completeunityandunanimity astothegreatobjectsoflife。Whenthetwopersonsbothcareforgreat objects,andareahelpandencouragementtoeachotherinwhateverregards these,theminormattersonwhichtheirtastesmaydifferarenotall—important tothem;andthereisafoundationforsolidfriendship,ofanenduringcharacter, morelikelythananythingelsetomakeit,throughthewholeoflife,agreaterpleasuretoeachtogivepleasuretotheother,thantoreceiveit。Ihaveconsidered,thusfar,theeffectsonthepleasuresandbenefits ofthemarriageunionwhichdependonthemereunlikenessbetweenthewife andthehusband:buttheeviltendencyisprodigiouslyaggravatedwhenthe unlikenessisinferiority。Mereunlikeness,whenitonlymeansdifference ofgoodqualities,maybemoreabenefitinthewayofmutualimprovement, thanadrawbackfromcomfort。Wheneachemulates,anddesiresandendeavours toacquire,theother’speculiarqualitiesthedifferencedoesnotproduce diversityofinterest,butincreasedidentityofit,andmakeseachstill morevaluabletotheother。Butwhenoneismuchtheinferiorofthetoin mentalabilityandcultivation,andisnotactivelyattemptingbytheother’s aidtorisetotheother’slevel,thewholeinfluenceoftheconnexionupon thedevelopmentofthesuperiorofthetwoisdeteriorating:andstillmore soinatolerablyhappymarriagethaninanunhappyone。Itisnotwithimpunity thatthesuperiorinintellectshutshimselfupwithaninferior,andelects thatinferiorforhischosen,andsolecompletelyintimate,associate。Any societywhichisnotimprovingisdeteriorating:andthemoreso,thecloser andmorefamiliaritis。Evenareallysuperiormanalmostalwaysbegins todeterioratewhenheishabitually(asthephraseis)kingofhiscompany: andinhismosthabitualcompanythehusbandwhohasawifeinferiortohim isalwaysso。Whilehisself—satisfactionisincessantlyministeredtoon theonehand,ontheotherheinsensiblyimbibesthemodesoffeeling,and oflookingatthings,whichbelongtoamorevulgaroramorelimitedmind thanhisown。Thisevildiffersfrommanyofthosewhichhavehithertobeen dwelton,bybeinganincreasingone。Theassociationofmenwithwomenin dailylifeismuchcloserandmorecompletethaniteverwasbefore。Men’s lifeismoredomestic。Formerly,theirpleasuresandchosenoccupationswere amongmen,andinmen’scompany:theirwiveshadbutafragmentoftheir lives。Atthepresenttime,theprogressofcivilisation,andtheturnof opinionagainsttheroughamusementsandconvivialexcesseswhichformerly occupiedmostmenintheirhoursofrelaxation——togetherwith(itmust besaid)theimprovedtoneofmodernfeelingastothereciprocityofduty whichbindsthehusbandtowardsthewife——havethrownthemanverymuch moreuponhomeanditsinmates,forhispersonalandsocialpleasures:while thekindanddegreeofimprovementwhichhasbeenmadeinwomen’seducation, hasmadetheminsomedegreecapableofbeinghiscompanionsinideasand mentaltaste,whileleavingthem,inmostcases,stillhopelesslyinferior tohim。Hisdesireofmentalcommunionisthusingeneralsatisfiedbya communionfromwhichhelearnsnothing。Anunimprovingandunstimulating companionshipissubstitutedfor(whathemightotherwisehavebeenobliged toseek)thesocietyofhisequalsinpowersandhisfellowsinthehigher pursuits。Wesee,accordingly,thatyoungmenofthegreatestpromisegenerally ceasetoimproveassoonastheymarry,and,notimproving,inevitablydegenerate。 Ifthewifedoesnotpushthehusbandforward,shealwaysholdshimback。 Heceasestocareforwhatshedoesnotcarefor;henolongerdesires,and endsbydislikingandshunning,societycongenialtohisformeraspirations, andwhichwouldnowshamehisfalling—offfromthem;hishigherfaculties bothofmindandheartceasetobecalledintoactivity。Andthischange coincidingwiththenewandselfishinterestswhicharecreatedbythefamily, afterafewyearshediffersinnomaterialrespectfromthosewhohavenever hadwishesforanythingbutthecommonvanitiesandthecommonpecuniaryobjects。Whatmarriagemaybeinthecaseoftwopersonsofcultivatedfaculties, identicalinopinionsandpurposes,betweenwhomthereexiststhatbestkind ofequality,similarityofpowersandcapacitieswithreciprocalsuperiority inthem——sothateachcanenjoytheluxuryoflookinguptotheother, andcanhavealternatelythepleasureofleadingandofbeingledinthe pathofdevelopment——Iwillnotattempttodescribe。Tothosewhocanconceive it,thereisnoneed;tothosewhocannot,itwouldappearthedreamofan enthusiast。ButImaintain,withtheprofoundestconviction,thatthis,and thisonly,istheidealofmarriage;andthatallopinions,customs,and institutionswhichfavouranyothernotionofit,orturntheconceptions andaspirationsconnectedwithitintoanyotherdirection,bywhateverpretences theymaybecoloured,arerelicsofprimitivebarbarism。Themoralregeneration ofmankindwillonlyreallycommence,whenthemostfundamentalofthesocial relationsisplacedundertheruleofequaljustice,andwhenhumanbeings learntocultivatetheirstrongestsympathywithanequalinnightsandincultivation。Thusfar,thebenefitswhichithasappearedthattheworldwouldgain byceasingtomakesexadisqualificationforprivilegesandabadgeofsubjection, aresocialratherthanindividual;consistinginanincreaseofthegeneral fundofthinkingandactingpower,andanimprovementinthegeneralconditions oftheassociationofmenwithwomen。Butitwouldbeagrievousunderstatement ofthecasetoomitthemostdirectbenefitofall,theunspeakablegain inprivatehappinesstotheliberatedhalfofthespecies;thedifference tothembetweenalifeofsubjectiontothewillofothers,andalifeof rationalfreedom。Aftertheprimarynecessitiesoffoodandraiment,freedom isthefirstandstrongestwantofhumannature。Whilemankindarelawless, theirdesireisforlawlessfreedom。Whentheyhavelearnttounderstand themeaningofdutyandthevalueofreason,theyinclinemoreandmoreto beguidedandrestrainedbytheseintheexerciseoftheirfreedom;butthey donotthereforedesirefreedomless;theydonotbecomedisposedtoaccept thewillofotherpeopleastherepresentativeandinterpreterofthoseguiding principles。Onthecontrary,thecommunitiesinwhichthereasonhasbeen mostcultivated,andinwhichtheideaofsocialdutyhasbeenmostpowerful, arethosewhichhavemoststronglyassertedthefreedomofactionofthe individual——thelibertyofeachtogovernhisconductbyhisownfeelings ofduty,andbysuchlawsandsocialrestraintsashisownconsciencecansubscribeto。Hewhowouldrightlyappreciatetheworthofpersonalindependenceas anelementofhappiness,shouldconsiderthevaluehehimselfputsuponit asaningredientofhisown。Thereisnosubjectonwhichthereisagreater habitualdifferenceofjudgmentbetweenamanjudgingforhimself,andthe samemanjudgingforotherpeople。Whenhehearsotherscomplainingthat theyarenotallowedfreedomofaction——thattheirownwillhasnotsufficient influenceintheregulationoftheiraffairs——hisinclinationis,toask, whataretheirgrievances?whatpositivedamagetheysustain?andinwhat respecttheyconsidertheiraffairstobemismanaged?andiftheyfailto makeout,inanswertothesequestions,whatappearstohimasufficient case,heturnsadeafear,andregardstheircomplaintasthefancifulquerulousness ofpeoplewhomnothingreasonablewillsatisfy。Buthehasaquitedifferent standardofjudgmentwhenheisdecidingforhimself。Then,themostunexceptionable administrationofhisinterestsbyatutorsetoverhim,doesnotsatisfy hisfeelings:hispersonalexclusionfromthedecidingauthorityappears itselfthegreatestgrievanceofall,renderingitsuperfluouseventoenter intothequestionofmismanagement。Itisthesamewithnations。Whatcitizen ofafreecountrywouldlistentoanyoffersofgoodandskilfuladministration, inreturnfortheabdicationoffreedom?Evenifhecouldbelievethatgood andskilfuladministrationcanexistamongapeopleruledbyawillnottheir own,wouldnottheconsciousnessofworkingouttheirowndestinyundertheir ownmoralresponsibilitybeacompensationtohisfeelingsforgreatrudeness andimperfectioninthedetailsofpublicaffairs?Lethimrestassuredthat whateverhefeelsonthispoint,womenfeelinafullyequaldegree。Whatever hasbeensaidorwritten,fromthetimeofHerodotustothepresent,ofthe ennoblinginfluenceoffreegovernment——thenerveandspringwhichitgives toallthefaculties,thelargerandhigherobjectswhichitpresentsto theintellectandfeelings,themoreunselfishpublicspirit,andcalmer andbroaderviewsofduty,thatitengenders,andthegenerallyloftierplatform onwhichitelevatestheindividualasamoral,spiritual,andsocialbeing ——iseveryparticleastrueofwomenasofmen。Arethesethingsnoimportant partofindividualhappiness?Letanymancalltomindwhathehimselffelt onemergingfromboyhood——fromthetutelageandcontrolofevenlovedand affectionateelders——andenteringupontheresponsibilitiesofmanhood。 Wasitnotlikethephysicaleffectoftakingoffaheavyweight,orreleasing himfromobstructive,evenifnototherwisepainful,bonds?Didhenotfeel twiceasmuchalive,twiceasmuchahumanbeing,asbefore?Anddoeshe imaginethatwomenhavenoneofthesefeelings?Butitisastrikingfact, thatthesatisfactionsandmortificationsofpersonalpride,thoughallin alltomostmenwhenthecaseistheirown,havelessallowancemadefor theminthecaseofotherpeople,andarelesslistenedtoasagroundor ajustificationofconduct,thananyothernaturalhumanfeelings;perhaps becausemencomplimentthemintheirowncasewiththenamesofsomanyother qualities,thattheyareseldomconscioushowmightyaninfluencethesefeelings exerciseintheirownlives。Nolesslargeandpowerfulistheirpart,we mayassureourselves,inthelivesandfeelingsofwomen。Womenareschooled intosuppressingthemintheirmostnaturalandmosthealthydirection,but theinternalprincipleremains,inadifferentoutwardform。Anactiveand energeticmind,ifdeniedliberty,willseekforpower:refusedthecommand ofitself,itwillassertitspersonalitybyattemptingtocontrolothers。 Toallowtoanyhumanbeingsnoexistenceoftheirownbutwhatdependson others,isgivingfartoohighapremiumonbendingotherstotheirpurposes。 Wherelibertycannotbehopedfor,andpowercan,powerbecomesthegrand objectofhumandesire;thosetowhomotherswillnotleavetheundisturbed managementoftheirownaffairs,willcompensatethemselves,iftheycan, bymeddlingfortheirownpurposeswiththeaffairsofothers。Hencealso women’spassionforpersonalbeauty,anddressanddisplay;andalltheevils thatflowfromit,inthewayofmischievousluxuryandsocialimmorality。 Theloveofpowerandtheloveoflibertyareineternalantagonism。Where thereisleastliberty,thepassionforpoweristhemostardentandunscrupulous。 Thedesireofpoweroverotherscanonlyceasetobeadepravingagencyamong mankind,wheneachofthemindividuallyisabletodowithoutit:whichcan onlybewhererespectforlibertyinthepersonalconcernsofeachisanestablishedprinciple。Butitisnotonlythroughthesentimentofpersonaldignity,thatthe freedirectionanddisposaloftheirownfacultiesisasourceofindividual happiness,andtobefetteredandrestrictedinit,asourceofunhappiness, tohumanbeings,andnotleasttowomen。Thereisnothing,afterdisease, indigence,andguilt,sofataltothepleasurableenjoymentoflifeasthe wantofaworthyoutletfortheactivefaculties。Womenwhohavethecares ofafamily,andwhiletheyhavethecaresofafamily,havethisoutlet, anditgenerallysufficesforthem:butwhatofthegreatlyincreasingnumber ofwomen,whohavehadnoopportunityofexercisingthevocationwhichthey aremockedbytellingthemistheirproperone?Whatofthewomenwhosechildren havebeenlosttothembydeathordistance,orhavegrownup,married,and formedhomesoftheirown?Thereareabundantexamplesofmenwho,after alifeengrossedbybusiness,retirewithacompetencytotheenjoyment, astheyhope,ofrest,buttowhom,astheyareunabletoacquirenewinterests andexcitementsthatcanreplacetheold,thechangetoalifeofinactivity bringsennui,melancholy,andprematuredeath。Yetnoonethinksoftheparallel caseofsomanyworthyanddevotedwomen,who,havingpaidwhattheyare toldistheirdebttosociety——havingbroughtupafamilyblamelesslyto manhoodandwomanhood——havingkeptahouseaslongastheyhadahouse needingtobekept——aredesertedbythesoleoccupationforwhichthey havefittedthemselves;andremainwithundiminishedactivitybutwithno employmentforit,unlessperhapsadaughterordaughter—in—lawiswilling toabdicateintheirfavourthedischargeofthesamefunctionsinheryounger household。Surelyahardlotfortheoldageofthosewhohaveworthilydischarged, aslongasitwasgiventothemtodischarge,whattheworldaccountstheir onlysocialduty。Ofsuchwomen,andofthoseotherstowhomthisdutyhas notbeencommittedatall——manyofwhompinethroughlifewiththeconsciousness ofthwartedvocations,andactivitieswhicharenotsufferedtoexpand—— theonlyresources,speakinggenerally,arereligionandcharity。Buttheir religion,thoughitmaybeoneoffeeling,andofceremonialobservance, cannotbeareligionofaction,unlessintheformofcharity。Forcharity manyofthemarebynatureadmirablyfitted;buttopractiseitusefully, orevenwithoutdoingmischief,requirestheeducation,themanifoldpreparation, theknowledgeandthethinkingpowers,ofaskilfuladministrator。There arefewoftheadministrativefunctionsofgovernmentforwhichaperson wouldnotbefit,whoisfittobestowcharityusefully。Inthisasinother cases(pre—eminentlyinthatoftheeducationofchildren),thedutiespermitted towomencannotbeperformedproperly,withouttheirbeingtrainedforduties which,tothegreatlossofsociety,arenotpermittedtothem。Andhere letmenoticethesingularwayinwhichthequestionofwomen’sdisabilities isfrequentlypresentedtoview,bythosewhofinditeasiertodrawaludicrous pictureofwhattheydonotlike,thantoanswertheargumentsforit。When itissuggestedthatwomen’sexecutivecapacitiesandprudentcounselsmight sometimesbefoundvaluableinaffairsofState,theseloversoffunhold uptotheridiculeoftheworld,assittinginParliamentorintheCabinet, girlsintheirteens,oryoungwivesoftwoorthreeandtwenty,transported bodily,exactlyastheyare,fromthedrawing—roomtotheHouseofCommons。 Theyforgetthatmalesarenotusuallyselectedatthisearlyageforaseat inParliament,orforresponsiblepoliticalfunctions。Commonsensewould tellthemthatifsuchtrustswereconfidedtowomen,itwouldbetosuch ashavingnospecialvocationformarriedlife,orpreferringanotheremployment oftheirfaculties(asmanywomenevennowprefertomarriagesomeofthe fewhonourableoccupationswithintheirreach),havespentthebestyears oftheiryouthinattemptingtoqualifythemselvesforthepursuitsinwhich theydesiretoengage;orstillmorefrequentlyperhaps,widowsorwives offortyorfifty,bywhomtheknow—ledgeoflifeandfacultyofgovernment whichtheyhaveacquiredintheirfamilies,couldbytheaidofappropriate studiesbemadeavailableonalesscontractedscale。Thereisnocountry ofEuropeinwhichtheablestmenhavenotfrequentlyexperienced,andkeenly appreciated,thevalueoftheadviceandhelpofcleverandexperiencedwomen oftheworld,intheattainmentbothofprivateandofpublicobjects;and thereareimportantmattersofpublicadministrationtowhichfewmenare equallycompetentwithsuchwomen;amongothers,thedetailedcontrolof expenditure。Butwhatwearenowdiscussingisnottheneedwhichsociety hasoftheservicesofwomeninpublicbusiness,butthedullandhopeless lifetowhichitsooftencondemnsthem,byforbiddingthemtoexercisethe practicalabilitieswhichmanyofthemareconsciousof,inanywiderfield thanonewhichtosomeofthemneverwas,andtoothersisnolonger,open。 Ifthereisanythingvitallyimportanttothehappinessofhumanbeings, itisthattheyshouldrelishtheirhabitualpursuit。Thisrequisiteofan enjoyablelifeisveryimperfectlygranted,oraltogetherdenied,toalarge partofmankind;andbyitsabsencemanyalifeisafailure,whichisprovided, inappearance,witheveryrequisiteofsuccess。Butifcircumstanceswhich societyisnotyetskilfulenoughtoovercome,rendersuchfailuresoften forthepresentinevitable,societyneednotitselfinflictthem。Theinjudiciousness ofparents,ayouth’sowninexperience,ortheabsenceofexternalopportunities forthecongenialvocation,andtheirpresenceforanuncongenial,condemn numbersofmentopasstheirlivesindoingonethingreluctantlyandill, whenthereareotherthingswhichtheycouldhavedonewellandhappily。 Butonwomenthissentenceisimposedbyactuallaw,andbycustomsequivalent tolaw。What,inunenlightenedsocieties,colour,race,religion,orinthe caseofaconqueredcountry,nationality,aretosomemen,sexistoall women;aperemptoryexclusionfromalmostallhonourableoccupations,but eithersuchascannotbefulfilledbyothers,orsuchasthoseothersdo notthinkworthyoftheiracceptance。Sufferingsarisingfromcausesofthis natureusuallymeetwithsolittlesympathy,thatfewpersonsareawareof thegreatamountofunhappinessevennowproducedbythefeelingofawasted life。Thecasewillbeevenmorefrequent,asincreasedcultivationcreates agreaterandgreaterdisproportionbetweentheideasandfaculties——ofwomen,andthescopewhichsocietyallowstotheiractivity。Whenweconsiderthepositiveevilcausedtothedisqualifiedhalfof thehumanracebytheirdisqualification——firstinthelossofthemost inspiritingandelevatingkindofpersonalenjoyment,andnextintheweariness, disappointment,andprofounddissatisfactionwithlife,whicharesooften thesubstituteforit;onefeelsthatamongallthelessonswhichmenrequire forcarryingonthestruggleagainsttheinevitableimperfectionsoftheir lotonearth,thereisnolessonwhichtheymoreneed,thannottoaddto theevilswhichnatureinflicts,bytheirjealousandprejudicedrestrictions ononeanother。Theirvainfearsonlysubstituteotherandworseevilsfor thosewhichtheyareidlyapprehensiveof:whileeveryrestraintonthefreedom ofconductofanyoftheirhumanfellow—creatures(otherwisethanbymaking themresponsibleforanyevilactuallycausedbyit),driesupprotanto theprincipalfountainofhumanhappiness,andleavesthespecieslessrich, toaninappreciabledegree,inallthatmakeslifevaluabletotheindividual humanbeing。